
Actor Virginia Gardner from Hulu's "Runaways" and "F Marry Kill" joins us on Story & Craft.
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Actor Virginia Gardner from Hulu’s “Runaways” and “F Marry Kill” joins us on Story & Craft.
Virginia’s work includes “Halloween,” “Runaways,” “Project Almanac,” and “Beautiful Disaster” and “Beautiful Wedding” with Dylan Sprouse. We talk about moving from Sacramento to Los Angeles at 16, going from modeling to acting, and her love of ’90s rock.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
Virginia Gardner joins Story & Craft
Virginia’s Early Life and Career Beginnings
First Acting Experiences and Moving to LA
Transition to Acting and First Major Film Role
Working with Dylan Sprouse and Lucy Hale
Traveling for Work and Filming Challenges
Wine Adventures and Personal Life
True Crime Podcasts and Online Dating
Gen Z and Traditional Dating
The Trad Wife Trend
Life with a Touring Musician
Nineties Music Nostalgia
The Seven Questions
Perfect Day and Career Reflections
Upcoming Projects and Final Thoughts
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Full Transcript
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Virginia Gardner:00:00:00
It was about something awful.
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I think it was a warning about children's
hair getting stuck in pool drains and
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horrible accidents happening that I
think they used me as an example of
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a kid, like swimming along and her
hair getting caught in a pool drain.
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Announcer: Welcome to Story and Craft.
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Now, here's your host, Marc Preston.
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Marc Preston: All right, here we go.
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Back again, another
episode of Story and Craft.
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Thank you so much for coming back by.
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Uh, if this is your first
episode, my name is Marc.
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Good to meet you.
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Good to have you along today, sitting down
with Virginia Gardner, talented actor.
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She, of course, was in Halloween.
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She was in Beautiful Disaster
and Beautiful Wedding with Dylan
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Sprouse, the show Runaways.
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The new film she's in
is called F. Mary Kill.
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If that sounds familiar, of
course, we spoke with Laura Murphy
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the other day, the director.
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She is starring alongside Lucy
Hale in this new film, uh, F.
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Mary kill in theaters right now.
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Of course, with Laura early this week
and with Virginia today, it's officially
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F Mary kill week on story and craft.
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Never thought I would say that, but.
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Uh, funny film, kind of a cool
mix of a horror and comedy.
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Uh, okay.
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So let's jump into it.
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Today is Virginia or Jenny Gardner
day right here on story and craft.
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We're going to call you
Jenny, not Virginia.
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I keep calling you a Virginia.
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I'm like, well, wait a minute.
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You're Jenny.
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It seems like everyone else.
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Virginia Gardner: Either one is just fine.
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Friends call me Jenny.
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You're more than welcome to call me Jenny.
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Marc Preston: Oh, we're friends already.
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That's awesome.
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That's awesome.
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So, uh, so where are you at?
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Uh, are you in, uh, California?
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Virginia Gardner: I'm in Los
Angeles, by the way, can you hear the
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gardening happening, happening, um,
outside of, if so, I can move rooms.
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Oh,
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Marc Preston: you're good.
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No, no, no, no, don't worry.
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Don't worry.
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I got a golden retriever upstairs.
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Who's bouncing around.
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Scratching and frustration.
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He wants to be down here to hang out, but
he'll literally be up on top of me looking
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at the screen if he was here right now.
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Um, no.
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Are you from, uh, are you from
there originally or did you get
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out to LA from somewhere else?
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Virginia Gardner: I'm from
Sacramento originally.
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Yeah.
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So just Northern South
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Marc Preston: a little bit,
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Virginia Gardner: came South.
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Um, yeah, I moved here when I
was 16 from Northern California
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and knew nothing about LA.
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And so I was under the impression that
downtown LA, like most downtowns of cities
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is sort of the hub of where everything is.
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And downtown LA is not that at all.
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Certainly not 12 years
ago when I moved here.
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Uh, but I had a little loft in
downtown LA and that's where
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I started here when I was 16.
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Marc Preston: Your folks did move there.
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You actually came to start working at 16.
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Virginia Gardner: I came to start
working at 16 I had been doing some
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sort of modeling stuff when I was
younger and I had been traveling a
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lot doing some print modeling for
like Kohl's and Abercrombie and that
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kind of stuff when I was 13, 14, 15.
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And the goal was to act.
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And so, you know, what I eventually wanted
to do was to just move to LA and pursue
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this full time, which is what I ended up
doing at 16, which in hindsight is insane
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that I was living here as a 16 year old.
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I don't know if I would have,
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Marc Preston: it was,
well, you came by yourself.
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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Marc Preston: Wow.
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Okay.
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We need, we need to get into this.
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Okay.
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So you came by yourself.
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So your folks, uh, you know, tell me
that were they down with it or because
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the work was there it was available
So they were they cool with it or were
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they like what the hell are you doing?
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You know,
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Virginia Gardner: they were so funny.
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They my dad is such like an academic
in my whole life He wanted me to go to
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Harvard and go to business school and
do that route And I took a hard left
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and I dropped out of high school So I,
I really was not, uh, on the same page
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with him when it came to all that stuff.
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I just knew from a very early age
that this is what I wanted to do and
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was very one track minded about it.
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And when I was 13, you know, I, I started,
uh, submitting myself to acting agencies,
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um, via email and would CC my mom and
she had no idea that I was doing this.
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So I was submitting myself to all these
agencies and my mom started getting some
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responses from some agencies here and
there, that there was some interest.
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And she was like, you know, if
this is something you want to
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pursue, we don't want this for you.
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We love you, but this is.
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This is you're on your own here.
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You gotta, you gotta figure this out.
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We, we want you to go a very
different path with your life.
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And
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Marc Preston: 13, you were 13
is when you started doing this.
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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So slowly I started doing some
modeling out of San Francisco,
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which was close to Sacramento.
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And, um, You know, it was flying all
over the world, uh, at least all over
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the United States for my modeling
stuff at an early age and kind of was
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able to start making enough money or
my parents said, okay, maybe there's a
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little bit of a real job here for you.
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And at 16, they were supportive
of me picking up and moving to LA
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and dropping out of high school.
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And my dad's thinking, which I understand
now is he's, he was hopeful that if I
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moved at 16 started acting, it didn't
work out, I could then go to college at
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a normal age versus going to college.
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Graduating at 22, still wanting to act
and then just being that much older and
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sort of behind in, in an acting career.
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So that was like, he's like, okay,
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Marc Preston: she'll get
it out of her system.
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Other kids.
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Yeah,
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Virginia Gardner: exactly.
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Yeah.
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Marc Preston: Yeah.
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Here's the thing.
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I know I wanted to work
in radio when I was seven.
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I knew that's what I want to do.
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So I think there's a Zen to not knowing
what's stacked against you or what
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possibly, you know, and you're just
boldly, just tenaciously going after it.
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Um, and so I could see that.
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So I think when I got to college,
that's kind of when that hit with me.
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It's like, I've already done
the thing that I want to do.
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Why am I. You know, it just
kind of felt like I was, um, I
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don't want to say wasting time.
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I was not being efficient.
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I was not dedicating myself to the
efforts that are going to get me there.
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But 16 is a bold age to do it though.
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You know, I think I started the radio
when I was 17, but I was still going
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to school, doing my thing and you know,
I didn't need to travel for that and
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I don't have the face for modeling
or anything else for that matter.
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How old were you when you
started traveling for modeling?
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Virginia Gardner: I was traveling for
modeling by myself when I was like.
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14 so I would go
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Marc Preston: by yourself.
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Oh, wow.
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Virginia Gardner: I've spoken with
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Marc Preston: one other model before and
she was telling me just all the places
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she would go and there would be people
there that kind of kept an eye on you.
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But did you find you had that
or were you really on your own?
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Virginia Gardner: The first couple
of times I left and went for
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jobs, my mom would come with me.
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So we kind of established where she,
it was repeat clients that I had.
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So she kind of knew where I was going,
the people I was going to be working with.
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And so that's when I transitioned
to being able to go by myself, but
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also with modeling, unlike acting,
at least at the time, I don't.
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No, how it is today, but there
was no unions, there was no rules.
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It was just kind of a free for all.
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You didn't need to go to onset school.
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Like they weren't going to pay to
fly you first class and pay to have a
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parent there, you know, it was a little
bit of a free for all when it came
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to the modeling world, at least then
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Marc Preston: you already knew you
were wanting to go into acting,
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you know, that was your jam.
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When did you start making that move?
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Did you start taking classes?
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Did you start, you know, just
kind of going to auditions?
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Did your age, did you tell your agent,
Hey, you know, get the people over in the
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theatrical department to start submitting
me, how did that come together for you?
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Virginia Gardner: I always
knew that I wanted to act.
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I don't know if, sorry, my dog is
barking at something on the TV.
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Marc Preston: Oh, it's cool.
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It's cool.
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I'm a dog lover.
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They can talk also.
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It's totally fine.
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Virginia Gardner: Sorry.
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Um, I knew from a really
early age I wanted to act.
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I mean, there was a
movie that, that really.
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Kind of made that clear
to me called I am Sam.
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It was Sean Penn and Dakota Fanning.
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Yeah, I have a brother with autism.
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And so at that age, I was sort of figuring
out what that dynamic looks like in, in
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hadn't seen or met, you know, anyone else
with autism and in that was so confusing
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thing for a younger sister to watch her
older brother go through and I remember
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that movie Having such a strong impact
on me and in feeling so seen and like I
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could understand more of the world and
someone I loved through this film and,
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um, Dakota Fanning kind of was blonde
and around my age and I felt like I could
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relate so deeply to her in that film.
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And that's kind of what ignited this
spark in me and to just to want to
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be able to understand more of the
world and myself through acting and
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through creative expression like that.
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So it just kind of went from there and.
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I did a lot of local theater
when I was younger and, um, would
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make my parents sit in the living
room and watch me as I performed.
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Like I always just kind of felt like
I was a bit of a performer, um, and
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then it just kind of went from there
and eventually talked to my modeling
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agency into letting me, um, get a
theatrical agent and, and, and then they.
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It snowballed.
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Marc Preston: You said
your dad was an academic.
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Was he like a college professor or?
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Virginia Gardner: He's just academically.
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Or he just
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Marc Preston: put a lot
of value in academics?
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A
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Virginia Gardner: lot
of value in academics.
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Marc Preston: What kind of gig
did he have or does he have?
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Virginia Gardner: He is in
construction management.
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Which I know little to nothing about
to me anyone with a normal job like a a
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normal person job I'm, just so it's so
impressive to me because I just don't
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have any understanding at all of how it
works But he's in construction management.
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And now he also has um a school for
people with autism and he opened A
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research facility for people with autism.
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So he's also really deeply
involved in that community as well
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Marc Preston: Very cool.
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So did your mother work or does
she work or does she kind of
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kind of focus on the family?
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Virginia Gardner: My mother was
a newscaster and she was a radio
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disc jockey for a long time.
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So she was in really?
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Yeah
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Marc Preston: Did she ever do any TV?
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Virginia Gardner: She did.
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She was on a channel called KCRA 3
which was the local Sacramento news
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for many many years and She did some
other News programs that funny enough
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over Thanksgiving recently, she had
never thought to look herself up on
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YouTube and see if there's any old
clips of her as a news reporter.
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And so over Thanksgiving, we went
and I found some amazing clips
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of her from the eighties when she
was around my age, uh, reporting.
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And it's just so much fun.
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She was at the opening of Disney World.
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Oh, so this was like a
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Marc Preston: long term career.
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This was, she would have been
doing this for a while, huh?
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Virginia Gardner: Yeah,
she did it for a long time.
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Marc Preston: So do you have any
memories of going to the radio station
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or TV station when you were young?
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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.
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Yeah.
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She would do the nightly news.
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So I would come after school and
bring my homework and sit in the
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corner of the news station and watch
her as she was, uh, doing the news.
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And yeah, it was so fun.
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Marc Preston: Did they ever
use you in any segments?
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Virginia Gardner: They did.
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Well, especially when I knew that I
wanted to start getting into acting, my
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mom, there was one segment that I got to
be a part of that I was just so, I think
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it was, it was about something awful.
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I think it was about a warning
about children's hair getting stuck
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in pool drains and, and, um, and
horrible accidents happening that I
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think they used me as an example of
a kid like swimming along and her
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hair getting caught in a pool drain.
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But, uh, but yeah, I got
to be a part of a segment.
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And I remember I had my birthday party
there one year where me and all my friends
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got to like sit at the news desk and
pretend that we had our own newscast.
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It was lots of fun.
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Marc Preston: Just curious, were
you ever accused of being a, like
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do an air quotes here, a precocious
kid, you know, you were like a ham.
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Virginia Gardner: No, I, I was
like, so shy and there was, there
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was few people that I would sort of
be myself with and, and like want
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to perform in front of my parents.
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But when it came to anyone but
them, I was incredibly shy.
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Marc Preston: Well, I think a lot of
people, uh, who do this for a living
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were This was a interesting outlet.
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Like I would be mortified in high school
doing any kind of stage, anything.
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I'm like, I always marveled at people's
like, Oh dude, that's a lot of attention.
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I don't want that much attention.
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Um, so when did you kind of find
that you were starting to book stuff?
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Uh, about how old were you?
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Virginia Gardner: I started
doing local theater and working
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in local plays, probably.
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Maybe around 12 ish, 12, 13 ish.
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It was around the same time I sort of
began to model as well, but that's when
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I was doing some fun local theater.
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Uh, yeah, I, I miss theater.
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That's really where I got my start.
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Marc Preston: Did you develop a set
of friends in the theater setting
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that were different than, let's say
they're your friends in school or,
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you know, how did that work out for
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Virginia Gardner: you?
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Yeah, I had friends that were my theater
friends and then I would also do some
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productions through my school as well.
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Just, I went to a very small school.
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So a lot of the kids would just.
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Be in theater class cause it was, it
was one of very few options for people.
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So a lot of my good friends in school
would also be in theater class with me.
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Marc Preston: Oh, so, okay.
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So there was some crossover.
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You were at this odd kid.
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It's like, what is she doing?
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You know,
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Virginia Gardner: gee,
I remember leaving to go
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Marc Preston: do an audition for a cookie
commercial or just something like that.
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And like, I was, See, I was an elementary,
I had to be fifth or sixth grade.
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I remember coming back and I didn't
want to make a deal with, I didn't
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want anybody knowing, you know, but
apparently the teacher had told the
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class where I went, I came back to like,
Oh my God, you're like a celebrity.
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And I was like, I'm going for
like a cookie commercial audition.
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And I was like, I don't
like all this attention.
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You know, when you were like,
okay, acting's my jam, it
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started, you know, in theater.
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So your parents already had a
few years of you doing this thing
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and they're like, all right, you
know, this is where you're going.
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Your dad being the academic.
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The, he is, you know,
or put weight on that.
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What was it like when you dropped out,
decided to drop out of high school or
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were they like really not happy or is
like, okay, let her go through this.
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And like you were saying before,
let her work it out or, you
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know, how was that for you?
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Virginia Gardner: Well, to
give the full picture, I had,
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I had been auditioning for.
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film and television while
I was living in Sacramento.
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And, uh, you know, my mom would
very kindly drive me to LA.
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We do, it was before self tapes really.
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So we'd audition, we'd
drive back to Sacramento.
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This was before sort of, I
was allowed to make that final
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commitment to just moving to LA.
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And I had booked my first guest star
on 16th birthday, I booked this job.
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And it was a guest star on some
Nickelodeon show way back in the day.
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And it was a sitcom show where you
rehearsed all week and then you filmed
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on your, your Friday or Thursday.
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And I had been in rehearsals
all week and I was so nervous.
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I, you know, I didn't do a, it
was, it was my first job ever.
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It was my first time
I'd ever been on a set.
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I was just a total ball of nerves
come the end of the rehearsal.
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But you were
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Marc Preston: around other kids though.
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So you weren't like, you know, showing up.
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with a bunch of adults.
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You were you had other kids with you.
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Virginia Gardner: It was all other
kids, but I was such a socially
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awkward kid that that was the social
aspect was very intimidating for me,
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even though they were other kids.
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So I was so intimidated by
these, these other child actors.
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So anyway, we're in rehearsals
and I can just tell that they're
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not happy with what I'm doing.
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And I told my mom, we were driving home
one night from rehearsal and I said,
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I just have a, I have a gut feeling.
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I'm going to get fired.
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I just, I think I'm going to get fired.
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And my mom was like, no,
you're not going to get fired.
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They would never do that.
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Blah, blah, blah.
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Sure enough.
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We get the call three hours
later that I had been fired.
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So my first acting job ever, I
promptly got fired from because I
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just could not handle the nerves.
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And I was.
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Devastated.
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It was so earth shattering
for me at the time.
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And it was after that experience, my
parents were like, the way we see it,
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you could either walk away from this
now, which we would totally understand.
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You've had your heart broken.
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You can, you know, commit to
school, find a different path
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in life, or you can double down.
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We'll support you moving to LA
and giving this a hundred percent
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and just doubling down on this.
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And I said, I want to double down.
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So that's what.
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Prompted the move to LA at 16 and
leaving high school and just sort
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of giving it everything I had.
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Again, I think my dad kind of
with the hopes of, well, she'll
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do this till she's 18 and then
she'll just go to college anyway.
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Marc Preston: Well, did you
get into acting classes?
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I mean, did you kind of do a
little bit more formal training?
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Uh, was that something your dad maybe
said, Hey, maybe you should do that
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and then get the nerves worked out?
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Virginia Gardner: Exactly.
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Yeah.
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So I was in a bunch of like, I moved
here at 16 and was living by myself
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here, but was in four classes a week.
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It's not like I was off doing whatever.
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I took it very seriously as,
as a student of this craft.
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Marc Preston: And plus you'd
already done some traveling around.
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So you probably saw some of the pitfalls
and some of the things to look out
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for and kind of had your, you had kind
of had your own back in a way, I'm
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assuming, you know, you kind of knew.
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To stay focused on the work.
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Oh, did you buy any chance to live?
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It was, it was called the Oakwood.
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It was that where did you
have a chance to live there?
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Virginia Gardner: I never
lived at the Oakwood.
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I lived it.
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Oh my gosh.
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What was it called?
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The Palazzo, I think, which was, it was
like the Oakwood and the Palazzo were
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the two that people either lived at.
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And I was at the Palazzo, but I know the
Oakwood, I watched the documentary on
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the child actors at the Oakwood, which
is phenomenal if you haven't seen it.
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Marc Preston: There's
a documentary on that.
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Oh, I didn't know there's a documentary.
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Virginia Gardner: It's a really, it's
very sad, but a great documentary on just.
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Kids coming out for what used
to be pilot season and living at
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the Oakwood with their parents.
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And it's, it's great.
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Marc Preston: I always thought
that was just kind of bad ass.
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It's like, come down there with
a bunch of other kid actors,
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you're going to the pool.
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That may be overly romanticized version
as a kid of what that would be like to,
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well, to go to LA and connect at my age.
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I don't even know if the Oakwood was
around as that kind of a thing when
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I was growing up, but I knew kid
actors were out there and you know,
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that was, I always thought it'd be
kind of cool to be around other.
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Kids and do the thing,
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Virginia Gardner (2): um,
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Marc Preston: project
almanac first film role.
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You're doing the thing.
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Just what was it like for you?
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You know, here's your very first film.
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This is the thing you want to do.
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What was that like?
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Virginia Gardner: It was insane.
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I mean, for your first film
to be a Michael Bay produced
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studio movie was wild.
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And, and I don't think at the time.
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It occurred to me that that is extremely
rare to have something like that happen.
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At the time I was so green that I just
kind of felt like, Oh, surely this
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is like what everyone's first film
looks like when it's so not the case.
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But it was, it was a
wild first experience.
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It was a found footage film.
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And so my character was behind
the camera, operating the camera.
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So I, I was one of the main characters of
this movie, but had a little, small amount
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of screen time because my character was
filming everything, but I was so grateful
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because I was so nervous to be playing
this character that was behind cameras
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so often because I also just got to
learn how everything operated from a very
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different perspective of like the camera
operator because I was often working
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so closely next to the camera operator.
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putting my hand in front of the camera
so it looked like I was operating.
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So I really got to have a different
understanding of the way that things
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work, but I remember my co star
Sophia Black D'Elia at the time
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teaching me how to read a call sheet.
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I had no idea how to read a call
sheet or, you know, understand a one
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liner or what scene numbers meant.
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Like I really had a, such an intense.
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education and it was something
where they could not find my
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character for a really long time.
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They did a long search of actors and I
was one of the last people they read and
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I booked the job and left the next day.
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So it was within 24 hours.
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I auditioned, booked this job
and then left for Atlanta.
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So it was just such a whirlwind
of, of a crazy experience.
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Working with Dylan Sprouse and Lucy Hale
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Marc Preston: Oh yeah, that's right.
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Cause that's really when all the
things started kind of kicking
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off shooting in Atlanta right
about It's funny cause I talked to
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Dylan Sprouse a little while back.
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Now you did.
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Two films with him, right?
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Virginia Gardner: Yes, yeah.
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Marc Preston: Like beautiful, it was a
beautiful disaster, beautiful wedding.
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I still haven't seen them.
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I want to.
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In fact, that was something
I wanted to watch, uh, when I
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was, before I talked to him.
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But he was a guy who had
that kind of kid actor thing.
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Did y'all compare notes ever,
you know, you came up at a,
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at a time like as a kid actor.
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And so, so he had as well.
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Was that a little easier?
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Working with somebody who had been
doing this since they were young or I'm
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just kind of curious what it was like
Connecting with somebody like that.
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Virginia Gardner: Well, it's
such a different experience what
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Dylan had versus what I have.
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I was working as a kid Modeling and in
local theater when I booked almanac, I
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was 17 So I wouldn't say I was so much
of like a kid Working actor where Dylan
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obviously had been doing this since he was
a child and had so much fame at such an
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early age that's such a Unique experience
and in such a different childhood than
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what I had Um, but it's it's so amazing
working with someone like dylan and I had
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this recently with lucy hale on on fuck
mary kill where they've been doing it for
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so long, they're just Absolute pros and
you ask them to hit a Marc and they can
489
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do it with their eyes closed while doing
seven other things And it's just so In
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their blood in a different way with this
just sense memory of doing it for so long.
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It's, it's really amazing working
with people like that, that just
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are absolute pros at what they do.
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Marc Preston: It's gotta be one heck
of a training ground, you know, was
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there any desire, is there one now?
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I mean, do you have a preference
doing film or, or is it
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doing, uh, uh, like a series?
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Cause you know, you've done that.
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I mean, do you have a preference
either way or is it just kind
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of wherever the work is cool?
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Virginia Gardner: I think over the last
few years between COVID and strikes
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and this sort of, um, big Marcet
correction with streaming and peak TV
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being over, it's, it's been a lot, I
think for, for most actors, I know of
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find Find whatever you can right now,
whether that's a series or a film or
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whatever, just go where the work is.
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So I definitely am someone that
I also like to stay working.
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I hate downtime.
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If I had it my way, I would be
on a set every day of my life.
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I really am my best
self when I'm on a set.
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Um, so I, I go where the work is, but
having worked in television and been
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on a Marvel show for three years and
having done some stints on other shows
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here and there, they're both amazing.
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I love.
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When you're working in television
and you have this family that you're
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with for years and the stability is
so lovely and I love being with the
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character that long that it becomes
second nature and you get to explore
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one character for years and years, but
with film the last several years I've
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just been doing film and I have had so
much fun working all over the world.
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Traveling for Work and Filming Challenges
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I've been to Bulgaria and Spain and
Dominican Republic and Guatemala in
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Australia, and I'm going to Thailand
on Friday and I love being, really.
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Oh man,
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Marc Preston: I'm envious.
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No, when I was talking to you, I
wanted to, I was okay, let me go
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check out a couple things you've done.
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And I wanted to see the movie fall,
but I was like, no, no, no, no, no.
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I can fly an airplane.
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But man, that whole, I think climbing the
tower, I'd be cringing the entire time.
527
,794 --> 00:23:14,254
Heights are not my jam.
528
,524 --> 00:23:18,184
I will say that they're almost a
kryptonite at some level, but um, did
529
,184 --> 00:23:19,764
they really have you up on a high?
530
,000 --> 00:23:22,840
Thing where did you have to
do any real climbing or was it
531
,850 --> 00:23:24,459
green screen for a lot of that?
532
,510 --> 00:23:25,760
Virginia Gardner: It was not green screen.
533
,760 --> 00:23:26,959
We did it practically.
534
,000 --> 00:23:28,879
It was a hundred feet off the ground.
535
,889 --> 00:23:32,389
So they built this tower that
was a hundred feet tall on a
536
,389 --> 00:23:34,310
cliff that was 2000 feet tall.
537
,310 --> 00:23:37,580
So for all of their wide shots,
we were actually 2, 100 feet
538
,580 --> 00:23:40,179
up, which was supposed to be
the height of the real tower.
539
,580 --> 00:23:41,280
So.
540
,570 --> 00:23:43,959
At the beginning of the film,
we climb up and then a ladder
541
,959 --> 00:23:45,360
breaks and we're stuck up there.
542
,360 --> 00:23:49,779
So the first couple weeks of filming,
we would climb every single day.
543
,779 --> 00:23:52,999
And then eventually, once the ladder
broke and our characters were just stuck
544
,999 --> 00:23:56,580
up there, they had a cherry picker and
they would put us in the cherry picker.
545
,580 --> 00:24:00,315
They'd Bring us up a hundred feet and we'd
have to, they'd harness us in, but we'd
546
,315 --> 00:24:04,675
have to jump from the cherry picker to the
tower and, and just be up there all day.
547
,335 --> 00:24:05,545
Yeah.
548
,014 --> 00:24:12,244
Marc Preston: I could not focus
on acting or creating story.
549
,244 --> 00:24:14,825
And I'd be like, maybe that would work.
550
,114 --> 00:24:16,525
I'm too freaked out being up there.
551
,595 --> 00:24:18,495
Virginia Gardner: I found that
it made it so much easier.
552
,495 --> 00:24:22,675
I, we were actually interacting
with real environment and winds.
553
,715 --> 00:24:24,264
And actually, if you.
554
,455 --> 00:24:27,814
Stepped a little too far, you would
be looking over as such a high height.
555
,889 --> 00:24:30,935
I, I loved doing it practically
and I think it makes your job
556
,935 --> 00:24:32,524
as an actor so much easier.
557
,585 --> 00:24:34,774
Marc Preston: Well, I think there is
then to, to that when you're really
558
,774 --> 00:24:37,955
experiencing the thing that the
character is experiencing, you know?
559
,955 --> 00:24:40,115
But I, like I said, I wanted to watch it.
560
,115 --> 00:24:42,335
I keep seeing a little
icon show up on my screen.
561
,335 --> 00:24:43,024
I wanna watch that.
562
,024 --> 00:24:44,335
I'm like, but they're how far up?
563
,335 --> 00:24:44,635
Nope.
564
,665 --> 00:24:47,875
No, I, I just knew it would be an
uncomfortable watch for me because
565
,875 --> 00:24:51,355
I dunno what it's like I say fly an
airplane, but being up that high.
566
,110 --> 00:24:52,820
Virginia Gardner (2): No, uh,
567
,030 --> 00:24:58,399
Marc Preston: but, uh, now the, the, the,
the F Mary fuck Marigold, what it, and
568
,399 --> 00:25:02,810
it's just so funny seeing it as it shows
up as F asterisk asterisk, you know,
569
,299 --> 00:25:05,480
um, how did, how did that come to you?
570
,480 --> 00:25:06,709
How did that project come along?
571
,879 --> 00:25:10,700
Virginia Gardner: That came to me funny
enough through, uh, one of my best friends
572
,710 --> 00:25:17,390
who's been my friend since we were six
years old was at her gym in LA and was
573
,410 --> 00:25:20,150
talking to a personal trainer at the gym.
574
,729 --> 00:25:25,310
And he goes, Hey, I think my wife's about
to do a movie with your friend, Jenny.
575
,729 --> 00:25:28,669
And she came home from the gym
and she called me and she was
576
,669 --> 00:25:29,889
like, are you doing this movie?
577
,059 --> 00:25:30,899
Fuck, marry, kill.
578
,899 --> 00:25:34,469
My, my friend says he's his wife
is about to be working with you.
579
,470 --> 00:25:37,099
And I was like, no, I've never heard of.
580
,160 --> 00:25:39,040
This movie, I have no idea
what you're talking about.
581
,420 --> 00:25:41,460
And, uh, called my agent later that day.
582
,460 --> 00:25:43,130
And sure enough, my agent had heard of it.
583
,130 --> 00:25:47,169
And, uh, and anyway, we, we
tracked it down and made it happen.
584
,169 --> 00:25:50,860
And I read the script and immediately
was so excited about it and excited
585
,860 --> 00:25:55,029
about the opportunity to work with
Lucy Hale, who, like I said, is just
586
,039 --> 00:25:57,100
brilliant and so much fun to work with.
587
,100 --> 00:25:59,830
And yeah, that's kind of
how it all came together.
588
,830 --> 00:26:01,460
And within a few weeks I was in Canada.
589
,765 --> 00:26:02,905
Marc Preston: Like Vancouver or?
590
,965 --> 00:26:05,705
Virginia Gardner: Kelowna, Canada,
which is a beautiful place.
591
,705 --> 00:26:08,805
I'm, I'm, it's wine country
of Canada and I love wine.
592
,825 --> 00:26:09,864
So I was just in heaven.
593
Wine Adventures and Personal Life
,455 --> 00:26:11,654
Marc Preston: I got to
ask you, you said it.
594
,665 --> 00:26:15,144
So what kind of wine is
your favorite varietal?
595
,334 --> 00:26:17,094
Virginia Gardner: Oh,
I love Italian wines.
596
,134 --> 00:26:18,725
I love Tempranillo.
597
,195 --> 00:26:21,915
I love, uh, I'm going to butcher
the pronunciation, but like
598
,915 --> 00:26:23,715
a Borrello or a Barbadesco.
599
,155 --> 00:26:28,394
Um, but the Kelowna wine scene is really
fun because they don't have the climate
600
,394 --> 00:26:33,014
there to really grow the same kind
of varietals that you see elsewhere.
601
,074 --> 00:26:36,574
So they're kind of like the rule breakers
in the wine industry where they're doing
602
,574 --> 00:26:40,594
these really funky varietals that only
they can grow and sort of making the
603
,955 --> 00:26:42,885
best out of what their climate allows.
604
,935 --> 00:26:45,715
So they have all of these
really like funky, cool wines.
605
,884 --> 00:26:48,685
But you just, I had never
seen or tried anywhere else.
606
,735 --> 00:26:49,945
It's a really fun wine.
607
,945 --> 00:26:50,304
I'm kind of
608
,304 --> 00:26:51,254
Marc Preston: a basic guy.
609
,854 --> 00:26:53,524
I'm very basic when it comes to wine.
610
,524 --> 00:26:56,214
Like I'm a, I like a chilled white wine.
611
,214 --> 00:27:00,364
If I'm just, just sitting down chatting,
I'm like a Pinot Grigio or whatever,
612
,815 --> 00:27:02,785
but my son and not my son was in town.
613
,794 --> 00:27:04,865
We only have one really good
Italian restaurant on the Island.
614
,874 --> 00:27:06,585
They have other ones, but
I think it's only one.
615
,805 --> 00:27:07,504
Really good one.
616
,955 --> 00:27:09,705
And they make their own
pasta and everything.
617
,705 --> 00:27:14,155
And I said, so we go there and, um, I
want to send you a Vasey, which is kind
618
,155 --> 00:27:17,945
of my, I only drink red wine when I have
Italian food and they didn't have that.
619
,945 --> 00:27:19,024
I was like, well, I got to do Chianti.
620
,044 --> 00:27:19,334
I got to go.
621
,485 --> 00:27:22,764
Oh, gee, you know, just kind
of a, your basic red wine.
622
,030 --> 00:27:26,220
Have you ever done that whole,
uh, wine country tour thing?
623
,379 --> 00:27:28,770
You know, have you ever done
that since you're not that far?
624
,810 --> 00:27:32,539
Virginia Gardner: Oh, we would, when
I was living in Sacramento and when
625
,539 --> 00:27:35,610
I would come back to visit family
in Sacramento, we would go to Napa.
626
,159 --> 00:27:37,980
My husband and I got married in Napa.
627
,999 --> 00:27:39,960
We honeymooned in Tuscany.
628
,260 --> 00:27:44,209
So we've done all the, all the
wine tours and yeah, yeah, yeah.
629
,210 --> 00:27:45,220
I'm a big wino.
630
,540 --> 00:27:47,129
Marc Preston: Well, I have to
ask, what was the best thing
631
,129 --> 00:27:48,230
you had to eat in Tuscany?
632
,370 --> 00:27:50,510
Virginia Gardner: Oh, oh my gosh.
633
,539 --> 00:27:52,630
We went to this incredible restaurant.
634
,165 --> 00:27:56,755
I am the worst for not being
able to remember the name,
635
,755 --> 00:27:58,525
but it was on chef's table.
636
,525 --> 00:28:02,965
And it's this incredible chef that
specializes in meats and he doesn't
637
,965 --> 00:28:05,355
like to waste any of the animals.
638
,365 --> 00:28:11,015
So he serves you all of these
incredible cuts of meat that
639
,015 --> 00:28:12,125
ordinarily would go to waste.
640
,125 --> 00:28:15,635
And it's all sort of a communal table
where he stands in the middle and he just.
641
,735 --> 00:28:18,585
Grills up these meats for you
and just throw some salt on them.
642
,585 --> 00:28:19,515
It's so simple.
643
,515 --> 00:28:19,635
Oh man.
644
,635 --> 00:28:19,725
That
645
,725 --> 00:28:20,715
Marc Preston: sounds amazing.
646
,715 --> 00:28:21,945
It was fantastic.
647
,945 --> 00:28:22,785
Virginia Gardner: It was so great.
648
,935 --> 00:28:25,905
Marc Preston: Did you see, um,
you know, I, I'm really bad
649
,905 --> 00:28:27,915
about remembering people's names.
650
,915 --> 00:28:28,035
Me too.
651
,125 --> 00:28:29,985
, you know, uh, once, oh no.
652
,985 --> 00:28:32,385
Stanley Tucci, he has a new, a new book.
653
,735 --> 00:28:35,005
You know, they sent this to me
and I got to, I was gonna check
654
,005 --> 00:28:38,345
it out, but he, it was, uh, what I
ate in one year is the name of it.
655
,385 --> 00:28:38,605
Yeah.
656
,535 --> 00:28:40,185
Press for him there.
657
,185 --> 00:28:43,515
But, um, but no, he did that show
where he did traveled around Italy.
658
,525 --> 00:28:44,145
Have you seen that?
659
,175 --> 00:28:46,895
Virginia Gardner: Yeah, we watched it
before we went to honeymoon in Italy.
660
,425 --> 00:28:49,625
Marc Preston: My Anthony
Bourdain was on a spirit animal.
661
,785 --> 00:28:53,265
I was like, that is the ultimate, not
that I don't love talking to you and
662
,265 --> 00:28:56,815
the folks that talk to you, but I'm
like, that's the gig for me is travel
663
,865 --> 00:29:00,165
and eat and don't do the tourist thing,
but do the thing where you get like,
664
,165 --> 00:29:01,385
you know, what are the locals do?
665
,455 --> 00:29:01,645
Yeah.
666
,265 --> 00:29:03,235
Virginia Gardner: I would love to do that.
667
,235 --> 00:29:04,765
I've been trying to sell myself.
668
,815 --> 00:29:08,705
I've been trying to sell some version
of me doing a travel show for so long
669
,705 --> 00:29:14,245
because I just want an excuse to go and
eat and travel and try local wines and,
670
,245 --> 00:29:16,295
and just kind of experience all of it.
671
,345 --> 00:29:18,935
Uh, and I love, have you
seen somebody feeds Phil?
672
,375 --> 00:29:22,855
Marc Preston: I saw an episode where
he just kind of puts himself like
673
,855 --> 00:29:24,665
fish out of water in situations.
674
,675 --> 00:29:25,715
Is that kind of the.
675
,810 --> 00:29:27,640
Prim, I think I saw part of an episode.
676
,650 --> 00:29:27,960
Yeah.
677
,960 --> 00:29:29,070
He travels all over
678
,070 --> 00:29:31,230
Virginia Gardner: the world and
tries really great restaurants.
679
,230 --> 00:29:34,520
And whenever I travel, just cause
I love his recommendations, I'll
680
,520 --> 00:29:37,610
watch his episode and try to hit
wherever he went on his show.
681
,610 --> 00:29:39,940
And I was just watching his
Bangkok episode last night,
682
,940 --> 00:29:41,440
since I'm going on Friday and,
683
,920 --> 00:29:42,750
Marc Preston: and try
684
,750 --> 00:29:44,120
Virginia Gardner: to follow his itinerary,
685
,320 --> 00:29:47,710
Marc Preston: Anthony Bourdain
had a great, uh, both with, uh,
686
,760 --> 00:29:49,970
parts unknown and no reservations.
687
,010 --> 00:29:52,070
He has two, uh, great.
688
,080 --> 00:29:54,320
And there's a fellow, I can't
remember the chef's name, but.
689
,430 --> 00:29:57,920
He travels to Thailand all the
time, gets recipes, come back.
690
,920 --> 00:30:01,690
He's got a Thai restaurant,
but I think it's on HBO max.
691
,710 --> 00:30:03,230
I think you find both of them.
692
,230 --> 00:30:05,620
But I saw that as like, Holy cow.
693
,640 --> 00:30:08,860
That just, it just everything about
Thailand is just seems amazing.
694
,870 --> 00:30:09,250
Yeah.
695
True Crime Podcasts and Online Dating
,250 --> 00:30:09,680
Virginia Gardner (2): And
696
,680 --> 00:30:11,500
Marc Preston: so, sorry, we
were talking about your film and
697
,980 --> 00:30:13,280
food came up and I went like,
698
,370 --> 00:30:19,560
so the general premise is online
dating, just the whole dating
699
,590 --> 00:30:21,100
thing and just kind of like.
700
,240 --> 00:30:23,990
How does that hit for, you
know, for, for your generation?
701
,990 --> 00:30:26,760
What, how would you define
what the film is about?
702
,520 --> 00:30:30,810
Virginia Gardner: I mean, it's
really about, I mean, you, I think
703
,810 --> 00:30:31,720
you hit the nail on the head.
704
,720 --> 00:30:36,450
It's really about online dating and
sort of the fears of online dating.
705
,450 --> 00:30:39,620
And we're also looping it into
with, I think something that's
706
,620 --> 00:30:42,340
really topical right now, which
are these true crime podcasts.
707
,510 --> 00:30:44,090
That people become so obsessed over.
708
,120 --> 00:30:48,300
I love true crime podcasts and series
and all those things, but it's about
709
,300 --> 00:30:51,560
how that can really get a little bit
of a chokehold on you and you become so
710
,560 --> 00:30:54,040
obsessed and paranoid in your own life.
711
,040 --> 00:30:58,220
Like I know for me, my husband is a
musician and travels a lot for work
712
,230 --> 00:31:01,940
as do I, but if I'm at the house
alone, I can't watch true crime.
713
,980 --> 00:31:04,260
I can't listen to true crime
podcasts because I get.
714
,640 --> 00:31:08,990
It's so paranoid and we're sort of, we're
sort of doing a little bit of a social
715
,990 --> 00:31:15,040
commentary on that as well as some of the
risks of online dating and dating apps.
716
,060 --> 00:31:19,800
And yeah, it's sort of a fun blend
of comedy horror that we're doing.
717
,950 --> 00:31:23,100
Marc Preston: You kind of came up in an
era where online dating was just there.
718
,100 --> 00:31:25,870
It's like how people a lot of
met, but the question is, how
719
,900 --> 00:31:26,870
did you meet your husband though?
720
,450 --> 00:31:28,210
Virginia Gardner: On a dating app.
721
,900 --> 00:31:29,480
Marc Preston: Really?
722
,500 --> 00:31:29,530
Okay.
723
,750 --> 00:31:31,900
Virginia Gardner: I'm
a fan of dating apps.
724
,900 --> 00:31:32,610
It works for me.
725
Gen Z and Traditional Dating
,165 --> 00:31:36,435
Marc Preston: I heard somewhere, I saw,
uh, something, uh, an article or a,
726
,445 --> 00:31:41,355
I saw a newscast, something or other
that Gen Z is kind of raging against
727
,365 --> 00:31:44,385
the whole online dating thing that
they're kind of what's old is new.
728
,385 --> 00:31:46,625
Again, they like meeting
people more traditionally.
729
,625 --> 00:31:47,205
I don't know.
730
,245 --> 00:31:49,725
You know, I don't really talk to
my kids about their dating life.
731
,725 --> 00:31:52,285
I mean, hell, my youngest
is dating somebody still.
732
,315 --> 00:31:53,695
I still haven't met yet.
733
,965 --> 00:31:55,475
For those listening to this
show, they were like, Oh yeah,
734
,475 --> 00:31:57,715
I remember he talked about this
weeks ago, still haven't met this.
735
,775 --> 00:32:02,445
Anyway, but the idea is there's
somebody out there who is.
736
,720 --> 00:32:07,510
Killing people in the film, uh, that
there is killing somebody, but he's
737
,590 --> 00:32:09,590
who he's meeting and online dating.
738
,600 --> 00:32:10,500
Is that kind of the idea?
739
,500 --> 00:32:10,800
Okay.
740
,840 --> 00:32:11,140
Virginia Gardner (2): Yes.
741
,240 --> 00:32:15,560
Marc Preston: And, um, uh, you're
the friend of the, the lady who's
742
,570 --> 00:32:18,270
had going through this experience,
uh, for the most part, right.
743
,270 --> 00:32:20,984
Or, or did you, were you
kind of dating as well?
744
The Trad Wife Trend
,275 --> 00:32:26,205
Virginia Gardner: Well, it's, it, it's
a very, um, spoiler heavy movie, so I'm
745
,215 --> 00:32:31,285
trying to explain what I can without
giving away too many spoilers, but I
746
,285 --> 00:32:38,475
play Lucy's best friend and my character
is, is very, it's funny, we filmed this
747
,495 --> 00:32:43,125
movie before the trad wife trend sort
of took off on Instagram and TikTok.
748
,125 --> 00:32:44,195
Do you know the trad wife?
749
,235 --> 00:32:47,645
Marc Preston: The trad wife, you're gonna,
I feel like I'm learning things today.
750
,780 --> 00:32:48,090
So
751
,870 --> 00:32:51,590
Virginia Gardner: it's, um, that
kind of like the traditional wife,
752
,600 --> 00:32:57,070
like you see these women on Instagram
that they'll be like, my husband was
753
,070 --> 00:33:01,740
craving a diet Coke today, but I didn't
want to go out and buy him diet Coke.
754
,740 --> 00:33:03,140
So, or diet Coke's a bad example.
755
,150 --> 00:33:07,440
It'd be like Coca Cola probably where
she'd be like, so I took the sugar cane
756
,440 --> 00:33:12,790
and I stripped the sugar cane and I
boiled it down to make the sugar and then
757
,790 --> 00:33:14,839
I carbonated it with blah, blah, blah.
758
,840 --> 00:33:19,020
These wives that really dedicate
their lives to their husbands.
759
,050 --> 00:33:20,580
And that's Kelly.
760
,590 --> 00:33:25,220
My character is, is very much a track
wife where she really upholds the sanctity
761
,220 --> 00:33:27,940
of marriage, she's married and she's.
762
,455 --> 00:33:32,535
Her POV is, it's all about being a
good wife, having a good husband,
763
,925 --> 00:33:37,675
having, you know, like that very,
um, perfect on the outside lifestyle.
764
,415 --> 00:33:42,885
Marc Preston: Very much the kind
of thing you're hearing on TV.
765
,885 --> 00:33:43,175
Now.
766
,225 --> 00:33:46,005
It's like, you know, uh,
stay home, have kids.
767
,025 --> 00:33:46,065
Okay.
768
,645 --> 00:33:49,015
So that's, that's kind of more
where your character is leaning.
769
,035 --> 00:33:49,785
Virginia Gardner: Absolutely.
770
,065 --> 00:33:51,205
She's, she's very much like that.
771
Life with a Touring Musician
,840 --> 00:33:54,880
Marc Preston: So going back to your
husband, so you met him on a dating
772
,880 --> 00:33:56,550
app, but he said he's a musician.
773
,040 --> 00:33:58,840
First of all, I guess what
instrument does he play?
774
,970 --> 00:34:01,900
Virginia Gardner: He is the bass
player in a band called the struts.
775
,900 --> 00:34:07,740
They are an English rock band and
they travel all over the world.
776
,890 --> 00:34:11,860
He's probably, he used to be gone about
11 months out of the year touring and now
777
,860 --> 00:34:17,080
he's gone about nine months out of the
year touring, but he's gone all the time.
778
,080 --> 00:34:18,670
Their work takes them all over the world.
779
,985 --> 00:34:20,385
Marc Preston: For him,
probably the online dating.
780
,385 --> 00:34:22,475
That's a very efficient thing,
you know, for him because, you
781
,475 --> 00:34:23,905
know, he's only in town so long.
782
,925 --> 00:34:27,155
He probably, you know, doesn't have
that long to kind of date around.
783
,155 --> 00:34:29,055
So that, that worked out well for you.
784
,245 --> 00:34:32,445
Um, so how long, uh, how
long y'all been married?
785
,815 --> 00:34:36,645
Virginia Gardner: We've
been married two years.
786
,645 --> 00:34:37,715
When did we get married?
787
,835 --> 00:34:40,385
2022, right?
788
,895 --> 00:34:42,175
No, 2023.
789
,875 --> 00:34:46,245
My memory is garbage, but
a little two ish years.
790
,625 --> 00:34:49,825
Marc Preston: I will say
anything past 2019 2020.
791
,825 --> 00:34:50,595
It's a gray area.
792
,715 --> 00:34:50,965
It's all
793
,965 --> 00:34:51,565
Virginia Gardner: the same.
794
,565 --> 00:34:53,535
I don't know how it's gone so fast.
795
,535 --> 00:34:53,795
Yeah
796
,495 --> 00:34:56,195
Marc Preston: At least it's
not just me dealing with that.
797
,455 --> 00:34:58,375
Have you had a chance to go
on tour with them at all?
798
,955 --> 00:35:01,995
Virginia Gardner: Um, I go on tour
occasionally when i'm sort of selfish
799
,995 --> 00:35:05,815
I pick the fun cities that I want to go
to and i'll fly out for the fun runs,
800
,845 --> 00:35:09,815
but being on tour is, is so tough.
801
,855 --> 00:35:12,295
Um, you know, they're on a tour bus.
802
,345 --> 00:35:18,505
The bunks are, gosh, I'm looking
at my table and I'm trying
803
,505 --> 00:35:20,345
to, I would say two feet wide.
804
,385 --> 00:35:24,905
So you're fitting two people and
these two foot wide bunks and
805
,845 --> 00:35:28,225
it's, you're on a moving vehicle.
806
,225 --> 00:35:30,895
I'm usually the only woman out
cause they're, they're Cruz
807
,895 --> 00:35:32,345
Lovely, but it's all guys.
808
,345 --> 00:35:38,255
And You're showering in the venue
showers that everyone is sharing and
809
,265 --> 00:35:42,695
it's, it's, it's very rock and roll
lifestyle that I can do for a couple
810
,695 --> 00:35:46,205
of days and it's fun for a couple of
days, but I, I don't know how to get
811
,215 --> 00:35:48,095
Marc Preston: back to your,
your, your adjustable bed.
812
,115 --> 00:35:49,585
It's a big guy.
813
,265 --> 00:35:50,405
Yeah.
814
,825 --> 00:35:53,015
Um, but yeah, I remember working in radio.
815
,535 --> 00:35:56,665
The big thing is you give
away the backstage passes.
816
,005 --> 00:36:01,150
There's all this romance behind quote
unquote backstage, Backstage really is
817
,150 --> 00:36:05,040
the most boring, you know, it's sweaty and
818
,050 --> 00:36:07,530
Virginia Gardner: stinky
and it's not cute backstage.
819
,530 --> 00:36:11,020
Marc Preston: So where do you like
to be while the concert's going on?
820
,030 --> 00:36:12,430
Do you like to kind of
be out in the audience?
821
,430 --> 00:36:15,240
Do you like to be side stage
or are you kind of like, okay,
822
,240 --> 00:36:16,410
this is my chance to be alone.
823
,410 --> 00:36:19,500
I always want to be backstage somewhere.
824
,910 --> 00:36:21,280
Virginia Gardner: No, I love side stage.
825
,310 --> 00:36:23,090
I always end up watching from side stage.
826
,100 --> 00:36:23,920
My husband.
827
,295 --> 00:36:26,515
Is always like, no, you
got to go out in the crowd.
828
,525 --> 00:36:28,345
The acoustics are better in the crowd.
829
,345 --> 00:36:30,225
I sound so much better in the crowd.
830
,225 --> 00:36:34,415
And I'm like, no, first of all, side
stage is still a novelty for me.
831
,425 --> 00:36:38,715
I still feel very cool, you know, side
stage when I get to watch my husband
832
,715 --> 00:36:42,855
from the sidebinds and I'm, I kind of
like being away from the crowds as well.
833
,855 --> 00:36:46,145
But it's really fun to be able to
watch from side stage and bring all our
834
,145 --> 00:36:48,335
friends that haven't had that experience.
835
,335 --> 00:36:52,745
And my grandma got to come out to a show
and see a little bit from side stage.
836
,745 --> 00:36:53,475
It's very fun.
837
,850 --> 00:36:56,120
Marc Preston: He's sort of right
because all the acoustics, everything
838
,120 --> 00:36:57,630
is designed for the audience.
839
Nineties Music Nostalgia
,740 --> 00:36:59,820
Like musically, what is your jam?
840
,830 --> 00:37:01,930
Like, what, what kind
of things do you dig?
841
,940 --> 00:37:05,280
Is his genre of music kind of
something you already like?
842
,280 --> 00:37:09,180
Or is, are you kind of like
more into other genres?
843
,605 --> 00:37:13,475
Virginia Gardner: I love rock music and
I am genuinely a fan of their music,
844
,485 --> 00:37:15,125
which I've told him so many times.
845
,145 --> 00:37:18,465
I think I would have gotten the
ick and not been that into him
846
,465 --> 00:37:19,795
if I wasn't into their music.
847
,795 --> 00:37:21,495
And I genuinely love their music.
848
,495 --> 00:37:24,695
So I'm thrilled to be able to
say that they make great music.
849
,695 --> 00:37:25,775
That's so much fun.
850
,895 --> 00:37:28,635
Um, But I, I'm so stuck in the nineties.
851
,635 --> 00:37:30,785
I love like nineties alt rock matchbox.
852
,795 --> 00:37:32,115
20 is my favorite band.
853
,115 --> 00:37:33,355
I'm obsessed with matchbox
854
,375 --> 00:37:34,315
Marc Preston: 20.
855
,055 --> 00:37:37,965
Well, you know, that's actually the
heyday of when I worked in music radio.
856
,965 --> 00:37:41,985
That was all of, I think
that's the last definitive.
857
,295 --> 00:37:43,135
Era of music.
858
,185 --> 00:37:45,195
Like you can look at the 80s.
859
,195 --> 00:37:46,305
You can hear music.
860
,305 --> 00:37:46,675
Yeah.
861
,675 --> 00:37:46,805
Okay.
862
,835 --> 00:37:48,945
That sounds like this era nineties.
863
,945 --> 00:37:51,175
It was kind of the last one.
864
,205 --> 00:37:56,915
And I think nineties was, was a real
great air, like Google dolls, a dishwalla,
865
,965 --> 00:37:58,775
you know, I'm just kind of rattling off.
866
,795 --> 00:37:59,075
Yeah.
867
,075 --> 00:38:01,845
I love sister Hazel.
868
,885 --> 00:38:02,445
That was another one.
869
,445 --> 00:38:02,625
Yeah.
870
,380 --> 00:38:07,650
You had a lot of bands who are touring
where live shows were a lot of fun to go
871
,650 --> 00:38:11,470
watch, you know, like which bands from
the era or some of your favorites besides
872
,470 --> 00:38:14,940
like Goo Goo Dolls, Matchbox 20 and you
know, which got to work on the radio.
873
,960 --> 00:38:17,380
Matchbox 20 had at least
one song every hour.
874
,380 --> 00:38:17,860
I think
875
,730 --> 00:38:20,240
Virginia Gardner: you kind
of hit all my favorites.
876
,250 --> 00:38:23,040
Matchbox 20 to me is
I, I, they're my go to.
877
,040 --> 00:38:25,640
I work out to Matchbox 20 and Rob Thomas.
878
,660 --> 00:38:26,330
Like I am.
879
,735 --> 00:38:28,835
Probably their biggest
and maybe youngest fan.
880
,835 --> 00:38:30,285
I love them so much.
881
,615 --> 00:38:34,115
Um, but I also have a really big
soft spot for some singer songwriter.
882
,115 --> 00:38:35,075
He kind of stuff too.
883
,075 --> 00:38:38,685
I just got into Zach Brian and I
know I'm not unique in saying that,
884
,685 --> 00:38:40,515
but I really love Zach Brian stuff.
885
,655 --> 00:38:41,875
Marc Preston: That's my daughters.
886
,280 --> 00:38:48,450
Guy, Zach Brian, she gets ahold of
Spotify in the car and so when I get
887
,450 --> 00:38:51,800
my end of year, you know, Spotify
says, here's your favorite bands as
888
,840 --> 00:38:53,840
Morgan Wallen was like, he's great.
889
,840 --> 00:38:54,500
Don't get me wrong.
890
,500 --> 00:38:58,030
I, you know, we all love, I'm
in Texas, you know, my country
891
,040 --> 00:38:59,100
and my daughter loves country.
892
,240 --> 00:39:00,540
But I was like, oh shit.
893
,580 --> 00:39:00,800
Okay.
894
,800 --> 00:39:01,670
He's my number one.
895
,670 --> 00:39:03,960
I sent her a message with a screenshot.
896
,960 --> 00:39:05,820
I'm like, this is what
you did to my playlist.
897
,510 --> 00:39:09,240
Every time we're in the car,
she takes over my, uh, my phone.
898
,700 --> 00:39:11,450
But Zach Brian.
899
,515 --> 00:39:14,605
Was, uh, or is, you know,
he's just interesting guy.
900
,725 --> 00:39:15,805
Uh, have you ever seen him live?
901
,135 --> 00:39:16,525
Virginia Gardner: No.
902
,525 --> 00:39:17,905
I'm dying to see him live.
903
,905 --> 00:39:21,115
I've seen Matchbox 20 many times,
but I am dying to see Zach.
904
,115 --> 00:39:22,525
Bryan, he's on my list for sure.
905
,525 --> 00:39:22,645
He's a
906
,645 --> 00:39:23,545
Marc Preston: great songwriter.
907
,695 --> 00:39:25,645
Yeah, I think his stuff is spot on.
908
,065 --> 00:39:30,595
Uh, there was got, I interviewed, um,
have you seen the video for Nine Ball?
909
,775 --> 00:39:32,820
Virginia Gardner (2): No, I
actually McConaughey seen No.
910
,205 --> 00:39:34,105
Marc Preston: Tyler Sheridan.
911
,105 --> 00:39:35,395
Tyler, uh, Ty Sheridan.
912
,400 --> 00:39:36,340
Sheridan, yes, yes, yes, yes.
913
,805 --> 00:39:38,605
He plays Matthew McConaughey's son.
914
,605 --> 00:39:40,735
And the whole idea about Nine Ball is.
915
,960 --> 00:39:44,740
Uh, a father who's kind of a,
kind of a hot mess and his son is
916
,750 --> 00:39:46,270
kind of, but go watch the video.
917
,270 --> 00:39:47,460
It's just really cool.
918
,540 --> 00:39:52,360
Um, I am jazzed about it because my
daughter, it's like she would marry
919
,360 --> 00:39:53,710
him in an, in an instant, I think.
920
,710 --> 00:39:53,910
Yeah.
921
,610 --> 00:39:57,300
The, um, like any time
Oklahoma smoke show comes
922
,300 --> 00:39:59,160
Virginia Gardner: on radio.
923
The Seven Questions
,755 --> 00:40:01,945
Marc Preston: Now, when you were a
kid, what movies were you watching?
924
,955 --> 00:40:04,775
Like what was, cause of course
you were, this was something that
925
,775 --> 00:40:06,575
was a thing you wanted to do.
926
,585 --> 00:40:10,505
What was there an inspiration early
on where there were films like, uh,
927
,525 --> 00:40:13,455
of course you mentioned, you know,
I am Sam, but was there anything
928
,455 --> 00:40:14,265
else that you were watching?
929
,415 --> 00:40:17,779
What was, what were your jams
movie wise when you were a kid?
930
,780 --> 00:40:19,150
Virginia Gardner: You know, I had even
931
,150 --> 00:40:19,700
Marc Preston: TV.
932
,840 --> 00:40:20,230
Virginia Gardner: Yeah.
933
,230 --> 00:40:24,830
I had a couple of VHS tapes
that I would just watch on
934
,870 --> 00:40:27,290
repeat cause we would go away.
935
,300 --> 00:40:31,110
My, my parents had a little boat that
they would take us out on on the weekends.
936
,110 --> 00:40:34,910
And so, um, I would just sit in my
little bedroom and I would just watch
937
,910 --> 00:40:36,820
the same VHS tapes over and over again.
938
,850 --> 00:40:38,310
So there's like six movies that I,
939
,340 --> 00:40:39,670
Marc Preston: wait,
what is it a boat with?
940
,670 --> 00:40:40,990
Is it a boat with cabins?
941
,440 --> 00:40:42,100
It was a
942
,100 --> 00:40:43,690
Virginia Gardner: little
boat with like two cabins.
943
,360 --> 00:40:45,130
And so
944
,160 --> 00:40:45,790
Marc Preston: how cool is
945
,790 --> 00:40:46,879
Virginia Gardner: that?
946
,880 --> 00:40:50,500
So in my little cabin, I would say, and
I would watch my VHS tapes that I had,
947
,500 --> 00:40:52,080
and there was only a handful of them.
948
,080 --> 00:40:54,760
So I would end up watching the
same films over and over again,
949
,760 --> 00:40:59,680
but it was eternal sunshine of the
spotless mind was one of them, um,
950
,910 --> 00:41:01,270
Marc Preston: for a little kid.
951
,420 --> 00:41:05,630
That's a deep end of a pool when it
comes to a subject matter, if you
952
,630 --> 00:41:07,444
will, or like concepts, you know,
953
,535 --> 00:41:11,265
Virginia Gardner: Well, and I can't say,
I'm sure that I wasn't fully understanding
954
,265 --> 00:41:14,705
the film, but there was something that
I, it was Focus Features at the time
955
,705 --> 00:41:17,595
was making a lot of those movies, and I
believe Focus Features made that movie,
956
,595 --> 00:41:23,045
I could be wrong, but I, I had this weird
sense of what I felt was like a good film
957
,045 --> 00:41:24,459
and something that felt like a good movie.
958
,700 --> 00:41:27,860
kind of artistically
elevated in some ways.
959
,860 --> 00:41:30,640
And those were the movies that I really
found myself gravitating towards.
960
,650 --> 00:41:34,420
So I had seen that movie a million times.
961
,500 --> 00:41:37,770
Uh, on the other end of the spectrum,
like Mr. Deeds was another one
962
,770 --> 00:41:40,780
that I had on VHS and I would
watch Mr. Deeds all the time.
963
,290 --> 00:41:43,120
Um, those are two of my favorites.
964
,120 --> 00:41:45,820
I'm trying to think of other things
that I was watching at the time.
965
,480 --> 00:41:47,575
Um, Yeah.
966
,575 --> 00:41:50,285
I mean, those two, those are the two
ones that are, that are coming up.
967
,325 --> 00:41:51,745
Oh, like, you know, Jurassic Park.
968
,815 --> 00:41:55,475
I grew up with Jurassic Park as
it was coming out and ET and all
969
,475 --> 00:41:56,985
those amazing movies as well.
970
,195 --> 00:41:59,215
Marc Preston: Well, going back to music,
how did you get into the nineties thing?
971
,225 --> 00:42:01,225
How did that even land
as a thing you were into?
972
,225 --> 00:42:03,135
Because you were, uh, that's a long time.
973
,695 --> 00:42:05,905
I'm like thinking how
long the nineties were.
974
,905 --> 00:42:08,155
And I really don't want
to think about how long
975
,155 --> 00:42:08,545
Virginia Gardner: it is.
976
,365 --> 00:42:12,015
Marc Preston: But how did, how did that,
there was somebody else, God, who would.
977
,380 --> 00:42:12,650
Okay.
978
,650 --> 00:42:13,910
It was somebody I spoke with not longer.
979
,910 --> 00:42:16,580
They said they, uh, their mother,
you know, they just got ahold of
980
,580 --> 00:42:19,220
their mother's playlist and, um,
981
,310 --> 00:42:22,920
God, I got to work on the memory thing.
982
,010 --> 00:42:24,370
I'm even as ridiculous.
983
,370 --> 00:42:25,080
I'm taking that thing.
984
,080 --> 00:42:28,770
Somebody said that lion's mane
mushroom stuff, you know, it's
985
,770 --> 00:42:30,320
like, yeah, it's supposed to help.
986
,550 --> 00:42:31,810
Uh, it hasn't so far.
987
,950 --> 00:42:33,760
Uh, but I've only been on for a few weeks.
988
,800 --> 00:42:34,450
We'll see how it goes.
989
,510 --> 00:42:34,840
Virginia Gardner (2): Yeah.
990
,860 --> 00:42:38,090
Marc Preston: But like, how did, how did
the nineties, how did the, that genre?
991
,480 --> 00:42:39,550
How'd you lock into that?
992
,590 --> 00:42:42,220
Was that something your parents were
listening to and you kind of dialed in?
993
,300 --> 00:42:43,240
Virginia Gardner: It was my parents.
994
,240 --> 00:42:46,850
I mean, I was born in 95, so I was,
you know, I missed the first five
995
,850 --> 00:42:49,440
years of the nineties and was so
young for the last half of them.
996
,470 --> 00:42:54,570
Um, but it was what my parents listened to
when I was younger, especially, you know,
997
,660 --> 00:42:58,680
a lot of my formative sort of childhood
memories were on this boat and the amount
998
,680 --> 00:43:00,030
of time we would spend on this boat.
999
,030 --> 00:43:02,320
And so we would be cruising
around the Sacramento river.
Speaker:1000
,405 --> 00:43:07,785
Matchbox 20 would be on all the time and
the background and these other nineties
Speaker:1001
,785 --> 00:43:13,595
bands and that kind of alt rock boat rock
sort of vibe that my parents had going.
Speaker:1002
,595 --> 00:43:14,675
So it just kind of, well,
Speaker:1003
,675 --> 00:43:16,815
Marc Preston: I got to know what
was your favorite matchbox 20.
Speaker:1004
,835 --> 00:43:20,305
So I'll tell, I'll tell
you mine is long day,
Speaker:1005
,975 --> 00:43:21,325
Virginia Gardner: long day.
Speaker:1006
,325 --> 00:43:22,645
Mine might be mad season.
Speaker:1007
,645 --> 00:43:23,895
I love mad season.
Speaker:1008
,210 --> 00:43:26,810
Marc Preston: My youngest loved
any, anything she can sing
Speaker:1009
,810 --> 00:43:27,960
along to had a bad word in it.
Speaker:1010
,210 --> 00:43:30,700
So, you know, she liked long
day cause she could do that.
Speaker:1011
,790 --> 00:43:33,710
But anyway, but, um, now she
doesn't need a song to do that.
Speaker:1012
,110 --> 00:43:37,150
But, um, it's just such a
pleasure for me to meet somebody
Speaker:1013
,150 --> 00:43:38,720
that loves that era of music.
Speaker:1014
,110 --> 00:43:41,090
Uh, it's doesn't get talked
about that much, but there was
Speaker:1015
,090 --> 00:43:42,360
some great music coming out.
Speaker:1016
,410 --> 00:43:43,350
It's so good.
Speaker:1017
,350 --> 00:43:43,880
I mean,
Speaker:1018
,000 --> 00:43:46,670
Virginia Gardner: yeah, and
it was very, just feel good.
Speaker:1019
,670 --> 00:43:47,680
It was catchy.
Speaker:1020
,680 --> 00:43:49,280
It had real instruments.
Speaker:1021
,280 --> 00:43:52,230
It wasn't the computerized
drums and computerized.
Speaker:1022
,620 --> 00:43:53,100
Everything.
Speaker:1023
,100 --> 00:43:56,940
It was this real music and so fun,
live and had this great energy to it.
Speaker:1024
,940 --> 00:44:01,590
And I felt a lot of the lyrics were
really saying something and, uh, yeah.
Speaker:1025
,590 --> 00:44:05,580
You know, I, I could go on and on, but to
me, that's just such a fun era of music.
Speaker:1026
,580 --> 00:44:08,970
My workout playlist to this day is
like exclusively nineties songs,
Speaker:1027
,590 --> 00:44:10,160
Marc Preston: tonic.
Speaker:1028
,730 --> 00:44:13,610
Uh, I remember talking the lead
singer of that, of, uh, Tony.
Speaker:1029
,150 --> 00:44:14,181
Oh, fun.
Speaker:1030
,186 --> 00:44:15,620
And, um, if you can, yeah.
Speaker:1031
,160 --> 00:44:18,470
Uh, you know, if you can
only s if you can only sing.
Speaker:1032
,470 --> 00:44:18,560
Yeah.
Speaker:1033
,710 --> 00:44:18,890
Yeah.
Speaker:1034
,890 --> 00:44:19,370
Great song.
Speaker:1035
,375 --> 00:44:19,545
Yeah.
Speaker:1036
,790 --> 00:44:22,070
And I asked him, I said, where
that, where did that song.
Speaker:1037
,335 --> 00:44:25,445
Come from, cause you know, you're
married to a musician and I love
Speaker:1038
,455 --> 00:44:27,015
the idea of how did the song come?
Speaker:1039
,065 --> 00:44:28,395
How did the songs come together?
Speaker:1040
,395 --> 00:44:31,705
Like talk to Richard Marcs, his song
he did called Angelia, which I liked.
Speaker:1041
,735 --> 00:44:35,895
And he was like, he was on an American
airlines flight and the flight
Speaker:1042
,895 --> 00:44:37,865
attendant had a name text at Angelia.
Speaker:1043
,955 --> 00:44:38,935
So it wasn't a real story.
Speaker:1044
,985 --> 00:44:40,415
It's just, he built it
out of that, you know?
Speaker:1045
,135 --> 00:44:45,195
But the guy for, for, uh, Tonic, he was
like, uh, yeah, you know, there was this.
Speaker:1046
,465 --> 00:44:48,775
There's a, somebody I was dating,
uh, everybody in my family said
Speaker:1047
,775 --> 00:44:50,625
that, uh, don't, don't be with them.
Speaker:1048
,625 --> 00:44:53,815
They're bad news, but you're, but there's
like, but if you could only see that,
Speaker:1049
,825 --> 00:44:56,865
you know, you don't think when you're in
that relationship, you're making excuses.
Speaker:1050
,475 --> 00:45:01,605
I walked right into that kind of a
relationship immediately thereafter.
Speaker:1051
,605 --> 00:45:05,005
And it was so funny as it was kind
of on the back end and family,
Speaker:1052
,015 --> 00:45:07,485
friends like, yeah, she's really
not, you know, ended up marrying her.
Speaker:1053
,045 --> 00:45:11,675
Um, because you look at music
and the lyrics is like it.
Speaker:1054
,110 --> 00:45:16,050
It's so good when you can see
it comes from a place, a story.
Speaker:1055
,760 --> 00:45:19,180
Does your husband write music?
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Does he, is that kind of, or
does he kind of stick to the
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instrumental aspect of things?
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Virginia Gardner: He writes some of his
own stuff, but when it comes to his work
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in the band, they all write together
sometimes, but it's, it's often there.
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Singer and their lead guitarists that
sort of take the, take the lead on
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the songwriting stuff for their band.
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But I, you know, as a big music fan,
it's so fun to me to hear about how
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their sessions go and how they create
these songs and how sometimes it's a
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beat first and then it's lyrics, or
sometimes it's someone that's going.
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It's a
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Marc Preston: lyric or if it's the music
and you know, somebody hears something
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there maybe is a word or phrase or like,
you know, something that just sets it off.
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I've never been a music writer
person, uh, but I, I'm, I'm
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fascinated by how songs come together.
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Does he have a studio space
at home where he record?
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Beautiful poetry.
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Yes.
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But does he have a recording space
at home that he kind of works out?
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Virginia Gardner: We have a guest
bedroom, but it's now mostly his
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studio and there's a bed in it.
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So he's, he's taken over the guest
bedroom with his little makeshift.
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Hopefully one day we'll have a space where
he can have a full, you know, full studio.
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That's not also a
bedroom, but for now it's
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Marc Preston: Before we get going,
I always like to do something
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I call my seven questions.
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Uh, it's always kind of the way
I like to get a couple things out
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there I think are fun and I always
talk about food as I mentioned.
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So I got to know what is your favorite,
uh, if you say comfort food, what
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immediately comes to mind for you?
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Virginia Gardner: Indian food.
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Love Indian food.
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Love a curry.
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Marc Preston: I live on an Island
in South Texas now, uh, right on
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the tip of Texas, South Padre.
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And we don't, we don't have.
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Any of that kind of ethics stuff here.
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I'm like, I need Indian and I need tie.
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And I said that the other day, I was
like, I've not had that in a while.
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I'm going through withdrawal.
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Virginia Gardner: Oh, I would be so sad.
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I love it.
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Once a week I usually have
like a, either a tie or, or an
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Indian food, curry, something.
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Marc Preston: Guys had
turkey sandwich for lunch.
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Now, if you're going to say you had
three people you're going to sit down
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with and you're going to talk story
for a few hours now living or not,
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who would you like to sit down with?
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And who do you, who would be fun to
have coffee with for a few hours?
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Virginia Gardner: I mean, we've talked
so much about Matchbox 20 today.
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I gotta go rob Thomas.
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I would love to sit down.
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I've met him once.
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He, um, Really?
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I did.
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He, he thought my name was Jenny, not
Ginny, but I was like, that's okay.
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Whatever you want to call me, it's okay.
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Marc Preston: Wait, wait, he thought,
he thought your name was Jenny,
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Virginia Gardner: like J E N N Y. When
we were, uh, when we were introduced, he
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was like, Oh, nice to meet you, Jenny.
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And I was like, I'm not
even going to correct him.
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He can call me whatever
he wants to call me.
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It's okay.
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Um, so I would love to
have Rob Thomas there.
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I would love to chat with, oh my gosh.
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Um, I would love, oh my gosh, whenever
I'm on the spot with these kinds of
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questions, I can't think of anybody.
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Um, Kate Winslet, I'm a huge fan of hers.
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I think she's a fantastic performer.
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I would love to be able to chat
with her about what she does.
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And.
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Let me go like a filmmaker that I
would be excited to sit and chat with.
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I would love to talk to,
um, let's go John Malkovich.
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I love John Malkovich.
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I'd love to chat with John Malkovich.
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Marc Preston: You know, no, but I don't
think anybody said that, but that would be
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Virginia Gardner: kind of a nut rash
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Marc Preston: more guys.
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I would love to sit down with him.
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Virginia Gardner (2): Yeah.
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Marc Preston: He just seems kind of
not out there, but, uh, just enough
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like I would like to have him and, um,
uh, uh, uh, God, he's in slow horses.
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Virginia Gardner: Between the two of
us, we'll never know anyone's name ever.
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Marc Preston: But I've
been watching slow horses
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Virginia Gardner: recently.
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I know what you're talking about.
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Marc Preston: You know, of course I have
to do this for the sake of, uh, God,
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this is, this is really Gary Oldman.
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Gary Oldman.
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Gary Oldman.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Like, like Everything he's
in, it was like, uh, like the
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professional all the way on.
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It's like, God, the guy just like,
he could literally do everything.
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So getting a couple of people together
like that is just like, what would
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they talk about to get that to me?
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Virginia Gardner: Yeah.
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Marc Preston: Um, now if, if
we're going next question, going
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back when you were a young Jenny.
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Who was your first celebrity crush?
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Virginia Gardner: Johnny
Depp, which maybe, I don't
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know, not to be controversial.
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I know he's not, um, everyone's
favorite person at the moment, but, but
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at the time, Johnny Depp and Pirates
of the Caribbean was my total crush.
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Probably my first, yeah, my
first like crush ever was.
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probably Johnny Depp Pirates of the
Caribbean as a pirate specifically.
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Though,
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Marc Preston: if you're, let's say
your next question, you're going to
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be living on an Island, uh, an exotic
Island, something beautiful, a resort,
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uh, somewhere you want to be, but
you got to be there an entire year.
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There's no streaming,
no internet, no nothing.
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You got it.
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So you can bring one movie.
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And like on DVD, and you can
bring one CD with you, uh, you
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can listen to over and over again.
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So you can watch over and over again.
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What would that DVD be?
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And what would that CD be?
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Virginia Gardner: I don't think
I'm going to say anything new.
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I'm going to go back to
Matchbox 20 probably.
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I think the album is Exile on Mainstream.
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So I would go Exile on Mainstream
and then I would go Eternal
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Sunshine of the Spotless Minds.
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Those are such comforting,
uh, pieces of art for me.
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I would, I would happily watch.
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And listen to both of those forever.
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Love them.
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Marc Preston: Yeah.
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The Jim Carrey is somebody
I would love to sit down.
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Yeah.
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He's, he's
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Virginia Gardner: fascinating.
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Yeah.
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Marc Preston: We did kind of
answer that question previously.
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I was like, if you chose something
besides matchbox 20, I would be like,
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really, from the time you get up to
the time, next question, uh, time
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you get up to the time you go to bed.
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For you would be the definition
of a perfect day, the component
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parts, the things that would
comprise that perfect day for you.
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Perfect Day and Career Reflections
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Virginia Gardner: For me, a perfect day.
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I love exercising.
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Starting my day with exercise is something
that to me is like a luxury that, that
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I, I look forward to every single day.
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So it would have to be a gym session.
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Um, I love an ice bath, a little
bit of a three minute ice bath.
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Uh, and then.
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I would,
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Marc Preston: Oh gosh, I don't know if
you're, you're climbing these towers
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and in the ice bath, you're choosing two
things I think are the most unpleasant
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Virginia Gardner: wild behavior.
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Um,
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Marc Preston: but what, what do
you get out of the, well, I'm
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curious, the ice bath, what is it?
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Does it, does it make
you feel invigorated?
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What exactly does that do?
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Because I know people who like to do that.
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There's even these nitrogen things
you, Oh, I used to do that like
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Virginia Gardner: three times a week.
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I love those.
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Marc Preston: What is it you get?
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I'm curious.
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And I don't mean to sound reductive at
all, but what do you get out of that?
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Virginia Gardner: It's a little
bit of an adrenaline rush.
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I also, for me, my, I feel clear.
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I feel, uh, like my, any brain fog
or anything sort of dissipates.
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And it's, I don't know, your,
your body just feels a little
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bit like tighter and, and good.
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And it's great for recovery.
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If you're a little bit sore or
something, or, or, or if you're a
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little hung over, honestly, it's
like a great hangover cure as well.
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So it just kind of is a good reset to
me, a little body reset that I love.
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Marc Preston: I saw an
episode of Anthony Bourdain.
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I think it was, uh, I think
it was no reservations.
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He did that and they explain
what it does physiologically.
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It makes your body, I hear like friends up
north talking about how cold it's getting.
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I'm like, yeah, you can keep
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Virginia Gardner (2): that.
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You're
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Marc Preston: 54 degrees right now.
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And to me, this is freezing.
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Um, but You know, I
resisted a lot of times.
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If you think something's not
going to be cool, you go do it.
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Like, okay, you might actually
might like, yeah, yeah.
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Well, we'll, we'll, we'll think
I'll contemplate that actually.
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That sounds, but now
I'm thinking about it.
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Maybe that'll be a good, now, if you,
if you were looking, uh, you know, this
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is what you're doing for a living now.
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If this was not an option for you, where
do you think you'd find joy as another
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vocation besides doing this thing?
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Virginia Gardner: My answer has
always previously been therapy.
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I, like being a therapist, I'm
so fascinated by people and the
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study of people and, and having
conversations that I think that would
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just be a really fascinating career.
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So I, I would have to say that, or
also I've, I've really recently gotten
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into sort of home design and DIY and.
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Painting and constructing stuff and,
and sort of, um, trying to get a lot
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of housework stuff done by myself.
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And I'm really enjoying that process.
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So maybe something like that now.
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Marc Preston: I say the idea
of you doing the traveling
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cooking kind of like food thing.
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Yeah.
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That would be, I would love it.
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And by the way, I, you know, his travel
channel doesn't play those things anymore.
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It's all like haunted stuff.
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I'm like, I miss those shows.
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Like, you know, the travel type
stuff, because I'm like thinking
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that would be a great gig to have.
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Virginia Gardner (2): Yeah.
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Marc Preston: Um, I'll
keep my fingers crossed.
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Thanks.
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Do that one day.
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Uh, now the last question I got for you
is if you were to jump on that Delorean,
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go back in time to 16 year old you, what
piece of advice would you have for you?
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Uh, either to make that moment somehow
better or put yourself on a track, a
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path You know, a better path if you
will, but just what would that piece
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of advice be to 16 year old you?
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Virginia Gardner: I just think the advice
would be just trust in yourself and
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trust that, that what's meant to work
out will work out in that will, you know,
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whenever people come to me and say, do
you have any advice for young actors?
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I always hesitate to give this
advice, but, but it's truly.
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I think that the only reason that I've
really been able to sustain the career
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that I have is I've never had a plan B
and I never had a high school diploma.
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I didn't have a college degree.
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There was never anything that
I felt I could fall back on.
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And so many times.
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And when you're in this industry
in this line of work, you have
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your heart broken again and again.
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And I would have walked away
so many times if I had anything
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I could have fallen back on.
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But I had nothing other than
you have to make this work.
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And that's been a really valuable
thing for me as is not having
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anything to fall back on, but just
sticking with this and making it work.
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I think it helps with focus.
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Yes.
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Marc Preston: Don't don't that like,
you know, I've talked to so many
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people that said this is, I just.
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There are other things they're
passionate, they can see being a
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teacher or something like that.
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But as far as practically, they can't
see themselves doing anything else.
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And so some people may interpret
that as being hard headed.
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I just think it's just like, you
know, you're following your heart.
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You know, I think that's, I think
there's a wonderful Zen to that.
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Me too.
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I really just enjoyed,
uh, sitting down with you.
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I really appreciate you taking time out.
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I love, I love the, uh, little
like, you know, sun behind you
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makes you look almost holy.
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I'm backlit.
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I'm also sweating.
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Virginia Gardner: It's so
hot in this corner now.
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Marc Preston: It's great to meet
somebody else who has such a
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love of the, uh, nineties music.
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Nineties music and food.
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Yes, indeed.
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Upcoming Projects and Final Thoughts
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Well, do you have anything else
in the, uh, in the queue that's
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coming out anytime soon as well?
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Virginia Gardner: I do.
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I have a movie called the breed
apart, which is coming out.
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I think maybe in the next couple
of months, maybe like May, April
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of this year, um, which is a sequel
to a movie called The Breed that
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was released about 20 years ago.
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So it's a fun kind of re
imagining of that movie.
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And then I made a movie called
Killer Whale in Australia a few
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months ago, which is really fun and
that'll be out sometime this year.
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Marc Preston: Fantastic.
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Well, thank you.
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Thank you.
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Thank you.
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Uh, it's been a pleasure and I'm going to
go look up your, uh, the struts going to
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Virginia Gardner: check them out.
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Marc Preston: I wish you nothing but
the best and hopefully you'll have
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a chance to catch up down the line.
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Virginia Gardner: Awesome.
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Thank you, Marc.
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I appreciate it.
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Thanks for having me.
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Marc Preston: All right.
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There you go.
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Virginia or Jenny Gardner really
enjoyed the conversation again.
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The new movie is called F Mary kill.
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It is in theaters right now.
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She stars alongside Lucy Hale.
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Uh, and of course it was directed by
Laura Murphy, who was just on the show.
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A few days ago.
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Again, this is F Mary kill week
here on story and craft, apparently.
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So check it out.
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I really enjoy the movie.
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It's a great mix.
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Horror, comedy, good time.
Speaker:1347
,460 --> 00:57:05,530
I think you'll enjoy it
in theaters right now.
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So check it out.
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Okay, so do me a favor, if you would,
just pop over to storyandcraftpod.
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com.
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Everything about the
show, it is right there.
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Do me a favor on your podcast app,
leave a review, leave some stars,
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Uh, I'm going to jump on out of here.
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It is Friday.
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That means the weekend is upon us.
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Uh, I got a puppy laying on the
floor right here who is, uh, been
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waiting for me to take him outside.
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So that's what we're up to right now.
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Uh, you go have a great weekend and
I want to thank you as always for
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making whatever I've got going on here.
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Part of what you've got going on.
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Going to be back in a few
days with another episode.
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For you.
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So we'll talk to you soon,
right here on story and craft.
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Announcer: That's it for this
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