Welcome to The Story & Craft Podcast!
Sept. 13, 2024

Byron Bowers | Spiritual Comedy

Byron Bowers | Spiritual Comedy

On this episode of The Story & Craft Podcast, we sit down with comedian and actor, Byron Bowers from the Apple TV+ showLady In The Lake!”  Byron shares personal stories about his childhood in Georgia and the influence of 90’s black TV and music.  We also discuss Byron's transition from stand-up comedy to acting, with roles in the Showtime show “The Chi”, as well as upcoming projects, including Marvel's “Wonder Man.”  We cover the challenges and rewards of a creative career, family expectations, the joys and trials of parenthood, and finding humor in life's darkest moments. It’s a great conversation with a comedian and actor who has an inspiring and intriguing story to share.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

01:59 Byron's Journey to Comedy

03:20 Growing Up in Georgia

06:45 Comedy Inspirations and Early Struggles

10:14 Transition to Acting

19:19 Lady in the Lake and Personal Insights

25:45 Finding Humor in Life's Challenges

33:49 Working with an Accomplished Actress

35:06 Family Background and Early Life

36:13 Pursuing Comedy Against Family Expectations

38:21 Parenting and Finding Joy

41:45 Challenges of Adolescence and Society

46:41 Comedy Inspirations and Observations

52:05 The Seven Questions

 

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Transcript

Byron Bowers:

I mean, I always was, like, this guy who, I

 

 

 

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guess, said inappropriate shit.

 

 

 

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So my friends was like, you

 

should go to the comedy club.

 

 

 

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So we drove up there one time on

 

amateur night, and I got on stage,

 

 

 

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and I got booed by like 300 people.

 

 

 

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Announcer: Welcome to Story Craft.

 

 

 

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Now, here's your host, Marc Preston.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: All right, here we go.

 

 

 

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Another episode of Story Craft.

 

 

 

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And as the lovely young lady

 

said, My name is Marc Preston.

 

 

 

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If this is your first episode, thank

 

you so much for checking out the show.

 

 

 

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Uh, and if you've been

 

here before, welcome back.

 

 

 

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Uh, glad to have you.

 

 

 

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All right.

 

 

 

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Today is going to be a fun episode.

 

 

 

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Really enjoy this conversation with

 

actor and comedian Byron Bowers.

 

 

 

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You may have seen him

 

in the TV show, the shy.

 

 

 

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You can see him now in the

 

Apple TV plus show called.

 

 

 

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Lady in the Lake with Natalie

 

Portman, a great performance.

 

 

 

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Really enjoyed his work and also

 

he's going to be in the upcoming

 

 

 

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Marvel show called Wonder Man.

 

 

 

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A great conversation.

 

 

 

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Really enjoyed this opportunity

 

to sit down with Byron.

 

 

 

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Such a cool, candid guy, really kind

 

of put it out there, how he got to be

 

 

 

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a comedian, how he got into acting.

 

 

 

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And I really enjoyed just his vibe.

 

 

 

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He's a cool dude.

 

 

 

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Sometimes you can just sum up a

 

guy by saying he's a cool dude.

 

 

 

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And, uh, this dude is going to be

 

on momentarily, but I just want

 

 

 

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So let's jump right into it.

 

 

 

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Today is Byron Bower's day

 

right now on story and craft.

 

 

 

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Thank you so much for

 

joining me today, man.

 

 

 

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Uh, how are you doing?

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Not bad, man.

 

 

 

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Not bad.

 

 

 

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Very relaxed.

 

 

 

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Just came from a very.

 

 

 

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Uh, intense drive

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: road trip drive

 

or were you like driving in L.

 

 

 

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Kind of intense drive.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: It's uh, both.

 

 

 

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But yeah, I went to the mountains.

 

 

 

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I drove to the mountains.

 

 

 

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Today.

 

 

 

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Okay.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: Now, was

 

this just like a little R.

 

 

 

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R.

 

 

 

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Or were you like shooting

 

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Marc Preston: Are you in L.

 

 

 

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Or?

 

 

 

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Yeah, I'm in

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: L.

 

 

 

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I'm in L.

 

 

 

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A.

 

 

 

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I don't even know if it's R and R because

 

you definitely not relaxed at all.

 

 

 

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It's uh, you're doing probably 80 miles

 

an hour at around a 25 mile an hour curve.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: So was this like, were

 

you hiking up there or was this just

 

 

 

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uh, was it just a drive kind of a thing?

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: No, you

 

go, you go for the drive.

 

 

 

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It's a very intense drive.

 

 

 

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It's like performing.

 

 

 

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Oh.

 

 

 

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For those who don't,

 

yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

 

 

 

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I don't do cocaine so this is a way

 

to get, I guess the, uh, Kind of

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: adrenaline

 

thing going on, I guess.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: The kind of vehicle

 

we're talking about, it was

 

 

 

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just like a sports car drive.

 

 

 

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Yep.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Yep.

 

 

 

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Yep.

 

 

 

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Very spiritual, very spiritual

 

car for a spiritual drive.

 

 

 

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You know,

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: very nice.

 

 

 

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So no, we are, you're originally from LA

 

or you, uh, did you move out that way?

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: I grew up in

 

Atlanta, Georgia, you know, um,

 

 

 

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I was born in Athens, raised in

 

Atlanta, very flat, very flat land.

 

 

 

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Um, And, uh, yes, uh,

 

Athens is a smaller town.

 

 

 

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Um, I think they say it got

 

90 churches in that one town.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: Well, like I grew

 

up in Dallas, so it's sort of like

 

 

 

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Georgia's Dallas, you know, every

 

time I go up there, I'm like, this

 

 

 

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is sort of like familiar Athens.

 

 

 

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I'm trying to think Athens.

 

 

 

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Isn't that where, uh, I can be wrong.

 

 

 

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Is that where REM is from?

 

 

 

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Are they from Athens?

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Yep.

 

 

 

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Yep.

 

 

 

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That's the interesting part.

 

 

 

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It's also a hippie part of,

 

of, uh, of the South, right?

 

 

 

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You got the B 52s from there.

 

 

 

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You got REM from there.

 

 

 

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Um, so it does have a little artsy, you

 

know, you know, uh, scene to it that I

 

 

 

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never got to experience, but it's also

 

home of the, uh, you know, Confederate,

 

 

 

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uh, Constitution of the United States.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: Oh, okay.

 

 

 

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Okay.

 

 

 

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Actually, you know, is it kind of like,

 

uh, Kind of like Austin, you know,

 

 

 

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in Texas where it's a little artsy,

 

but it's kind of the, uh, phrase they

 

 

 

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have in Austin is keep Austin weird.

 

 

 

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So it's Austin weird.

 

 

 

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Yeah,

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: no, it's definitely less.

 

 

 

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It's definitely less,

 

uh, artsy than Austin.

 

 

 

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Um, but if as conservative as it is,

 

it's a little bit more, you know,

 

 

 

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less a fair than like, uh, you know,

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: gotcha.

 

 

 

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I gotcha.

 

 

 

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So, I've been trying to remember

 

in Georgia, where I took my

 

 

 

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kids, uh, I'm sorry, in Atlanta.

 

 

 

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What's that big drive in

 

that everybody goes to?

 

 

 

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Is it the Varsity?

 

 

 

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Is that what it's called?

 

 

 

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The one that has the chili dogs

 

and the orange, the orange drink.

 

 

 

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That's the one thing I remember

 

is that orange drink, you know?

 

 

 

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And then there was a little,

 

there was a little dance party.

 

 

 

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You know, the next day I

 

remembered it pretty well.

 

 

 

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You know, it was, it was, uh, it was

 

a, uh, it was really, really good.

 

 

 

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I was like, if I was in college, that's,

 

that's what I would be hitting that place.

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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But as the years have gone by,

 

I'm like, yeah, my body's like,

 

 

 

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no, you can't do this a bunch.

 

 

 

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No,

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: I had someone,

 

but recently, maybe like a year

 

 

 

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or two ago, I rediscovered it.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: You know, isn't that

 

a sobering thought when you go, you

 

 

 

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know, I used to do this thing when

 

I was a kid, like I've got all three

 

 

 

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of my kids are now in college, but I

 

would take them to thing and do things

 

 

 

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that like, I was like, Oh, I did this

 

when I was a kid and ate this thing.

 

 

 

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And like the time has expired for me to be

 

able to do this without it causing issues.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

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Mine was dumb cause I'm in the airport

 

and uh, I had to go to a whole different

 

 

 

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terminal to get to the varsity.

 

 

 

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Cause Atlanta airport is big.

 

 

 

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So I'm going from like terminal

 

D to terminal, B or something

 

 

 

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to get just to have a chili dog

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: you I will say this if

 

you're in the airport I'm assuming

 

 

 

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you're going to be on an airplane

 

and that's a really brave move man.

 

 

 

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That's oh, yeah You usually keep it bland

 

when I'm flying, you know by the way,

 

 

 

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I talked to Dylan Arnold a few weeks

 

ago for Lady in the Lake and Great.

 

 

 

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I really I really enjoyed it.

 

 

 

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His character was out there.

 

 

 

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It was

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: oh, yeah, it's crazy

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: They're, they're,

 

uh, weed eating right outside

 

 

 

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my door here right now.

 

 

 

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So if you hear anything, it's momentary.

 

 

 

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Um, so the, uh, you know, the

 

groundskeeper here was like,

 

 

 

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uh, it's, it's his day to trim

 

things and make them look nice.

 

 

 

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Um, so I'm just trying

 

to get our shoulders to

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: match.

 

 

 

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Oh, there we go.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: Yeah.

 

 

 

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All right.

 

 

 

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You know, so you're looking, you're

 

looking more casual and relaxed than I am.

 

 

 

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I like that.

 

 

 

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I shoulda, shoulda shoulda gone

 

t shirt, but you know, I was

 

 

 

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curious the, the lady in the lake.

 

 

 

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Your background is comedy and you played.

 

 

 

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A comedian, but there weren't a

 

lot of really funny scenes for you.

 

 

 

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That was kind of the irony of that, you

 

know, for folks that haven't seen it

 

 

 

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yet, which is, I, I, I really enjoyed it.

 

 

 

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It was one of the few shows I've seen

 

where I didn't know where it was going.

 

 

 

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You know, I, oh wow.

 

 

 

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You know, it's a thing where you

 

watching and you're like, okay, I'd

 

 

 

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kind of, you know, break it down.

 

 

 

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I see.

 

 

 

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It's kind of, I had no clue, you know?

 

 

 

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I had no idea.

 

 

 

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Wow.

 

 

 

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Thank you, man.

 

 

 

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But it was, was, it was great.

 

 

 

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And you were kind of a, you

 

were kind of that backbone.

 

 

 

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You were, you were there, you were like,

 

you know, talking about comedy and.

 

 

 

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In that era, that was supposed

 

to be, I guess, early sixties.

 

 

 

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Is that roughly when it was

 

supposed to be taking place?

 

 

 

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Late sixties, late sixties, late sixties.

 

 

 

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Was comedy to your, to your mind,

 

was it segregated to a degree?

 

 

 

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Like in black comedians, we're just

 

going to be doing black clubs because

 

 

 

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before prior showed up, was comedy

 

kind of like had its own individual

 

 

 

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camps and audiences kind of like that?

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Well, I mean,

 

it's still like that, really.

 

 

 

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You know, um, and I think,

 

you know, prior was to divide.

 

 

 

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He was actually the divide, um, before,

 

you know, the goal was to do Vegas and

 

 

 

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you had comedians like Dick Gregory.

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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Oh yeah.

 

 

 

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One of the first right to get on and

 

people didn't have beards and they

 

 

 

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were shaved, clean shaved, and they

 

told very like polished street jokes.

 

 

 

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And then Lenny Bruce came

 

out and then he just.

 

 

 

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started talking about, you know,

 

the inner thoughts and stuff that my

 

 

 

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comedy really spawns from, like stuff

 

you really shouldn't tell nobody.

 

 

 

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Um, so I think that was, and then

 

my character is a version of that.

 

 

 

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Um, you know, at, during the time,

 

late 60, 67, 68, when he just saying

 

 

 

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whatever he wants, he wants to say, and

 

it's consequences with that, you know?

 

 

 

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So.

 

 

 

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And then Pryor came out and really

 

like, you know, uh, that's when things

 

 

 

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became like black audiences and like

 

white audiences, you know, you have the

 

 

 

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chitlin circuit, but it wasn't like,

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: was that what they call it?

 

 

 

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Chitlin circuit?

 

 

 

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Is that what it was called?

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: That's what,

 

that's what it's, that's what

 

 

 

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it's still called actually.

 

 

 

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Really?

 

 

 

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I

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: remember another

 

one's red Fox and I remember, uh,

 

 

 

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watching him on Sanford and son.

 

 

 

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And then, uh, My parents had one

 

of his albums and they were out

 

 

 

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one night and I had to babysit her.

 

 

 

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I was like, Oh, I'm going to put

 

on a Red Fox album, not realizing.

 

 

 

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Not really what I was experienced.

 

 

 

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You know, I was a little kid and it was

 

not what was I saw in Sanford and Son

 

 

 

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It was it exposed me to some new ideas.

 

 

 

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I will put it like that Yeah, but uh,

 

but I didn't know that was uh, that was

 

 

 

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a thing I thought it was just kind of

 

after prior with just things kind of

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: well, you know Fred Sanford

 

entertained all even though he was dirty.

 

 

 

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He's the first comedian with the

 

Triple x label on a comedy album.

 

 

 

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So he entertained all but Uh Yeah,

 

uh, Pryor was the first comic to

 

 

 

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really talk about white people.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: I think he got white

 

people to laugh at themselves a little

 

 

 

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bit, you know, or got a chance to see

 

the humor, you know, his, he was, he

 

 

 

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was the first, it seemed like that was

 

a transition point, you know, Pryor

 

 

 

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came on the scene and it was just

 

like, Something changed, you know?

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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But I mean, he's on my Mount Rushmore, you

 

know, along with like George Carlin and.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Carlin's another one.

 

 

 

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Yep.

 

 

 

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They, they both spawned together.

 

 

 

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They both to me are

 

descendants of Lenny Bruce.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: Lenny Bruce is really

 

the one that had to take those chances

 

 

 

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and get himself into trouble before.

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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Did you kick off your comedy in Atlanta?

 

 

 

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In Atlanta

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: in two, yeah.

 

 

 

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In 2005, I dabbled in 2000

 

and it just wasn't clicking.

 

 

 

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Uh, like I was going to college and I

 

had like a bunch of like things going on.

 

 

 

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So.

 

 

 

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So I think by the time I hit

 

like 2005 or probably 2003, I

 

 

 

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was like, this is what I want to

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: do.

 

 

 

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What was that first open mic night?

 

 

 

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Like, uh, I assume you started

 

off on like an open mic night.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Well, I didn't, I

 

started with a, uh, actually like,

 

 

 

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I mean, I always was like this guy

 

who I guess say inappropriate shit.

 

 

 

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So my friends was like, you

 

should go to the comedy club.

 

 

 

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So we drove up there one

 

time on amateur night.

 

 

 

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Uh, and we, they wouldn't let us in unless

 

we signed to get on stage and I got on

 

 

 

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stage and I got booed by like 300 people.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: What was

 

the thought in your mind?

 

 

 

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Like, I gotta go work on my stuff or I'm

 

like, I need to stay away from clubs or

 

 

 

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what was, what was your next thought?

 

 

 

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Oh,

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: I left.

 

 

 

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I think I left for like a year and a half.

 

 

 

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Because there was no, um, I

 

never been to a comedy club.

 

 

 

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So it was no stuff to work on.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston (2): Oh, really?

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

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I didn't know that you posted the

 

right jokes and you supposed to

 

 

 

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like go work them out and test

 

these things on the audience.

 

 

 

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You know, I was lunchroom funny or,

 

you know, uh, water fountain funny.

 

 

 

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So, uh, and the things I said, nobody

 

could really relate to at the time either.

 

 

 

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So it just was, it just was bad.

 

 

 

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And then.

 

 

 

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I came back like a year and a half

 

later with I wrote two jokes and I

 

 

 

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came back a year and a half later and

 

it and the joke killed and I think I

 

 

 

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did three minutes and got off stage.

 

 

 

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And then after that night, I think

 

it bombed for like six months.

 

 

 

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And then I quit again.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: I've never done comedy, but

 

I can't imagine a more naked feeling than

 

 

 

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being on stage and going, you know what?

 

 

 

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If you bomb, you're bombing.

 

 

 

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It's all you.

 

 

 

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Uh, but I've heard some comedians

 

talk that they actually like to work

 

 

 

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themselves out of that hole, you know,

 

and they feel the crowd disappearing

 

 

 

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and like that invigorates them.

 

 

 

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Other people just

 

paralyzes them, you know?

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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But when did it kick in for you?

 

 

 

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When were you starting to kind

 

of feel your flow and you kind

 

 

 

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of got your feet underneath you?

 

 

 

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Uh,

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: probably 2000 and

 

 

 

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And 11, I think.

 

 

 

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How long?

 

 

 

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12, 2012.

 

 

 

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Yep.

 

 

 

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Seven years in.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: What were you

 

watching or listening to?

 

 

 

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Or were you listening to any comedians?

 

 

 

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Like, I don't know, that

 

guy really turns me on.

 

 

 

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I like that idea, what he's doing.

 

 

 

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I want to do that thing.

 

 

 

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Byron Bowers: When I was like getting into

 

high school, my mom dropped a CD in my,

 

 

 

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in my room and it was Martin Lawrence CD.

 

 

 

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And I never heard

 

nothing like this before.

 

 

 

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Uh, and I remember, like, I didn't

 

know Aiden Murphy was a comedian.

 

 

 

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Marc Preston: you're killing me over here.

 

 

 

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Uh, you, yeah.

 

 

 

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You had, my big epiphany was Eddie

 

Murphy Raw, you know, and I saw that.

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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I, I mean, I was watching that

 

like, I think it was seventh grade.

 

 

 

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I'm a little older than you, but I

 

saw Eddie Murphy raw and in, uh, there

 

 

 

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was one other one he was wearing.

 

 

 

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I, I remember he was wearing red

 

leather pants and a, and like a jacket.

 

 

 

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You know.

 

 

 

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Delirious.

 

 

 

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Delirious.

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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My friend, uh, Chris and

 

I, we were in junior high.

 

 

 

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We were watching, I was like.

 

 

 

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The conversation he said he had

 

with Bill Cosby and Bill Cosby is

 

 

 

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like, you know, you got to watch

 

what you're saying and you know,

 

 

 

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you, you cuss too much or whatever.

 

 

 

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And then he calls up Richard Pryor and

 

asking Richard Pryor, you know, Bill

 

 

 

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Cosby is telling, telling me to do this.

 

 

 

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And you know, Richard Pryor

 

is like, you know, hell with

 

 

 

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him, man, go do your thing.

 

 

 

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Yeah.

 

 

 

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He said it in other ways, you

 

know, but it seems like an

 

 

 

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00:13:42,194 --> 00:13:43,704

 

evolution and he was kind of the.

 

 

 

352

 

00:13:43,884 --> 00:13:48,474

 

Spawning out of that kind of post

 

Richard Pryor thing and yeah, you know,

 

 

 

353

 

00:13:48,474 --> 00:13:51,904

 

that was a great time for comedy Like

 

when I was growing up, yeah, like you

 

 

 

354

 

00:13:51,904 --> 00:13:55,904

 

had like Sam Kinnis and Andrew Dice

 

clay I mean that's back when HBO was

 

 

 

355

 

00:13:55,904 --> 00:13:59,675

 

doing a lot of their comedian features

 

So I was real in a comedy when I was

 

 

 

356

 

00:13:59,685 --> 00:14:02,904

 

like it probably shouldn't have been

 

watching it I was a little young but

 

 

 

357

 

00:14:03,064 --> 00:14:05,425

 

Byron Bowers: that's the best

 

that's the best times man.

 

 

 

358

 

00:14:05,435 --> 00:14:07,904

 

That was those was the best years, right?

 

 

 

359

 

00:14:08,569 --> 00:14:12,369

 

The comedy boom and the way people

 

described it was just like, even

 

 

 

360

 

00:14:12,369 --> 00:14:17,969

 

comedians got paid, paid, you know,

 

uh, and the sitcoms came out of that.

 

 

 

361

 

00:14:17,979 --> 00:14:20,050

 

So it was just a, it was a crazy time.

 

 

 

362

 

00:14:20,709 --> 00:14:24,139

 

Um, and yeah, man, I remember, yeah.

 

 

 

363

 

00:14:24,139 --> 00:14:26,669

 

I didn't know Eddie was like a comedian.

 

 

 

364

 

00:14:26,669 --> 00:14:31,479

 

I remember seeing them in movies, uh,

 

and then I was three years in and I

 

 

 

365

 

00:14:31,479 --> 00:14:32,969

 

was like, let me study this thing.

 

 

 

366

 

00:14:33,779 --> 00:14:37,149

 

And I found out about Richard Pryor,

 

I never saw Richard Pryor do stand up.

 

 

 

367

 

00:14:38,084 --> 00:14:39,915

 

I just knew of Martin

 

Lawrence and Def Jam.

 

 

 

368

 

00:14:39,944 --> 00:14:43,415

 

To me that was the

 

beginning of comedy, right?

 

 

 

369

 

00:14:43,964 --> 00:14:49,574

 

And when I saw Richard Pryor's stand

 

up and Robin Harris and all these

 

 

 

370

 

00:14:49,574 --> 00:14:54,284

 

guys that are like, all these black

 

comedians, I started crying, I think.

 

 

 

371

 

00:14:56,045 --> 00:14:58,555

 

That's when I started

 

crying, uh, that day.

 

 

 

372

 

00:14:59,155 --> 00:15:03,484

 

Uh, cause at that moment I realized

 

that everything I saw from Def

 

 

 

373

 

00:15:03,484 --> 00:15:06,634

 

Jam and in the clubs was stolen.

 

 

 

374

 

00:15:07,675 --> 00:15:08,805

 

from these guys.

 

 

 

375

 

00:15:08,904 --> 00:15:09,764

 

Marc Preston: Oh, really?

 

 

 

376

 

00:15:10,324 --> 00:15:10,644

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

377

 

00:15:10,814 --> 00:15:13,984

 

Marc Preston: Were there like

 

the stories or they're the

 

 

 

378

 

00:15:13,984 --> 00:15:15,604

 

way they, they told the jokes?

 

 

 

379

 

00:15:15,884 --> 00:15:21,734

 

Byron Bowers: I mean, I, you know, prior

 

created the genre of just urban comedy.

 

 

 

380

 

00:15:22,555 --> 00:15:25,464

 

He created that, that genre of

 

talking about what's going on in the

 

 

 

381

 

00:15:25,464 --> 00:15:31,194

 

neighborhood, you know, um, the sixties

 

was political, you know, Dick Gregor and

 

 

 

382

 

00:15:31,314 --> 00:15:33,035

 

these guys, they had political jokes.

 

 

 

383

 

00:15:34,234 --> 00:15:36,875

 

Marc Preston: Before that, it

 

was just, Uh, comedians are more

 

 

 

384

 

00:15:36,875 --> 00:15:38,345

 

just like joke tellers, right?

 

 

 

385

 

00:15:38,345 --> 00:15:39,765

 

They want to like, you know, pretty much.

 

 

 

386

 

00:15:39,765 --> 00:15:40,075

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

387

 

00:15:40,135 --> 00:15:40,475

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

388

 

00:15:40,505 --> 00:15:42,945

 

Not that there's anything wrong with

 

it, but it's just a different style.

 

 

 

389

 

00:15:42,965 --> 00:15:43,705

 

Byron Bowers: It's not.

 

 

 

390

 

00:15:43,715 --> 00:15:43,935

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

391

 

00:15:43,935 --> 00:15:44,864

 

It's a different style.

 

 

 

392

 

00:15:44,865 --> 00:15:50,654

 

And, um, uh, you know, uh, Dick Gregory

 

worked at, uh, the playboy club.

 

 

 

393

 

00:15:51,405 --> 00:15:52,955

 

So that's how he blew up.

 

 

 

394

 

00:15:53,475 --> 00:15:56,055

 

He was the first millionaire,

 

uh, black comedian.

 

 

 

395

 

00:15:56,565 --> 00:15:58,345

 

And then one night he

 

couldn't make it to a show.

 

 

 

396

 

00:15:58,345 --> 00:16:00,225

 

He was like, it's a

 

young comedian in Philly.

 

 

 

397

 

00:16:00,975 --> 00:16:02,304

 

Um, that's up and coming.

 

 

 

398

 

00:16:02,304 --> 00:16:05,475

 

Um, and I let him do the

 

playboy club instead of me.

 

 

 

399

 

00:16:05,765 --> 00:16:06,805

 

And that was Bill Cosby.

 

 

 

400

 

00:16:07,465 --> 00:16:09,965

 

So that's one lineage right here.

 

 

 

401

 

00:16:09,965 --> 00:16:10,525

 

Okay.

 

 

 

402

 

00:16:11,265 --> 00:16:14,055

 

Marc Preston: You know, Bill Cosby, we

 

all know what ended up happening with

 

 

 

403

 

00:16:14,055 --> 00:16:18,605

 

him, but for the time, for the time,

 

let's, let's, I just isolate as like a

 

 

 

404

 

00:16:18,605 --> 00:16:22,525

 

little pocket of time when, when he was

 

doing his thing, he was a, he was a great

 

 

 

405

 

00:16:22,525 --> 00:16:27,119

 

storyteller, you know, had this whole,

 

his jokes took, there was a big arc, but.

 

 

 

406

 

00:16:27,690 --> 00:16:30,080

 

My favorite comedians were like, uh, okay.

 

 

 

407

 

00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,930

 

I'm trying to think like, uh, well,

 

Robin Williams was in there as well

 

 

 

408

 

00:16:32,980 --> 00:16:34,190

 

He would be on my mail rush more.

 

 

 

409

 

00:16:34,190 --> 00:16:39,719

 

It'd be Robin Williams and Eddie

 

Murphy and Richard Pryor and and Carl

 

 

 

410

 

00:16:39,799 --> 00:16:41,669

 

Carlin was just the guy I love story.

 

 

 

411

 

00:16:41,669 --> 00:16:44,079

 

Yeah Would you how would

 

you define your style?

 

 

 

412

 

00:16:44,169 --> 00:16:46,639

 

Are you more kind of more

 

of a storyteller you?

 

 

 

413

 

00:16:47,490 --> 00:16:50,260

 

Quick observations, you know,

 

where, how would you define what

 

 

 

414

 

00:16:50,260 --> 00:16:51,710

 

you, what feels good for you?

 

 

 

415

 

00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:53,220

 

Byron Bowers: I'm a, I'm

 

a blend of everything.

 

 

 

416

 

00:16:53,220 --> 00:16:59,020

 

I started with jokey jokes and then

 

I started to grow as a comedian

 

 

 

417

 

00:16:59,020 --> 00:17:04,050

 

and, and, and I reached a point

 

where I wasn't relatable to anybody.

 

 

 

418

 

00:17:04,910 --> 00:17:11,670

 

Um, you know, my lady left, you know,

 

I was, I was married before she left.

 

 

 

419

 

00:17:11,750 --> 00:17:16,489

 

I'm sleeping on couches and you

 

know, Kevin Hart is doing his thing.

 

 

 

420

 

00:17:17,275 --> 00:17:20,675

 

And I'm like, I just

 

can't relate to people.

 

 

 

421

 

00:17:21,095 --> 00:17:23,105

 

Uh, I had a dark moment, you know?

 

 

 

422

 

00:17:23,195 --> 00:17:26,144

 

And, uh, I just started

 

saying like, fuck it.

 

 

 

423

 

00:17:26,164 --> 00:17:31,575

 

If I can't relate to anybody, then I'm

 

just going to talk about some of my stuff.

 

 

 

424

 

00:17:31,595 --> 00:17:35,085

 

And then I did a joke about the day

 

I found out my dad smoked crack.

 

 

 

425

 

00:17:35,085 --> 00:17:39,475

 

I just told the story and people

 

just came out of the woodworks.

 

 

 

426

 

00:17:39,535 --> 00:17:40,785

 

Like that happened to me too.

 

 

 

427

 

00:17:41,265 --> 00:17:42,235

 

This happened to me too.

 

 

 

428

 

00:17:42,235 --> 00:17:47,270

 

And I was like, Oh, Oh, I found

 

something, you know, so it's just

 

 

 

429

 

00:17:47,280 --> 00:17:49,970

 

been that brutal, unapologetic or

 

 

 

430

 

00:17:49,970 --> 00:17:52,529

 

Marc Preston: maybe, or maybe they

 

didn't have the exact same experience,

 

 

 

431

 

00:17:52,530 --> 00:17:56,409

 

but they had an experience of

 

learning something that was maybe a

 

 

 

432

 

00:17:56,410 --> 00:17:58,089

 

surprising disappointment or something.

 

 

 

433

 

00:17:58,089 --> 00:18:00,640

 

You know, there was, there's

 

a commonality, even though the

 

 

 

434

 

00:18:00,650 --> 00:18:03,630

 

story's not exactly the same kind

 

of the emotional response to it.

 

 

 

435

 

00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:03,950

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

436

 

00:18:04,260 --> 00:18:08,410

 

Byron Bowers: And you know, one guy

 

was on heroin when he saw it and he,

 

 

 

437

 

00:18:08,440 --> 00:18:11,350

 

he got kids himself and he stopped.

 

 

 

438

 

00:18:12,005 --> 00:18:14,065

 

He stopped that after

 

seeing that, you know?

 

 

 

439

 

00:18:15,145 --> 00:18:19,665

 

Uh, so it definitely affected

 

the more traumatic people, right?

 

 

 

440

 

00:18:20,625 --> 00:18:21,875

 

So it's not a black thing.

 

 

 

441

 

00:18:21,875 --> 00:18:22,975

 

It's not a white thing.

 

 

 

442

 

00:18:23,045 --> 00:18:26,205

 

It's just, I found my people,

 

which are those who have these

 

 

 

443

 

00:18:26,205 --> 00:18:27,655

 

Marc Preston: kind of a

 

human experience thing.

 

 

 

444

 

00:18:27,774 --> 00:18:28,194

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

445

 

00:18:28,245 --> 00:18:28,635

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

446

 

00:18:29,274 --> 00:18:29,554

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

447

 

00:18:29,554 --> 00:18:33,685

 

So I mean, that's when stuff

 

started to shift and then I, I

 

 

 

448

 

00:18:33,715 --> 00:18:38,974

 

stopped doing comedies because I

 

didn't find them relatable to me.

 

 

 

449

 

00:18:39,585 --> 00:18:40,415

 

And it's funny.

 

 

 

450

 

00:18:40,485 --> 00:18:44,955

 

And I ended up in dramas because my

 

sense of humor is just, it's just the

 

 

 

451

 

00:18:44,955 --> 00:18:46,815

 

dramatic stuff is just funny to me.

 

 

 

452

 

00:18:48,494 --> 00:18:48,895

 

If that makes sense.

 

 

 

453

 

00:18:49,295 --> 00:18:51,104

 

Marc Preston: You're playing,

 

did you find when you're playing

 

 

 

454

 

00:18:51,115 --> 00:18:52,824

 

Slappy, it was Slappy, right?

 

 

 

455

 

00:18:52,824 --> 00:18:54,225

 

That sort of, in Lady and the Lamp.

 

 

 

456

 

00:18:54,225 --> 00:18:54,445

 

Yep.

 

 

 

457

 

00:18:54,945 --> 00:18:59,895

 

Uh, Did you find like, okay, I've

 

been in this place before, you

 

 

 

458

 

00:18:59,895 --> 00:19:01,495

 

know, I I'm about to bust out.

 

 

 

459

 

00:19:01,495 --> 00:19:02,295

 

I'm a guy.

 

 

 

460

 

00:19:02,455 --> 00:19:05,725

 

It's been a few weeks since I've seen

 

the show, but I are seeing the series,

 

 

 

461

 

00:19:05,754 --> 00:19:09,754

 

but, uh, it was more like he was about

 

to bust out and he was, it was that

 

 

 

462

 

00:19:09,754 --> 00:19:13,354

 

feeling of, you can feel it there.

 

 

 

463

 

00:19:13,504 --> 00:19:16,425

 

Was it hard to reach that character,

 

like to find some, you know,

 

 

 

464

 

00:19:16,435 --> 00:19:18,845

 

some stuff to really tap into?

 

 

 

465

 

00:19:19,245 --> 00:19:20,695

 

Byron Bowers: Cause I

 

consulted on the show.

 

 

 

466

 

00:19:20,695 --> 00:19:23,665

 

So that's my part of my

 

real story, you know?

 

 

 

467

 

00:19:24,270 --> 00:19:28,770

 

of somebody who follows their dream and

 

the support you don't get uh sometimes

 

 

 

468

 

00:19:28,770 --> 00:19:32,770

 

or you know that's how you look at it

 

if you follow your dream but to other

 

 

 

469

 

00:19:32,770 --> 00:19:37,020

 

people the reality is you just probably

 

that dude just sitting on the couch

 

 

 

470

 

00:19:38,380 --> 00:19:45,360

 

so um it was it was easy for me to get

 

into character because I lived it but

 

 

 

471

 

00:19:45,360 --> 00:19:48,910

 

now I get to see it through everybody

 

else's eyes and they really don't like

 

 

 

472

 

00:19:48,910 --> 00:19:52,290

 

that especially women who date have to

 

date these type of characters you know.

 

 

 

473

 

00:19:52,980 --> 00:19:56,800

 

Marc Preston: I can't imagine

 

it would be Real easy.

 

 

 

474

 

00:19:56,810 --> 00:19:59,860

 

It'd be like, you got to really love

 

and believe in the person you're with.

 

 

 

475

 

00:19:59,860 --> 00:20:04,159

 

Cause it's a, I think anybody that does

 

a creative thing for a living, that's

 

 

 

476

 

00:20:04,159 --> 00:20:07,290

 

a little bit different of a path than

 

somebody that's done their four years and

 

 

 

477

 

00:20:07,290 --> 00:20:09,000

 

maybe then gone on and gotten a master's.

 

 

 

478

 

00:20:09,010 --> 00:20:09,770

 

Now they got the career.

 

 

 

479

 

00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,399

 

You know, if you're with somebody

 

who's doing something creative, it's

 

 

 

480

 

00:20:12,399 --> 00:20:16,379

 

kind of, if it's a different arc of

 

experience, I'd say more, more interesting

 

 

 

481

 

00:20:16,379 --> 00:20:17,829

 

people though, but that's just mine.

 

 

 

482

 

00:20:18,029 --> 00:20:19,039

 

That's why I'm doing this.

 

 

 

483

 

00:20:20,299 --> 00:20:20,859

 

I met people

 

 

 

484

 

00:20:20,859 --> 00:20:24,020

 

Byron Bowers: with businesses that

 

had to go through the same thing, you

 

 

 

485

 

00:20:24,020 --> 00:20:28,065

 

know, um, They might not have had their

 

college or nothing, but they definitely

 

 

 

486

 

00:20:28,065 --> 00:20:30,995

 

got a business or two off the ground.

 

 

 

487

 

00:20:30,995 --> 00:20:33,245

 

And you know, it took years.

 

 

 

488

 

00:20:33,245 --> 00:20:35,024

 

These things take years,

 

which you don't know.

 

 

 

489

 

00:20:35,605 --> 00:20:35,785

 

Marc Preston: Yeah.

 

 

 

490

 

00:20:35,785 --> 00:20:38,794

 

They say it takes 10 years to be an

 

overnight success or something like that.

 

 

 

491

 

00:20:38,794 --> 00:20:38,995

 

I don't know.

 

 

 

492

 

00:20:38,995 --> 00:20:42,334

 

Maybe it's more even, but, um, but

 

you said you consulted on the show.

 

 

 

493

 

00:20:42,334 --> 00:20:43,754

 

Is it just kind of like

 

for your character?

 

 

 

494

 

00:20:43,754 --> 00:20:48,325

 

Was it more like how to have that

 

part of, uh, your experience with a

 

 

 

495

 

00:20:48,335 --> 00:20:53,075

 

lady in the lake come along is did the

 

producer say, Hey, I need some input on.

 

 

 

496

 

00:20:53,135 --> 00:20:54,785

 

Uh, you know, fill in the blank.

 

 

 

497

 

00:20:55,715 --> 00:20:58,805

 

Byron Bowers: Uh, that, and then

 

my girlfriend wrote the show and,

 

 

 

498

 

00:20:58,805 --> 00:21:01,175

 

and Oh, I did not even know that.

 

 

 

499

 

00:21:01,175 --> 00:21:01,355

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

500

 

00:21:01,355 --> 00:21:02,315

 

How did I not know that?

 

 

 

501

 

00:21:02,375 --> 00:21:02,945

 

Marc Preston: Okay.

 

 

 

502

 

00:21:02,950 --> 00:21:03,030

 

Okay.

 

 

 

503

 

00:21:03,030 --> 00:21:03,310

 

I don't

 

 

 

504

 

00:21:03,310 --> 00:21:06,905

 

Byron Bowers: know, you know, but it's,

 

uh, yeah, it was a thing of just being

 

 

 

505

 

00:21:06,905 --> 00:21:13,355

 

an in-house, uh, type production, you

 

know, so it was, uh, you know, you

 

 

 

506

 

00:21:13,355 --> 00:21:17,615

 

help to shape the story and you want

 

some of the nuances to be correct.

 

 

 

507

 

00:21:18,395 --> 00:21:18,935

 

Um.

 

 

 

508

 

00:21:20,135 --> 00:21:23,325

 

And without getting into the whole

 

race thing, when you talk about

 

 

 

509

 

00:21:23,325 --> 00:21:29,104

 

certain races, and it might be written

 

by or shot by somebody else, you

 

 

 

510

 

00:21:29,104 --> 00:21:30,675

 

want certain nuances to be there.

 

 

 

511

 

00:21:31,184 --> 00:21:34,264

 

So, you have people consult from both.

 

 

 

512

 

00:21:35,050 --> 00:21:38,480

 

You know, groups of people, the Jewish

 

group and well, my girl is Jewish.

 

 

 

513

 

00:21:38,490 --> 00:21:38,830

 

So,

 

 

 

514

 

00:21:39,220 --> 00:21:39,620

 

Marc Preston: okay.

 

 

 

515

 

00:21:39,890 --> 00:21:41,950

 

You see, that's one thing I'm

 

Jewish and I noticed that.

 

 

 

516

 

00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:42,260

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

517

 

00:21:42,310 --> 00:21:44,760

 

I kind of felt like somebody knew

 

what they were doing when they put

 

 

 

518

 

00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,899

 

some of these things in there, you

 

know, it was such an interesting show.

 

 

 

519

 

00:21:47,899 --> 00:21:49,389

 

It's something I want

 

to go back and rewatch.

 

 

 

520

 

00:21:49,389 --> 00:21:49,649

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

521

 

00:21:49,649 --> 00:21:52,370

 

I was watching it with, um,

 

my son and his girlfriend.

 

 

 

522

 

00:21:52,690 --> 00:21:55,480

 

And I was just going to watch a

 

show or two, one or two episodes.

 

 

 

523

 

00:21:55,510 --> 00:21:57,680

 

And we ended up like power

 

watching it over two days.

 

 

 

524

 

00:21:57,690 --> 00:21:59,190

 

You know, it was such a good show.

 

 

 

525

 

00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:00,799

 

So no, well done, man.

 

 

 

526

 

00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,510

 

I will say that was, uh, your character

 

was, as some people to stand out

 

 

 

527

 

00:22:04,510 --> 00:22:08,775

 

and other, you know, Dylan, his, uh,

 

Dylan Arnold was, It was out there.

 

 

 

528

 

00:22:08,775 --> 00:22:09,115

 

Oh yeah.

 

 

 

529

 

00:22:09,115 --> 00:22:12,395

 

What he did was just kind

 

of, it was, it was rich.

 

 

 

530

 

00:22:12,395 --> 00:22:13,575

 

There was a lot going on.

 

 

 

531

 

00:22:13,575 --> 00:22:15,035

 

There was a lot of cultural stuff.

 

 

 

532

 

00:22:15,035 --> 00:22:18,825

 

It was a little, it felt like kind of

 

like a, a little time capsule in a way.

 

 

 

533

 

00:22:18,835 --> 00:22:21,445

 

If you mixed some things together,

 

how it, how would it come out?

 

 

 

534

 

00:22:21,455 --> 00:22:22,894

 

You know, but it was a great story, man.

 

 

 

535

 

00:22:22,895 --> 00:22:23,514

 

It was really wonderful.

 

 

 

536

 

00:22:23,515 --> 00:22:24,494

 

It's just

 

 

 

537

 

00:22:24,494 --> 00:22:28,914

 

Byron Bowers: a bunch of genres that we

 

managed to, uh, and more for the other

 

 

 

538

 

00:22:28,914 --> 00:22:32,925

 

writers, cause I just sprinkled some

 

salt on it, but they were able to, to,

 

 

 

539

 

00:22:33,075 --> 00:22:35,225

 

to bend these genres together in a.

 

 

 

540

 

00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,110

 

Way that, like you said, you

 

couldn't tell what was coming.

 

 

 

541

 

00:22:40,130 --> 00:22:44,355

 

Like it's not predictable, which

 

is You know, I think it'd be

 

 

 

542

 

00:22:44,355 --> 00:22:45,835

 

challenging for audiences now.

 

 

 

543

 

00:22:45,985 --> 00:22:47,345

 

Marc Preston: I think

 

it's very challenging.

 

 

 

544

 

00:22:47,345 --> 00:22:50,775

 

Yeah, because everything you know all

 

You know a lot of well Then you get a

 

 

 

545

 

00:22:50,775 --> 00:22:54,264

 

lot of shows that are just or movies

 

that are remade and remade remade and

 

 

 

546

 

00:22:54,324 --> 00:22:58,085

 

and then you have certain story structure

 

and all this kind of stuff and You you

 

 

 

547

 

00:22:58,085 --> 00:23:01,685

 

know, you can kind of subconsciously pick

 

up like most rom coms You kind of know

 

 

 

548

 

00:23:01,685 --> 00:23:03,955

 

where they're going to go fundamentally,

 

but you're there for the ride.

 

 

 

549

 

00:23:03,965 --> 00:23:05,945

 

You enjoy it Yeah, but

 

with this it was different.

 

 

 

550

 

00:23:05,945 --> 00:23:06,925

 

It was really enjoyable.

 

 

 

551

 

00:23:06,935 --> 00:23:10,135

 

Byron Bowers: Y'all gotta put

 

your phones down It can't be you

 

 

 

552

 

00:23:10,135 --> 00:23:11,960

 

can't cook You know what I mean?

 

 

 

553

 

00:23:11,990 --> 00:23:14,720

 

You probably barely can eat,

 

eat while you watch this.

 

 

 

554

 

00:23:21,580 --> 00:23:24,759

 

Marc Preston: You said that you were

 

doing the comedy thing, but kind of the

 

 

 

555

 

00:23:24,769 --> 00:23:28,379

 

nature of your stories and where you

 

find yourself, you started doing more,

 

 

 

556

 

00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,310

 

as far as acting goes, more drama stuff.

 

 

 

557

 

00:23:31,049 --> 00:23:33,110

 

When did you start kind of

 

getting into the acting thing?

 

 

 

558

 

00:23:33,549 --> 00:23:40,139

 

Byron Bowers: Um, when I met, uh, Doug,

 

this casting director, um, Carmen Cuba.

 

 

 

559

 

00:23:41,165 --> 00:23:45,675

 

She brought me in in 2016 for

 

this show called The Shy, uh,

 

 

 

560

 

00:23:45,675 --> 00:23:46,804

 

which is still on by the way.

 

 

 

561

 

00:23:46,845 --> 00:23:51,004

 

It's a drama and I auditioned

 

and I tested for it.

 

 

 

562

 

00:23:51,064 --> 00:23:56,115

 

Like I mean, I went through seven or

 

eight auditions and, uh, I didn't get it,

 

 

 

563

 

00:23:56,155 --> 00:24:01,455

 

but I got one, uh, part as a day player

 

and it turned into like seven episodes.

 

 

 

564

 

00:24:02,865 --> 00:24:05,439

 

And uh, That's, you know,

 

to me, the universe.

 

 

 

565

 

00:24:05,439 --> 00:24:06,179

 

Wait, so you came in as

 

 

 

566

 

00:24:06,179 --> 00:24:08,050

 

Marc Preston: a day player and

 

they got you into seven episodes.

 

 

 

567

 

00:24:08,060 --> 00:24:10,739

 

That's, that's, uh, that's gotta

 

be kind of a cool heady thing.

 

 

 

568

 

00:24:10,739 --> 00:24:12,790

 

Like you show up and you think

 

it's just working a few hours.

 

 

 

569

 

00:24:12,809 --> 00:24:13,759

 

Now you're on the show.

 

 

 

570

 

00:24:14,129 --> 00:24:16,409

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah, you're on the

 

show and you still don't really know.

 

 

 

571

 

00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,620

 

Like everything is new to you, right?

 

 

 

572

 

00:24:19,030 --> 00:24:23,050

 

So you, you're figuring it

 

out as you, as you, as you go.

 

 

 

573

 

00:24:23,810 --> 00:24:29,360

 

But, um, I do notice like, I was like,

 

I'm getting more lines each episode.

 

 

 

574

 

00:24:30,659 --> 00:24:33,370

 

So I was like, somebody like me and

 

I gotta be doing something right.

 

 

 

575

 

00:24:34,145 --> 00:24:37,945

 

And then, um, after that I got

 

the next thing, which was a drama.

 

 

 

576

 

00:24:38,054 --> 00:24:42,695

 

I went to, uh, I tried to take a comedy

 

class, a comedy intensive acting class.

 

 

 

577

 

00:24:42,975 --> 00:24:46,345

 

And I remember the teacher was like,

 

uh, she was like, name a comedy.

 

 

 

578

 

00:24:46,815 --> 00:24:48,665

 

And I was like, uh, Breaking Bad.

 

 

 

579

 

00:24:49,274 --> 00:24:52,335

 

And she was like, that's

 

not, that's not a comedy.

 

 

 

580

 

00:24:52,425 --> 00:24:54,065

 

It's a funny show, but it's not a comedy.

 

 

 

581

 

00:24:54,375 --> 00:24:55,544

 

And she was like, name another one.

 

 

 

582

 

00:24:55,544 --> 00:24:57,175

 

And I said, Handmaid's Tale.

 

 

 

583

 

00:24:58,774 --> 00:24:59,115

 

Marc Preston (2): Comedy.

 

 

 

584

 

00:24:59,115 --> 00:24:59,340

 

Okay.

 

 

 

585

 

00:24:59,340 --> 00:24:59,564

 

Okay.

 

 

 

586

 

00:25:00,044 --> 00:25:00,414

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

587

 

00:25:00,414 --> 00:25:03,034

 

And she was like, you know, everybody

 

laughing and she was like, how the

 

 

 

588

 

00:25:03,034 --> 00:25:04,914

 

fuck, you know, that's what she said.

 

 

 

589

 

00:25:04,914 --> 00:25:06,705

 

This lady, why you say it's a comedy.

 

 

 

590

 

00:25:07,094 --> 00:25:11,834

 

And I started breaking down the scene

 

of this lady having this, you know,

 

 

 

591

 

00:25:11,854 --> 00:25:15,195

 

having to watch this other lady sleep

 

with her husband to try to have a baby

 

 

 

592

 

00:25:15,874 --> 00:25:17,244

 

and what I thought was funny about it.

 

 

 

593

 

00:25:17,634 --> 00:25:19,774

 

And she was like, so you kind of dialed

 

 

 

594

 

00:25:19,774 --> 00:25:22,955

 

Marc Preston: into the situational

 

comedy of like how that's just

 

 

 

595

 

00:25:22,985 --> 00:25:25,049

 

the absurdity of a moment.

 

 

 

596

 

00:25:25,310 --> 00:25:26,200

 

You know, that's it.

 

 

 

597

 

00:25:26,210 --> 00:25:27,129

 

So that's kind of what you're thinking.

 

 

 

598

 

00:25:27,129 --> 00:25:27,560

 

It's funny.

 

 

 

599

 

00:25:27,919 --> 00:25:28,340

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

600

 

00:25:28,490 --> 00:25:31,000

 

And I think cause the attention

 

is, is always funny to me.

 

 

 

601

 

00:25:31,060 --> 00:25:34,760

 

And, um, you know, I'm, like I said,

 

I'm the son of a schizophrenic and been

 

 

 

602

 

00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,659

 

in like, you know, crazy situations,

 

young mother and stuff like that.

 

 

 

603

 

00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:43,409

 

And you have to find humor

 

in it or don't or not.

 

 

 

604

 

00:25:43,790 --> 00:25:44,649

 

Marc Preston: That's survival, man.

 

 

 

605

 

00:25:44,649 --> 00:25:44,970

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

606

 

00:25:45,010 --> 00:25:45,370

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

607

 

00:25:45,649 --> 00:25:51,629

 

So you had this experience in these,

 

these mechanisms, uh, Was comedy kind

 

 

 

608

 

00:25:51,629 --> 00:25:54,270

 

of an escape for you at some point in

 

time when you kind of discovered it?

 

 

 

609

 

00:25:54,399 --> 00:25:57,790

 

Uh, was it kind of a cathartic for

 

lack of a better way of putting it?

 

 

 

610

 

00:25:57,790 --> 00:25:59,449

 

Or what kind of things were you consuming?

 

 

 

611

 

00:25:59,449 --> 00:26:02,989

 

Like, this is your kind of like,

 

uh, comfort food, if you will.

 

 

 

612

 

00:26:03,090 --> 00:26:06,790

 

Byron Bowers: I mean, like I said, I

 

started with Def Jam and, and you know,

 

 

 

613

 

00:26:06,790 --> 00:26:11,389

 

I was getting bullied in school and

 

then I realized this became a weapon

 

 

 

614

 

00:26:11,389 --> 00:26:13,219

 

for me, like a defense mechanism.

 

 

 

615

 

00:26:13,870 --> 00:26:16,050

 

So I could easily like

 

make fun of somebody.

 

 

 

616

 

00:26:16,745 --> 00:26:20,044

 

Three people at a time, football

 

players, it didn't matter, and they

 

 

 

617

 

00:26:20,044 --> 00:26:22,024

 

were like, people would be afraid of me.

 

 

 

618

 

00:26:22,674 --> 00:26:23,154

 

Marc Preston: Really?

 

 

 

619

 

00:26:23,364 --> 00:26:26,205

 

Byron Bowers: You know, so

 

then you become this bully.

 

 

 

620

 

00:26:26,284 --> 00:26:30,914

 

You know, it's the, you know, as Natalie

 

Portman said, they are the oppressed

 

 

 

621

 

00:26:30,914 --> 00:26:32,354

 

becoming the oppressor, you know.

 

 

 

622

 

00:26:33,274 --> 00:26:39,745

 

Um, so, it's, it's, uh, that's when

 

I realized I had this thing, but, uh,

 

 

 

623

 

00:26:40,990 --> 00:26:45,000

 

And then on this level, on this, the

 

drama, man, it's like, how do I find it?

 

 

 

624

 

00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:50,949

 

It's just the tenseness of it, you know,

 

like life is, we take certain things in

 

 

 

625

 

00:26:50,949 --> 00:26:55,009

 

life serious, but at the end of the day,

 

you know, we're going to die, you know?

 

 

 

626

 

00:26:55,010 --> 00:26:59,570

 

So it's the, it's, it's knowing

 

those things, you know, the spirit,

 

 

 

627

 

00:26:59,570 --> 00:27:02,300

 

the spirituality part of, of life.

 

 

 

628

 

00:27:02,330 --> 00:27:06,449

 

And then how serious we take, like, you

 

know, you, you put in the, you can't

 

 

 

629

 

00:27:06,459 --> 00:27:08,260

 

mix the cheese with the, with the meat.

 

 

 

630

 

00:27:09,284 --> 00:27:13,705

 

You know, or my first Shabbat dinner

 

is a part where you got to be quiet

 

 

 

631

 

00:27:13,894 --> 00:27:17,985

 

until they wash their hands, which is

 

hilarious, you know, cause I didn't

 

 

 

632

 

00:27:17,985 --> 00:27:19,114

 

even know how to work the sink.

 

 

 

633

 

00:27:20,944 --> 00:27:21,584

 

So,

 

 

 

634

 

00:27:21,864 --> 00:27:24,294

 

Marc Preston: well, wait a minute, but,

 

but if it's, but okay, if it's Shabbat

 

 

 

635

 

00:27:24,304 --> 00:27:28,384

 

though, and you're not Jewish, you're the

 

one having to turn everything on and off.

 

 

 

636

 

00:27:28,394 --> 00:27:31,914

 

You were the, you were the, uh,

 

you were the Shabbat, uh, Shabbos

 

 

 

637

 

00:27:31,914 --> 00:27:33,884

 

Goy, as they say, you know, okay.

 

 

 

638

 

00:27:34,904 --> 00:27:36,054

 

Byron Bowers: They were

 

pointing to the light switch.

 

 

 

639

 

00:27:36,745 --> 00:27:37,585

 

They're like, you thirsty?

 

 

 

640

 

00:27:37,585 --> 00:27:37,945

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

641

 

00:27:37,995 --> 00:27:41,395

 

And they walk into the alcohol

 

closet and be like, I can show you

 

 

 

642

 

00:27:41,395 --> 00:27:43,805

 

a bottle and they would like hint

 

at the lights and stuff like that.

 

 

 

643

 

00:27:45,035 --> 00:27:47,725

 

And I'm like, man, it's a lot,

 

it's a lot of rules here, you know?

 

 

 

644

 

00:27:47,775 --> 00:27:49,865

 

Marc Preston: You know, uh, I

 

didn't grow up Orthodox at all and

 

 

 

645

 

00:27:49,865 --> 00:27:53,224

 

definitely far away from that, but

 

uh, but I kind of appreciate it.

 

 

 

646

 

00:27:53,225 --> 00:27:55,625

 

But then again, some of it,

 

it's, you look at it and go.

 

 

 

647

 

00:27:56,009 --> 00:27:59,659

 

And I think this is any faith or

 

any kind of practice or anything

 

 

 

648

 

00:27:59,659 --> 00:28:03,529

 

like that, shot through the prism of

 

somebody else's perspective, it can

 

 

 

649

 

00:28:03,529 --> 00:28:06,929

 

be kind of humorous, but it's like,

 

Hey, it's where people find their joy.

 

 

 

650

 

00:28:06,939 --> 00:28:10,370

 

And you kind of, I think as you all get

 

older and mature, you find, Hey, that's

 

 

 

651

 

00:28:10,370 --> 00:28:11,689

 

where they find their joy and happiness.

 

 

 

652

 

00:28:11,709 --> 00:28:14,850

 

You know, that's how, who am I to

 

say that's, you know, whatever.

 

 

 

653

 

00:28:14,850 --> 00:28:18,889

 

But, uh, but yeah, and that one scene

 

with, um, Oh God, I forgot his name.

 

 

 

654

 

00:28:18,889 --> 00:28:23,919

 

I love, um, He's comedian also, uh,

 

uh, um, Brett, um, Oh, Brett Gilman.

 

 

 

655

 

00:28:24,030 --> 00:28:25,060

 

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

 

 

 

656

 

00:28:25,270 --> 00:28:27,129

 

And that was, that was

 

a great role for him.

 

 

 

657

 

00:28:27,139 --> 00:28:31,509

 

Cause he usually plays kind of a

 

absurd kind of adult, you know, the

 

 

 

658

 

00:28:31,509 --> 00:28:34,449

 

moments of tension and he, there was

 

a lot of heart and there was this,

 

 

 

659

 

00:28:34,489 --> 00:28:38,020

 

like these moments when they're kind

 

of, Trying to relate to one another

 

 

 

660

 

00:28:38,030 --> 00:28:41,190

 

with, I don't wanna give anything

 

away, but he does stand up, doesn't he?

 

 

 

661

 

00:28:41,190 --> 00:28:42,350

 

Or he just, I don't.

 

 

 

662

 

00:28:42,500 --> 00:28:45,270

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah, he do show,

 

he does shows occasionally,

 

 

 

663

 

00:28:45,409 --> 00:28:46,670

 

occasionally, you know what I mean?

 

 

 

664

 

00:28:46,690 --> 00:28:50,760

 

Uh, you can catch him probably at

 

the Dynasty Typewriter in LA and

 

 

 

665

 

00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,679

 

stuff like that, when he makes an

 

appearance, um, which is hilarious.

 

 

 

666

 

00:28:55,250 --> 00:28:58,190

 

Marc Preston: But you, but you were

 

saying that, uh, that we were, I

 

 

 

667

 

00:28:58,190 --> 00:28:59,290

 

didn't mean to cut you off before, but.

 

 

 

668

 

00:28:59,300 --> 00:28:59,610

 

I think,

 

 

 

669

 

00:28:59,670 --> 00:29:04,100

 

Byron Bowers: I think what

 

dialed it in for me is, um, I

 

 

 

670

 

00:29:04,100 --> 00:29:05,519

 

was in college my freshman year.

 

 

 

671

 

00:29:05,954 --> 00:29:10,124

 

And I was, I was depressed to

 

where I wanted to kill myself.

 

 

 

672

 

00:29:11,074 --> 00:29:14,934

 

And, you know, I'm a poor

 

kid in this strange town.

 

 

 

673

 

00:29:15,624 --> 00:29:17,964

 

And just thinking of how

 

could I kill myself with no

 

 

 

674

 

00:29:17,964 --> 00:29:21,164

 

resources just became funny.

 

 

 

675

 

00:29:22,254 --> 00:29:26,524

 

And it was a very spiritual moment

 

for me, you know what I mean?

 

 

 

676

 

00:29:27,254 --> 00:29:31,709

 

But it was a thing of like, you know,

 

How you gonna jump out the window?

 

 

 

677

 

00:29:31,709 --> 00:29:32,709

 

You on the first floor.

 

 

 

678

 

00:29:32,780 --> 00:29:35,239

 

You're going to be at the club

 

fucked up in a wheelchair.

 

 

 

679

 

00:29:35,510 --> 00:29:38,909

 

People got to put straws in

 

my, like all the funny things.

 

 

 

680

 

00:29:38,909 --> 00:29:42,319

 

And I felt like spiritually, I was

 

talking to the universe at the time.

 

 

 

681

 

00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:43,989

 

It was just going over these scenarios.

 

 

 

682

 

00:29:44,050 --> 00:29:44,949

 

Cause he was like, do it.

 

 

 

683

 

00:29:44,969 --> 00:29:46,080

 

This is going to happen to you.

 

 

 

684

 

00:29:46,489 --> 00:29:48,090

 

And if you do that, that's

 

going to happen to you.

 

 

 

685

 

00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:49,979

 

He's like, you can't hang yourself.

 

 

 

686

 

00:29:50,050 --> 00:29:53,120

 

Cause you know, that means you got to

 

tie a noose and you black, black people

 

 

 

687

 

00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,050

 

don't tie nooses, you know, and all this,

 

all these thoughts, you know what I mean?

 

 

 

688

 

00:29:57,050 --> 00:29:59,325

 

And we just became, it just became funny.

 

 

 

689

 

00:29:59,945 --> 00:30:01,845

 

Marc Preston: So was the

 

finding the humor in it?

 

 

 

690

 

00:30:01,865 --> 00:30:05,625

 

Or did you, did you have a chance

 

to talk with someone or what kind

 

 

 

691

 

00:30:05,625 --> 00:30:07,645

 

of pulled you through that funk?

 

 

 

692

 

00:30:07,645 --> 00:30:09,665

 

And I don't mean to sound reductive

 

when I say funk, but I mean,

 

 

 

693

 

00:30:09,665 --> 00:30:11,145

 

it's like that, that thing of.

 

 

 

694

 

00:30:11,205 --> 00:30:12,385

 

Byron Bowers: But no, that's what it is.

 

 

 

695

 

00:30:12,435 --> 00:30:19,055

 

What you have to, you have to really, I

 

think, understand, you know, some, some,

 

 

 

696

 

00:30:19,065 --> 00:30:25,495

 

for some of us, we have to get to those

 

lows and work ourselves out, um, you

 

 

 

697

 

00:30:25,495 --> 00:30:28,515

 

know, for, for us to really appreciate.

 

 

 

698

 

00:30:29,590 --> 00:30:31,910

 

Um, you know, life.

 

 

 

699

 

00:30:32,270 --> 00:30:36,410

 

So I didn't, I didn't talk to nobody

 

about it, but I definitely, you know,

 

 

 

700

 

00:30:36,410 --> 00:30:40,630

 

it happened a few more times and I

 

definitely got a Cedar pattern and

 

 

 

701

 

00:30:40,630 --> 00:30:42,830

 

realized that it's a very selfish thing.

 

 

 

702

 

00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:46,190

 

You're in a very selfish state because

 

you're thinking about yourself.

 

 

 

703

 

00:30:46,220 --> 00:30:50,030

 

And if I changed the scope, like by

 

the time I got to LA and I would feed

 

 

 

704

 

00:30:50,050 --> 00:30:54,300

 

homeless during the holidays, cause

 

I didn't, my family wasn't here.

 

 

 

705

 

00:30:54,310 --> 00:30:54,700

 

And.

 

 

 

706

 

00:30:55,170 --> 00:30:56,730

 

You know, I'm sleeping

 

on couches and stuff.

 

 

 

707

 

00:30:56,730 --> 00:30:59,110

 

And so I became a

 

service to somebody else.

 

 

 

708

 

00:30:59,630 --> 00:31:02,610

 

Then those things kind of

 

go away and you realize that

 

 

 

709

 

00:31:02,610 --> 00:31:03,630

 

Marc Preston: crazy how that works.

 

 

 

710

 

00:31:03,660 --> 00:31:06,250

 

When you pay it forward, even if you

 

feel like you don't have anything

 

 

 

711

 

00:31:06,250 --> 00:31:10,590

 

to pay forward, but when you do it,

 

it, it, there's, there's something

 

 

 

712

 

00:31:10,590 --> 00:31:13,940

 

transformative and kind of happen at

 

least a little shift in your perspective.

 

 

 

713

 

00:31:13,980 --> 00:31:16,360

 

Uh, the empathy I think helps a lot.

 

 

 

714

 

00:31:17,450 --> 00:31:21,440

 

When you realize other people are probably

 

dealing with the exact same thing, um,

 

 

 

715

 

00:31:22,020 --> 00:31:25,140

 

And, you know, and I think that all

 

the great comedians, unfortunately,

 

 

 

716

 

00:31:25,140 --> 00:31:29,930

 

you know, I think they've all had

 

moments like that, you know, I mean,

 

 

 

717

 

00:31:29,940 --> 00:31:32,160

 

certainly like, you know, Robin Williams.

 

 

 

718

 

00:31:32,190 --> 00:31:35,400

 

I mean, you know, you look at him and

 

you go, do you think that comedians

 

 

 

719

 

00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,620

 

have a different kind of DNA makeup?

 

 

 

720

 

00:31:37,620 --> 00:31:40,290

 

I don't mean literally DNA, but I

 

mean a little bit of a different,

 

 

 

721

 

00:31:40,850 --> 00:31:43,820

 

the way you perceive the world,

 

like you're finding humor.

 

 

 

722

 

00:31:44,210 --> 00:31:48,350

 

In the methodology of suicide, not being

 

able to find the right one that would

 

 

 

723

 

00:31:48,350 --> 00:31:53,630

 

actually would be effective, you know, but

 

do you think that that's part of the all

 

 

 

724

 

00:31:53,650 --> 00:31:57,630

 

comedians cut from a similar cloth in that

 

regard, being able to find the absurdity

 

 

 

725

 

00:31:57,630 --> 00:31:59,160

 

and the humor and things like that?

 

 

 

726

 

00:31:59,710 --> 00:32:02,900

 

Byron Bowers: I think so, but

 

I think so, but some comedians

 

 

 

727

 

00:32:02,900 --> 00:32:05,280

 

won't even go there, right?

 

 

 

728

 

00:32:06,380 --> 00:32:09,460

 

It takes a certain person

 

to see the duality of life.

 

 

 

729

 

00:32:10,085 --> 00:32:11,815

 

To be able to straddle both sides.

 

 

 

730

 

00:32:12,115 --> 00:32:12,495

 

Marc Preston (2): Oh, yeah.

 

 

 

731

 

00:32:12,595 --> 00:32:13,005

 

Oh, yeah,

 

 

 

732

 

00:32:13,075 --> 00:32:18,685

 

Byron Bowers: right And yeah, I know

 

some comedians they don't like silence

 

 

 

733

 

00:32:19,895 --> 00:32:21,245

 

They want everybody to like him.

 

 

 

734

 

00:32:21,615 --> 00:32:26,220

 

I'm just not I'm just happy to be not

 

one of those comedians So it lends my

 

 

 

735

 

00:32:26,220 --> 00:32:28,600

 

comedy to be more serious at times.

 

 

 

736

 

00:32:28,710 --> 00:32:31,900

 

Marc Preston: When you say that duality,

 

there is a, there is a, a philosopher,

 

 

 

737

 

00:32:31,950 --> 00:32:35,830

 

uh, named Alan Watts from back in the

 

day, you know, I heard of Alan Watts.

 

 

 

738

 

00:32:35,910 --> 00:32:36,330

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

739

 

00:32:36,380 --> 00:32:36,670

 

Marc Preston: Yeah.

 

 

 

740

 

00:32:36,670 --> 00:32:36,820

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

741

 

00:32:36,820 --> 00:32:39,450

 

He taught, you know, it talks about

 

that duality a lot and the human

 

 

 

742

 

00:32:39,450 --> 00:32:43,640

 

experience and, And how humans, how

 

we just take it all too serious.

 

 

 

743

 

00:32:43,650 --> 00:32:45,150

 

So kind of like what you

 

were saying before, you know,

 

 

 

744

 

00:32:45,190 --> 00:32:46,840

 

taking it all too seriously.

 

 

 

745

 

00:32:46,950 --> 00:32:50,010

 

Just, uh, when he talks about that

 

duality, it's like, you know, it's,

 

 

 

746

 

00:32:50,290 --> 00:32:53,150

 

you start getting to a certain age, you

 

realize life is a ride, you know, and

 

 

 

747

 

00:32:53,150 --> 00:32:54,360

 

you can have you up and ups and downs.

 

 

 

748

 

00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,900

 

You start, like you said, you

 

saw patterns and when you start

 

 

 

749

 

00:32:56,900 --> 00:32:58,020

 

seeing it, keep coming back.

 

 

 

750

 

00:32:58,030 --> 00:32:59,640

 

It's like, okay, it's just a wave.

 

 

 

751

 

00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,463

 

I'm surfing here.

 

 

 

752

 

00:33:00,463 --> 00:33:01,380

 

Kind of, you know?

 

 

 

753

 

00:33:01,650 --> 00:33:03,860

 

Byron Bowers: So I think that's

 

the thing that can't be taught is

 

 

 

754

 

00:33:03,860 --> 00:33:09,340

 

like, um, getting in tune with your

 

spiritual side, understanding your

 

 

 

755

 

00:33:09,410 --> 00:33:14,010

 

instincts, Like how, what's the

 

difference between fear and your voice

 

 

 

756

 

00:33:14,020 --> 00:33:15,580

 

saying like, this is what you do.

 

 

 

757

 

00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,130

 

And then going with that, having faith

 

to go with that because nobody else is.

 

 

 

758

 

00:33:21,025 --> 00:33:22,045

 

Doing that thing

 

 

 

759

 

00:33:22,855 --> 00:33:25,975

 

Marc Preston: as you were

 

working, uh, in Lady in the Lake?

 

 

 

760

 

00:33:26,035 --> 00:33:28,405

 

Um, I just adored Natalie Portman.

 

 

 

761

 

00:33:28,465 --> 00:33:31,135

 

I mean, I think she was just an, I'm

 

very, she's an alien, I think, you

 

 

 

762

 

00:33:31,135 --> 00:33:34,255

 

know, 'cause to, to watch her in the

 

professional and think she was only

 

 

 

763

 

00:33:34,255 --> 00:33:39,745

 

12 and just have that kind of presence

 

and just to the def to, I don't think

 

 

 

764

 

00:33:39,745 --> 00:33:41,035

 

she had really had any training at all.

 

 

 

765

 

00:33:41,035 --> 00:33:42,265

 

I was like, how does, that's alien?

 

 

 

766

 

00:33:42,265 --> 00:33:44,815

 

How does she get to, you know,

 

my kids know her more as, you

 

 

 

767

 

00:33:44,815 --> 00:33:47,665

 

know, princess s Leia and Luke

 

Skywalker's mother, you know.

 

 

 

768

 

00:33:48,025 --> 00:33:49,466

 

Um, but , that's hilarious.

 

 

 

769

 

00:33:49,735 --> 00:33:54,635

 

What was it like working with her

 

and, and something like this, which is

 

 

 

770

 

00:33:54,645 --> 00:33:56,225

 

something I haven't seen her do before.

 

 

 

771

 

00:33:56,235 --> 00:33:57,815

 

And, uh, which is fantastic.

 

 

 

772

 

00:33:57,865 --> 00:33:59,365

 

Byron Bowers: Um, I thought it was cool.

 

 

 

773

 

00:33:59,375 --> 00:34:07,295

 

You know, I mean, she definitely allowed

 

me in to like be fluid and like, you

 

 

 

774

 

00:34:07,295 --> 00:34:09,015

 

know, dance with her doing the scenes.

 

 

 

775

 

00:34:09,085 --> 00:34:13,095

 

Um, which was very helpful to me

 

working with somebody as such a,

 

 

 

776

 

00:34:13,175 --> 00:34:16,405

 

you know, high level of craft.

 

 

 

777

 

00:34:16,900 --> 00:34:19,850

 

You know, her craft level

 

is way higher than mine.

 

 

 

778

 

00:34:20,420 --> 00:34:24,760

 

Um, so, you know, she

 

allowed me to step up.

 

 

 

779

 

00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:25,850

 

That makes sense.

 

 

 

780

 

00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:27,150

 

Marc Preston: Oh, I

 

spoke with Dylan Arnold.

 

 

 

781

 

00:34:27,150 --> 00:34:28,570

 

He said something pretty similar.

 

 

 

782

 

00:34:28,570 --> 00:34:30,160

 

You know, she was, she was fully open.

 

 

 

783

 

00:34:30,230 --> 00:34:32,580

 

You know, there wasn't like, you know,

 

here comes the big star on the set.

 

 

 

784

 

00:34:32,580 --> 00:34:34,950

 

It was, she's mixing with everybody.

 

 

 

785

 

00:34:34,950 --> 00:34:37,190

 

Like she's on the same level, you know,

 

 

 

786

 

00:34:37,210 --> 00:34:38,260

 

Byron Bowers: she's very chill.

 

 

 

787

 

00:34:38,260 --> 00:34:42,300

 

And when it's, and even though, you

 

know, she's in producer mode, but

 

 

 

788

 

00:34:42,300 --> 00:34:44,160

 

she also in professional acting mode.

 

 

 

789

 

00:34:44,860 --> 00:34:49,030

 

And she came, she would come, she would

 

hit up Marcs, but during the scene,

 

 

 

790

 

00:34:49,100 --> 00:34:53,120

 

you know, sometimes when you do scenes

 

with people that you could tell they

 

 

 

791

 

00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:59,085

 

closed off, but you know, soulfully she

 

She was there with, you know, it makes

 

 

 

792

 

00:34:59,085 --> 00:35:00,785

 

Marc Preston: a lot easier

 

to react, doesn't it?

 

 

 

793

 

00:35:00,785 --> 00:35:04,005

 

Like when you're with somebody and they're

 

there, you can just bounce off them.

 

 

 

794

 

00:35:04,005 --> 00:35:05,115

 

It makes your job easier.

 

 

 

795

 

00:35:05,145 --> 00:35:05,675

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

796

 

00:35:06,095 --> 00:35:09,225

 

Um, well, no, I was curious by the way,

 

kind of going back to the origin story

 

 

 

797

 

00:35:09,225 --> 00:35:11,745

 

now, what kind of work did your folks do?

 

 

 

798

 

00:35:12,185 --> 00:35:15,615

 

Uh, would it was anybody in

 

your family and comedy or acting

 

 

 

799

 

00:35:15,615 --> 00:35:16,805

 

or anything performance wise?

 

 

 

800

 

00:35:16,805 --> 00:35:17,035

 

No,

 

 

 

801

 

00:35:17,035 --> 00:35:18,745

 

Byron Bowers: no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

 

 

 

802

 

00:35:18,755 --> 00:35:24,155

 

My, my mother, uh, you know, she worked

 

at a company called Certain Teed and

 

 

 

803

 

00:35:24,155 --> 00:35:26,460

 

they would make like, uh, What is it?

 

 

 

804

 

00:35:26,460 --> 00:35:29,100

 

Fiber stuff that goes into

 

the walls in the roof.

 

 

 

805

 

00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,230

 

Uh, and she will waitress when I was born.

 

 

 

806

 

00:35:32,260 --> 00:35:36,640

 

And my dad was a Navy guy who ended

 

up working for the power company.

 

 

 

807

 

00:35:37,780 --> 00:35:41,710

 

But, uh, in Athens, a lot of people end

 

up working at the, uh, you know, the

 

 

 

808

 

00:35:41,770 --> 00:35:45,940

 

chicken factory, the chicken plant, you

 

know, yeah, it's one of those towns.

 

 

 

809

 

00:35:45,950 --> 00:35:50,520

 

My granddaddy did that and he hauled

 

chickens and then my grandmother, uh, I

 

 

 

810

 

00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:55,420

 

think clean, like the universities, uh,

 

You know, dorm rooms and stuff like that.

 

 

 

811

 

00:35:56,020 --> 00:35:58,500

 

And then my other grandma

 

worked in the, in like the,

 

 

 

812

 

00:35:58,790 --> 00:36:01,080

 

the hood at the daycare center.

 

 

 

813

 

00:36:02,150 --> 00:36:05,760

 

Um, and she was like a nanny type

 

situation, but before that they all

 

 

 

814

 

00:36:05,770 --> 00:36:09,020

 

formed, you know, when they was, they

 

had to drop out of school and like

 

 

 

815

 

00:36:09,030 --> 00:36:13,150

 

form and pick cotton and whatever,

 

you know, forming they had to do.

 

 

 

816

 

00:36:13,935 --> 00:36:18,015

 

Marc Preston: So like when here you are

 

departing into this creative endeavor, you

 

 

 

817

 

00:36:18,015 --> 00:36:21,295

 

know, you're not getting your hands dirty,

 

you know You're not coming home Well,

 

 

 

818

 

00:36:21,295 --> 00:36:24,875

 

like a Bernie's Bernie Sanders said is

 

like, you know There were some people take

 

 

 

819

 

00:36:24,875 --> 00:36:27,435

 

the shower in the morning and at night

 

These are all people taking the shower

 

 

 

820

 

00:36:27,435 --> 00:36:30,115

 

at night because they've been getting

 

dirty all day Oh, yeah, you are doing

 

 

 

821

 

00:36:30,115 --> 00:36:31,855

 

the comedy or the the creative thing.

 

 

 

822

 

00:36:31,855 --> 00:36:33,915

 

How was that received by by the family?

 

 

 

823

 

00:36:33,915 --> 00:36:35,345

 

Byron Bowers: Oh, they didn't like it.

 

 

 

824

 

00:36:35,905 --> 00:36:36,805

 

They didn't like it at all.

 

 

 

825

 

00:36:37,105 --> 00:36:42,354

 

It's very disappointing actually Because

 

I never I never would talk as a kid You

 

 

 

826

 

00:36:42,835 --> 00:36:44,245

 

So they didn't even know me to be funny.

 

 

 

827

 

00:36:45,415 --> 00:36:46,735

 

So they were shocked.

 

 

 

828

 

00:36:46,735 --> 00:36:47,665

 

I mean, were you an only

 

 

 

829

 

00:36:47,665 --> 00:36:50,005

 

Marc Preston: child or did

 

you, did you have siblings or?

 

 

 

830

 

00:36:50,065 --> 00:36:50,935

 

Byron Bowers: No, I had a little sister.

 

 

 

831

 

00:36:50,935 --> 00:36:52,375

 

I had a younger sister, um

 

 

 

832

 

00:36:52,885 --> 00:36:52,915

 

Marc Preston: Oh,

 

 

 

833

 

00:36:53,395 --> 00:36:53,455

 

Byron Bowers: okay.

 

 

 

834

 

00:36:53,455 --> 00:36:59,245

 

Who probably had more personality than

 

me, but, uh, it's just shocking, man.

 

 

 

835

 

00:36:59,245 --> 00:37:03,535

 

I was also one of the first graduate from

 

college also, you know, I went to school

 

 

 

836

 

00:37:03,535 --> 00:37:06,805

 

for engineering and uh, I got a Bachelor

 

of Science in business Management.

 

 

 

837

 

00:37:07,735 --> 00:37:10,115

 

So, you know, they stress education a lot.

 

 

 

838

 

00:37:10,235 --> 00:37:13,615

 

And then at the day I graduated,

 

that's when I dropped the bomb.

 

 

 

839

 

00:37:13,625 --> 00:37:14,845

 

Like, I'm just going to do stand up.

 

 

 

840

 

00:37:15,415 --> 00:37:16,395

 

Marc Preston: It's kind

 

of like one for you.

 

 

 

841

 

00:37:16,415 --> 00:37:17,145

 

Not one for me.

 

 

 

842

 

00:37:17,325 --> 00:37:18,825

 

You know, yeah, it was one of those.

 

 

 

843

 

00:37:18,845 --> 00:37:19,215

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

844

 

00:37:19,215 --> 00:37:22,155

 

So, uh, that added to the disappointment.

 

 

 

845

 

00:37:22,835 --> 00:37:24,375

 

My grandmother definitely didn't like it.

 

 

 

846

 

00:37:24,555 --> 00:37:26,855

 

Like the silliness and all those things.

 

 

 

847

 

00:37:26,925 --> 00:37:27,465

 

Well, fast

 

 

 

848

 

00:37:27,465 --> 00:37:30,125

 

Marc Preston: forward, you're

 

finding success in doing this thing.

 

 

 

849

 

00:37:30,265 --> 00:37:32,775

 

Um, what's their perception now?

 

 

 

850

 

00:37:32,815 --> 00:37:36,720

 

Kind of like, are they like,

 

you know, Are they getting it?

 

 

 

851

 

00:37:36,890 --> 00:37:39,930

 

Have they got, I mean, like, okay, this

 

is a thing he does and he does well.

 

 

 

852

 

00:37:39,940 --> 00:37:41,900

 

Or is it still like, I don't know, man.

 

 

 

853

 

00:37:41,900 --> 00:37:43,520

 

And when he's in one of these

 

days, he'll get a real job.

 

 

 

854

 

00:37:44,290 --> 00:37:45,160

 

Byron Bowers: Here's the thing.

 

 

 

855

 

00:37:45,230 --> 00:37:48,790

 

My, uh, my grandmother don't

 

believe people should fly.

 

 

 

856

 

00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:50,920

 

Marc Preston: Like an, an airplane flyer.

 

 

 

857

 

00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:51,500

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 

 

858

 

00:37:51,570 --> 00:37:52,140

 

Marc Preston: Okay.

 

 

 

859

 

00:37:52,140 --> 00:37:58,220

 

Byron Bowers: So this is way, and that's

 

way more successful than what I do.

 

 

 

860

 

00:37:58,650 --> 00:38:02,280

 

So I can imagine she's just

 

like, you know, Oh, okay.

 

 

 

861

 

00:38:03,230 --> 00:38:06,875

 

You know, When they, when they be

 

like, how, how was your little gig?

 

 

 

862

 

00:38:07,035 --> 00:38:12,075

 

Then that just let me know like, okay,

 

but she's definitely happy that it

 

 

 

863

 

00:38:12,575 --> 00:38:14,095

 

I think it took me around the world.

 

 

 

864

 

00:38:14,095 --> 00:38:17,215

 

I think it's something shocking

 

to people when something like

 

 

 

865

 

00:38:18,035 --> 00:38:20,015

 

this like starts to pan out.

 

 

 

866

 

00:38:20,505 --> 00:38:21,755

 

And it takes you everywhere.

 

 

 

867

 

00:38:21,835 --> 00:38:25,065

 

Marc Preston: You know, having kids,

 

I'm like, I just want them to find joy.

 

 

 

868

 

00:38:25,075 --> 00:38:27,855

 

You know, I don't, I think a lot of

 

parents want to have, like, their kid

 

 

 

869

 

00:38:27,865 --> 00:38:31,715

 

have a fancy title on the business card

 

or have like, um, you know, okay, you're,

 

 

 

870

 

00:38:31,715 --> 00:38:34,495

 

you're with somebody who's Jewish,

 

you know, Oh, the Jewish attorney, the

 

 

 

871

 

00:38:34,535 --> 00:38:36,425

 

doctor, you know, that kind of thing.

 

 

 

872

 

00:38:36,455 --> 00:38:39,655

 

I just like, Hey, find joy in the

 

world, find contentment in the thing

 

 

 

873

 

00:38:39,655 --> 00:38:43,215

 

you do, you know, can feel like you're

 

contributing something like that.

 

 

 

874

 

00:38:43,215 --> 00:38:44,065

 

Pay it forward thing.

 

 

 

875

 

00:38:44,335 --> 00:38:45,285

 

That's what I want for them.

 

 

 

876

 

00:38:45,285 --> 00:38:47,185

 

And it could manifest

 

in many different ways.

 

 

 

877

 

00:38:47,635 --> 00:38:50,015

 

Byron Bowers: If I, hopefully

 

my kid, my daughter would like.

 

 

 

878

 

00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,090

 

Yeah, I could do whatever

 

she wants to, and she won't

 

 

 

879

 

00:38:53,100 --> 00:38:55,730

 

have to worry about finances.

 

 

 

880

 

00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:56,620

 

You know what I mean?

 

 

 

881

 

00:38:56,860 --> 00:39:02,520

 

Um, but you know, as of now,

 

she got to worry about it.

 

 

 

882

 

00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:03,840

 

Marc Preston (2): Wait, wait.

 

 

 

883

 

00:39:04,190 --> 00:39:05,130

 

So how old is your daughter?

 

 

 

884

 

00:39:05,780 --> 00:39:06,950

 

16 months.

 

 

 

885

 

00:39:07,130 --> 00:39:08,240

 

Oh, you got a little one.

 

 

 

886

 

00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:08,700

 

Okay.

 

 

 

887

 

00:39:08,700 --> 00:39:09,020

 

Okay.

 

 

 

888

 

00:39:09,030 --> 00:39:09,230

 

I got,

 

 

 

889

 

00:39:09,380 --> 00:39:10,710

 

Byron Bowers: I got a

 

tiny, I got a tiny one.

 

 

 

890

 

00:39:10,710 --> 00:39:14,050

 

So it's something about that.

 

 

 

891

 

00:39:14,270 --> 00:39:17,590

 

They're smiling and that first

 

little naivete they have.

 

 

 

892

 

00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:22,880

 

Um, which is very like, I don't know, man.

 

 

 

893

 

00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:27,030

 

It's something about it that, you know,

 

that they're going to lose that one day.

 

 

 

894

 

00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:28,870

 

Marc Preston: You know, I'd heard

 

somebody say once that there's

 

 

 

895

 

00:39:28,870 --> 00:39:32,020

 

something, and I, I, I believe this, I

 

think there's something kind of cool.

 

 

 

896

 

00:39:32,020 --> 00:39:36,890

 

They're closer to the, I don't care what

 

faith or spirituality, but they're closer

 

 

 

897

 

00:39:36,890 --> 00:39:38,600

 

to the source or whatever it's all about.

 

 

 

898

 

00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,890

 

They're like right out of the

 

gate, right out of the gate.

 

 

 

899

 

00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,130

 

You look at kids sometimes and you

 

just like, how did they know that?

 

 

 

900

 

00:39:45,130 --> 00:39:45,910

 

How did the, you know, there's.

 

 

 

901

 

00:39:46,780 --> 00:39:50,390

 

You know, they just, they're sponges,

 

but at the same time, there's stuff

 

 

 

902

 

00:39:50,390 --> 00:39:53,270

 

I think we learned from them, just

 

observing, you know, the way they

 

 

 

903

 

00:39:53,270 --> 00:39:55,800

 

play, you know, uh, that kind of thing.

 

 

 

904

 

00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:01,705

 

But, Elmike and My Good Minor, 21, I don't

 

know if I could go back and do it all over

 

 

 

905

 

00:40:01,705 --> 00:40:05,515

 

again, have a diaper genie and be crazy

 

going through the whole routine again.

 

 

 

906

 

00:40:05,925 --> 00:40:09,135

 

But I have a four month old golden

 

retriever puppies or your third golden.

 

 

 

907

 

00:40:09,135 --> 00:40:11,975

 

And so I'm like, it's almost like

 

having a toddler all over again.

 

 

 

908

 

00:40:12,455 --> 00:40:12,735

 

Marc Preston (2): But,

 

 

 

909

 

00:40:13,345 --> 00:40:15,285

 

Marc Preston: but that's the closest,

 

but cause I'm an empty nester.

 

 

 

910

 

00:40:15,285 --> 00:40:18,655

 

Now my daughter last Saturday just went

 

off to Florida to go to go to school.

 

 

 

911

 

00:40:18,665 --> 00:40:20,605

 

So I'm like, it's all just me now.

 

 

 

912

 

00:40:20,615 --> 00:40:24,385

 

Well, it's me and you, you know,

 

that's hilarious, but it's special.

 

 

 

913

 

00:40:24,385 --> 00:40:26,165

 

I think that, uh, you said to the

 

 

 

914

 

00:40:26,165 --> 00:40:26,465

 

Marc Preston (2): floor.

 

 

 

915

 

00:40:27,635 --> 00:40:27,845

 

Marc Preston: Yeah.

 

 

 

916

 

00:40:27,845 --> 00:40:30,045

 

She, she has, she's, she's in Boca Raton.

 

 

 

917

 

00:40:30,045 --> 00:40:30,255

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

918

 

00:40:30,255 --> 00:40:32,675

 

She really wanted to go down

 

there and she, she's a smart kid.

 

 

 

919

 

00:40:32,685 --> 00:40:35,625

 

All my kids are, you know, they

 

all get A's they're on Dean's list.

 

 

 

920

 

00:40:35,635 --> 00:40:38,055

 

They're all, they're way

 

smarter than me, you know?

 

 

 

921

 

00:40:38,115 --> 00:40:38,465

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

922

 

00:40:38,825 --> 00:40:41,585

 

Oh, she's no, no, she's not going to

 

university of Florida, you know, nothing

 

 

 

923

 

00:40:41,585 --> 00:40:44,705

 

against the university of Florida, but

 

she's, she's going to a school that, uh,

 

 

 

924

 

00:40:45,105 --> 00:40:46,855

 

uh, it's a very small private university.

 

 

 

925

 

00:40:46,855 --> 00:40:50,685

 

So she's, she's got master

 

plans, you know, that's good.

 

 

 

926

 

00:40:50,970 --> 00:40:54,210

 

Uh, but she's, I think she'd do wonderful

 

in public relations and things like that.

 

 

 

927

 

00:40:54,210 --> 00:40:57,190

 

Cause she, she's shy, but she,

 

people used to come up to me

 

 

 

928

 

00:40:57,190 --> 00:40:58,700

 

like, your daughter is so shy.

 

 

 

929

 

00:40:58,710 --> 00:41:01,480

 

You know, I was like, no, no,

 

she's studying you right now.

 

 

 

930

 

00:41:01,500 --> 00:41:04,570

 

You know, she's like, you know, observing

 

and kind of putting it all together.

 

 

 

931

 

00:41:04,860 --> 00:41:07,110

 

But you said when you were young,

 

you just weren't very talkative.

 

 

 

932

 

00:41:07,110 --> 00:41:09,010

 

Were you kind of more of an introvert or?

 

 

 

933

 

00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,290

 

Byron Bowers: I mean,

 

I'm still an introvert.

 

 

 

934

 

00:41:10,340 --> 00:41:11,230

 

I'm still an introvert.

 

 

 

935

 

00:41:11,380 --> 00:41:13,710

 

I could go like days

 

without talking to people.

 

 

 

936

 

00:41:14,660 --> 00:41:15,040

 

Marc Preston: Isn't that wonderful?

 

 

 

937

 

00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:16,710

 

Isn't that wonderful sometimes though?

 

 

 

938

 

00:41:16,710 --> 00:41:19,170

 

It's like, you just, you know, have, it's.

 

 

 

939

 

00:41:19,630 --> 00:41:20,510

 

Kind of peaceful,

 

 

 

940

 

00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,840

 

Byron Bowers: especially the

 

older, the older you get, the

 

 

 

941

 

00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,670

 

crazy the world looks to you.

 

 

 

942

 

00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,930

 

Um, cause you see your people,

 

you know, make certain decisions.

 

 

 

943

 

00:41:30,860 --> 00:41:36,660

 

Uh, and you know, I might've started as,

 

as the, I might've started as a crazy one.

 

 

 

944

 

00:41:37,410 --> 00:41:42,150

 

And maybe I am still the crazy one,

 

but I'm like, you know, yeah, it just,

 

 

 

945

 

00:41:42,180 --> 00:41:44,020

 

it just becomes, it just becomes wow.

 

 

 

946

 

00:41:44,780 --> 00:41:45,000

 

Marc Preston: Yeah.

 

 

 

947

 

00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:48,190

 

I'm definitely not a psychologist, but

 

I think part of it is we start off like.

 

 

 

948

 

00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:49,900

 

I don't know.

 

 

 

949

 

00:41:49,940 --> 00:41:50,370

 

It's crazy.

 

 

 

950

 

00:41:50,370 --> 00:41:54,190

 

I don't like to use the word crazy

 

sometimes because I think what it is is

 

 

 

951

 

00:41:54,190 --> 00:42:00,070

 

a lot of us, a lot of people have a much

 

more refined perception of the world.

 

 

 

952

 

00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:04,080

 

And until you start learning how to deal

 

with the world, the stress of it causes.

 

 

 

953

 

00:42:04,660 --> 00:42:05,680

 

Byron Bowers: That's what it is.

 

 

 

954

 

00:42:06,450 --> 00:42:07,100

 

That's what it is.

 

 

 

955

 

00:42:07,100 --> 00:42:08,190

 

People tuck it in.

 

 

 

956

 

00:42:09,780 --> 00:42:10,710

 

People tuck it in.

 

 

 

957

 

00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:15,350

 

They know they got other stuff they could

 

be doing, but they caught up into the,

 

 

 

958

 

00:42:15,390 --> 00:42:17,480

 

whatever society is telling them to do.

 

 

 

959

 

00:42:18,195 --> 00:42:20,805

 

Marc Preston: Yeah, it's like kids have

 

got a lot of stuff going on at home,

 

 

 

960

 

00:42:20,805 --> 00:42:24,945

 

then they go to school with some other

 

kids who don't have a lot, the same kind

 

 

 

961

 

00:42:24,945 --> 00:42:26,535

 

of a lot going on at home, you know?

 

 

 

962

 

00:42:27,355 --> 00:42:30,605

 

And then it's like, it's harder to,

 

it's like, wait a minute, I'm coming

 

 

 

963

 

00:42:30,605 --> 00:42:35,465

 

home into a very, like sometimes a

 

war zone, sometimes a hardcore drama,

 

 

 

964

 

00:42:35,465 --> 00:42:39,175

 

whatever it is, then I'm off to school,

 

which can be its own, like, you know.

 

 

 

965

 

00:42:40,275 --> 00:42:43,285

 

especially junior high, puberty,

 

adolescence and all that stuff.

 

 

 

966

 

00:42:43,285 --> 00:42:47,365

 

It's like it, you know, there is an actor,

 

acting coach I know of, he has, he, he

 

 

 

967

 

00:42:47,365 --> 00:42:51,335

 

has a acting a book on acting and I know

 

I'm going to mess up the title of it.

 

 

 

968

 

00:42:51,425 --> 00:42:55,545

 

He said, it's, um, he said, if, if you

 

made it through seventh grade, you can

 

 

 

969

 

00:42:55,555 --> 00:42:57,525

 

be an actor or something like that.

 

 

 

970

 

00:42:57,525 --> 00:43:01,965

 

You know, it's that idea that, uh,

 

you know, it's that disconnect.

 

 

 

971

 

00:43:01,965 --> 00:43:05,935

 

Like seemingly you go to schools or you

 

have a social situation going on where

 

 

 

972

 

00:43:05,935 --> 00:43:09,790

 

you're like, Do these people not have to

 

contend with the same thing I do at home?

 

 

 

973

 

00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,080

 

You know, I know a lot of folks like

 

that, but, and then you go to class

 

 

 

974

 

00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,770

 

reunions and later on you realize, Oh,

 

they were dealing with their own shit.

 

 

 

975

 

00:43:15,820 --> 00:43:20,430

 

You know, they were better at kind of,

 

you know, the theater of it as it were.

 

 

 

976

 

00:43:20,430 --> 00:43:20,970

 

Masking

 

 

 

977

 

00:43:20,970 --> 00:43:21,130

 

Byron Bowers: it.

 

 

 

978

 

00:43:21,130 --> 00:43:21,570

 

Yeah.

 

 

 

979

 

00:43:21,650 --> 00:43:25,950

 

And, uh, I, yeah, it's just, I remember

 

being on the bus with this guy.

 

 

 

980

 

00:43:26,030 --> 00:43:27,010

 

I ain't gonna say his name.

 

 

 

981

 

00:43:27,660 --> 00:43:32,530

 

Uh, we was in junior high school

 

and he was sick and you know, buses

 

 

 

982

 

00:43:32,530 --> 00:43:36,010

 

like, A school bus will really

 

teach you about society, right?

 

 

 

983

 

00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,960

 

Because you got the cool people want

 

to sit in one side and you got the

 

 

 

984

 

00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:44,990

 

people in the back who think they They

 

they are the cool ones the ones these

 

 

 

985

 

00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,350

 

groups want to be the cool ones And

 

then you got all the rejects, right?

 

 

 

986

 

00:43:48,610 --> 00:43:51,270

 

They gotta find a seat when they

 

get on the bus and i'm one of those

 

 

 

987

 

00:43:51,270 --> 00:43:56,910

 

like rejects And I sit next to a

 

guy And he and he's sick, right?

 

 

 

988

 

00:43:57,250 --> 00:44:02,605

 

Like he's like ball up in his

 

seat and You Uh, you know,

 

 

 

989

 

00:44:02,605 --> 00:44:03,625

 

I'm asking him, he all right.

 

 

 

990

 

00:44:03,625 --> 00:44:08,185

 

He was like, yeah, his locker

 

got raided by the police and

 

 

 

991

 

00:44:08,185 --> 00:44:10,945

 

he had to swallow the drugs.

 

 

 

992

 

00:44:11,095 --> 00:44:11,695

 

Marc Preston: Oh my.

 

 

 

993

 

00:44:12,805 --> 00:44:18,235

 

Byron Bowers: Like, we like 15

 

years old and, and I'm the child

 

 

 

994

 

00:44:18,235 --> 00:44:20,905

 

of a, of a drug addict at the time.

 

 

 

995

 

00:44:22,045 --> 00:44:26,575

 

And at this moment I'm looking

 

up and I'm seeing people like

 

 

 

996

 

00:44:26,575 --> 00:44:28,285

 

play and all these other things.

 

 

 

997

 

00:44:29,095 --> 00:44:30,435

 

These little high school things.

 

 

 

998

 

00:44:30,435 --> 00:44:35,155

 

And I'm realizing that that moment

 

that our realities are different.

 

 

 

999

 

00:44:35,325 --> 00:44:35,715

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:35,715 --> 00:44:37,145

 

Marc Preston: Isn't that

 

something, isn't that?

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:37,905 --> 00:44:38,395

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:38,675 --> 00:44:38,975

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:39,045 --> 00:44:40,385

 

Now every, everything's relative.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:40,425 --> 00:44:43,005

 

You know, you, you know, somebody may

 

be going through something that it's

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:43,005 --> 00:44:44,645

 

hitting them hard, but it's not as yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:44,885 --> 00:44:48,025

 

Life altering is something that

 

somebody else is going through.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:48,025 --> 00:44:48,405

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:48,465 --> 00:44:48,775

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:48,775 --> 00:44:49,015

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:49,015 --> 00:44:49,375

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:49,875 --> 00:44:52,955

 

Cause that we w we was all heading

 

to back to different environments.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:52,965 --> 00:44:53,265

 

Right.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:53,265 --> 00:44:53,994

 

Marc Preston (3): Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:53,995 --> 00:44:54,345

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:55,175 --> 00:44:56,665

 

Byron Bowers: And that's

 

the re that's the reality.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:56,725 --> 00:44:57,575

 

That's the reality of it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:44:59,285 --> 00:45:00,385

 

So, yeah, man.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:00,725 --> 00:45:01,365

 

Yeah, you're right.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:01,375 --> 00:45:04,245

 

Those times are very, very challenging.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:04,725 --> 00:45:08,785

 

And to go through that again

 

in Hollywood is the pattern.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:08,895 --> 00:45:12,400

 

Marc Preston: To me, Hollywood seems like

 

it's like, Like a really really really big

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,440

 

high school, you know, sometimes it is.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:14,850 --> 00:45:20,240

 

Yeah, you know, I think especially when

 

I speak to young actors and I you know,

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:20,240 --> 00:45:24,120

 

i'm It just seems like especially with

 

the advent now, which thank god I didn't

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:28,660

 

have social media when I was a kid I can't

 

even imagine that layer of uh Stress.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:28,660 --> 00:45:31,410

 

Like my kids, like my daughter,

 

Emma, she just does not want

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:31,410 --> 00:45:32,460

 

me taking pictures of her.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,720

 

I'm like, cause she thinks I'm going to

 

post them and then I never do, you know?

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:36,460

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:36,460 --> 00:45:38,940

 

But it's like, but they don't

 

want anything to do with social

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:38,940 --> 00:45:39,850

 

media and have their pictures.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,650

 

Like it's just not, that

 

does not get them going.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:41,710 --> 00:45:44,340

 

Where's other kids they went to

 

school with and there's nothing wrong

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:44,340 --> 00:45:47,800

 

with it, but it's almost like kids

 

in school now are running their own

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,970

 

public relations agency for themselves.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:49,970 --> 00:45:51,740

 

Like, here's what I want

 

people to think about me.

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:52,230

 

You know,

 

 


Speaker:

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Byron Bowers: agree.

 

 


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I think it could be a little

 

something wrong with it because I

 

 


Speaker:

00:45:57,345 --> 00:46:00,425

 

mean, and kudos to you that your

 

Children don't want to do that.

 

 


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So it just shows a level

 

of confidence sometimes.

 

 


Speaker:

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And they might value your opinion

 

over the opinion of some dude in Iowa.

 

 


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Marc Preston: That's why I don't

 

even get on Twitter X or whatever.

 

 


Speaker:

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And, you know, for me, I just don't

 

see, uh, uh, Any value in arguing, you

 

 


Speaker:

00:46:20,305 --> 00:46:23,635

 

know, it's like you got enough acrimony

 

and life in general is like man I want

 

 


Speaker:

00:46:23,685 --> 00:46:26,895

 

peace, you know, I don't want to invite

 

this person into my world, you know

 

 


Speaker:

00:46:27,995 --> 00:46:30,325

 

But some people get into that they

 

thrive and I think you know, like one

 

 


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00:46:30,325 --> 00:46:34,500

 

of my favorite Current comedians is

 

Patton Oswalt Who I think, you know,

 

 


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he's very active and need to talk.

 

 


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And anybody brings some of

 

that into his show, I think.

 

 


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But, uh, uh, but I'm kind of curious

 

to talk about the comedy thing.

 

 


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Just decide now, like who

 

are you watching right now?

 

 


Speaker:

00:46:43,380 --> 00:46:46,000

 

Like who are the people like that

 

kind of fire up your imagination?

 

 


Speaker:

00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,580

 

Maybe make you want to get back

 

on stage and work some things out.

 

 


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00:46:50,270 --> 00:46:54,340

 

Byron Bowers: I don't see too,

 

too many comedians myself.

 

 


Speaker:

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Cause I think once you find your voice,

 

you don't have to observe it too much.

 

 


Speaker:

00:46:59,300 --> 00:47:03,910

 

And when you're in a relationship, , you

 

don't really need to do it too much

 

 


Speaker:

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if you're in a loving relationship.

 

 


Speaker:

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Oh,

 

 


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Marc Preston: yeah, yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:05,950 --> 00:47:08,080

 

Well, no, I mean, more like what,

 

what gets a laugh out of you?

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,030

 

Like who are you going, like,

 

this person cracks me up.

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:10,030 --> 00:47:12,280

 

I, I, I, from entertainment's sake.

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:12,640

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:12,730 --> 00:47:16,600

 

Byron Bowers: Who I, who I see

 

that I like is, uh, this guy Ali

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:17,140 --> 00:47:18,580

 

D, who's a great storyteller.

 

 


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00:47:19,630 --> 00:47:23,620

 

He's a great, amazing storyteller, and

 

he paints the pictures well, and he

 

 


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takes you on that, on that journey,

 

which I think a good story does, right?

 

 


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Marc Preston: Indeed.

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:27,940

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

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Byron Bowers: Um.

 

 


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Yeah, so, um, that's

 

somebody who I like watching.

 

 


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And then also, uh, you know, live is

 

probably somebody that, uh, I don't

 

 


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know the name, but if I'm in the

 

club and they go on before me, it'd

 

 


Speaker:

00:47:43,410 --> 00:47:48,240

 

be like the worst joke you ever want

 

to hear that you wouldn't repeat.

 

 


Speaker:

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You know, I still like those, uh, I

 

still like those, uh, water cooler.

 

 


Speaker:

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Uh, water fountain humor jokes.

 

 


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Marc Preston: Oh, yeah, I do.

 

 


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I do as well.

 

 


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I do as well.

 

 


Speaker:

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You know, the other thing is people

 

that can tell a story that is Awkward.

 

 


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You know, it just makes him feel awkward.

 

 


Speaker:

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Uh, or, or you, you would think it would,

 

but everybody, I think you mentioned

 

 


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it even ear even earlier, uh, that

 

everybody can kind of identify with it.

 

 


Speaker:

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I think I had a Dane Cook on a little

 

while back and, you know, here's this

 

 


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00:48:17,965 --> 00:48:20,965

 

guy working like this big stadium,

 

you know, and I can't even imagine

 

 


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00:48:20,965 --> 00:48:24,055

 

his comedian being in the round and

 

having a, just you and a microphone and

 

 


Speaker:

00:48:24,355 --> 00:48:26,485

 

all these people looking at you, but.

 

 


Speaker:

00:48:26,830 --> 00:48:30,360

 

It seems like the more you put out there,

 

it, it kind of, the more it connects

 

 


Speaker:

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with people and it kind of like, it

 

could be not necessarily overtly funny,

 

 


Speaker:

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but it's something we all identify with.

 

 


Speaker:

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And that is kind of funny, you know?

 

 


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Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

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Byron Bowers: Agreed.

 

 


Speaker:

00:48:38,950 --> 00:48:39,390

 

Agreed.

 

 


Speaker:

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It's a way, you know, and I'm doing

 

that now as I regroup and rebuild,

 

 


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you know, now that I got a family,

 

it's like, what do I want to talk?

 

 


Speaker:

00:48:46,510 --> 00:48:48,900

 

Can I talk about the same

 

things I could talk about?

 

 


Speaker:

00:48:49,530 --> 00:48:51,610

 

You know, am I the same person?

 

 


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Like as, as I figure these, you

 

know, These, these things out,

 

 


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you know, uh, is a part of the

 

journey cause I know everybody else

 

 


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00:48:59,710 --> 00:49:01,730

 

is going through the same thing.

 

 


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Marc Preston: Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

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I, uh, you know, that's, that's a kind of

 

the humor I like that and the word Smiths.

 

 


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That's why I like, I like, uh, Patton

 

Oswalt to me is kind of a word Smith.

 

 


Speaker:

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He can work that Karlin was that.

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:13,350 --> 00:49:14,460

 

I mean, I would.

 

 


Speaker:

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I heard he used to write out, everything

 

was written out and just his memorization.

 

 


Speaker:

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If I, we could get Carlin back right now

 

for just cause we can just get him for

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:22,505 --> 00:49:26,935

 

like a few months just to, I mean if you

 

watch his stuff from the nineties even

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:26,935 --> 00:49:31,285

 

earlier and where we're living at now,

 

it's like, okay, he knew something or he

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:32,675 --> 00:49:34,185

 

had, he had a little crystal ball there.

 

 


Speaker:

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You know, I

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:34,695 --> 00:49:35,515

 

Byron Bowers: think you can see it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:35,575 --> 00:49:39,295

 

I think you can see the patterns and

 

where we're, where we're heading cause

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:39,295 --> 00:49:40,795

 

we've been, we've been here before.

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:40,810 --> 00:49:41,970

 

Oh yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

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Uh, and society, you know, different

 

societies before us have been here before.

 

 


Speaker:

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So it's crazy how we end up here.

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,480

 

And somebody was like, you know,

 

I was talking to a young person.

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:56,060

 

They was like, if we end

 

up here, they was afraid.

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:56,070 --> 00:49:57,770

 

They was like, what can we do to stop it?

 

 


Speaker:

00:49:57,770 --> 00:50:00,930

 

I'm like, spiritually, it's

 

just part of the human cycle.

 

 


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Marc Preston: You're in it for the ride.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:02,500 --> 00:50:04,590

 

It's like surfing, you know,

 

you might fall off the board

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:04,590 --> 00:50:05,700

 

and be you're, you're in it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:05,700 --> 00:50:08,915

 

Just kind of go through it and

 

just go, you know, Enjoy it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:09,215 --> 00:50:09,515

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:10,125 --> 00:50:10,785

 

Enjoy it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:10,875 --> 00:50:13,635

 

They said the world is messed

 

up, but this is our world.

 

 


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00:50:14,365 --> 00:50:15,885

 

It don't matter what's

 

going on in the world.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:15,895 --> 00:50:21,435

 

This is, this is our time as spiritual

 

beings on this planet to enjoy it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:21,695 --> 00:50:26,125

 

Because if you like 20 and 30, you

 

still got to deal with arthritis

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:26,125 --> 00:50:28,675

 

and shit in like 20 years.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:30,190 --> 00:50:30,310

 

Oh

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:30,630 --> 00:50:31,080

 

Marc Preston: yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:31,230 --> 00:50:32,620

 

Or needing reading glasses.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:32,620 --> 00:50:32,930

 

Oh yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:34,080

 

My eyes comment.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:34,130 --> 00:50:34,830

 

My eyes comment.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,410

 

So yeah, I was like, I made

 

it just a little past four.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:37,410 --> 00:50:40,230

 

Everybody says when you return 40, I'm

 

like, ah, I still got amazing vision.

 

 


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00:50:40,240 --> 00:50:41,800

 

Then I was like starting like squinting.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:41,810 --> 00:50:42,680

 

I was like, all right, here we go.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:43,140 --> 00:50:44,630

 

Um, but no, you've got it by the way.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:44,630 --> 00:50:45,130

 

Heard something.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:45,130 --> 00:50:48,920

 

Aren't you doing like not wonder

 

woman, but wonder, wonder man.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:49,775 --> 00:50:53,835

 

Uh, like, okay, I doubt you can say

 

that much about it, but I kind of, I

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:53,835 --> 00:50:56,975

 

kind of took a look and saw that Ben

 

Kingsley is going to be doing this thing.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:57,435 --> 00:50:58,335

 

I saw that.

 

 


Speaker:

00:50:58,395 --> 00:51:03,895

 

Byron Bowers: I saw that, you know,

 

I can't confirm and deny, but I

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:03,935 --> 00:51:06,095

 

read the same thing you've read.

 

 


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00:51:06,375 --> 00:51:07,875

 

So stay, stay tuned.

 

 


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00:51:08,095 --> 00:51:08,814

 

Stay tuned.

 

 


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00:51:08,815 --> 00:51:09,245

 

You know,

 

 


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Marc Preston: are you still

 

doing the comedy thing?

 

 


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00:51:10,765 --> 00:51:13,445

 

Are you still, are you, are you kind of

 

focusing just on the on camera thing?

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:13,585 --> 00:51:13,905

 

I was

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:13,905 --> 00:51:14,535

 

Byron Bowers: on stage.

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:14,615 --> 00:51:20,535

 

I was on stage the, uh, the other night

 

talking about the, The, uh, I guess

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:20,535 --> 00:51:23,485

 

I can't say what I was talking about,

 

but cause it's better for a live show,

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:23,485 --> 00:51:28,145

 

but you know, I took my, uh, we took

 

our daughter to Israel in November,

 

 


Speaker:

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so she's talking about, yeah, her

 

first, her first little war, you know,

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:33,615 --> 00:51:36,395

 

my baby's first war, you know, uh,

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:38,405 --> 00:51:41,325

 

Marc Preston: again, some of that

 

stuff, that's like the absurdity of it.

 

 


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00:51:41,495 --> 00:51:41,805

 

You got

 

 


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00:51:41,845 --> 00:51:43,645

 

Byron Bowers: to laugh

 

cause it's people there.

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:44,065 --> 00:51:44,705

 

It's people.

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:44,715 --> 00:51:45,975

 

We know they're raising.

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:46,005 --> 00:51:46,265

 

Well,

 

 


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00:51:46,355 --> 00:51:48,575

 

Marc Preston: let me tell you that

 

knowing the people who live in Israel,

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:48,575 --> 00:51:50,435

 

they have to find that sense of humor.

 

 


Speaker:

00:51:50,465 --> 00:51:51,285

 

A lot of times.

 

 


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00:51:58,695 --> 00:52:03,305

 

Before we get scooting, uh, I always do

 

my seven questions as we wrap up here.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:03,345 --> 00:52:04,205

 

Just a little fun.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:04,775 --> 00:52:05,335

 

First question.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:05,335 --> 00:52:07,065

 

I always love asking, love talking food.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:07,155 --> 00:52:09,575

 

Uh, I talked about the varsity

 

earlier and chili dogs.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:10,415 --> 00:52:12,885

 

I'm curious, what is your

 

favorite comfort food?

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:12,895 --> 00:52:14,695

 

The thing that You are having a great day.

 

 


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00:52:14,695 --> 00:52:15,865

 

You're like, Hmm, I'm

 

gonna get some of that.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:15,865 --> 00:52:18,955

 

Or the day sucks and you're like, I

 

just, this'll make me feel better.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:19,915 --> 00:52:22,825

 

Byron Bowers: Hamburgers and

 

fries, hamburgers and french fries,

 

 


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00:52:22,885 --> 00:52:26,185

 

Marc Preston: homemade or are you more, is

 

there somewhere specific you'd like to go?

 

 


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00:52:26,245 --> 00:52:26,305

 

Byron Bowers: No.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:26,305 --> 00:52:26,995

 

Fast food.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:26,995 --> 00:52:30,235

 

I used to like to go to

 

this famous restaurant.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:30,235 --> 00:52:34,555

 

I want to give 'em no credit, but,

 

uh, no, I can say it was McDonald's.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:34,555 --> 00:52:39,685

 

I used to go to McDonald's a lot and

 

then, uh, you know, my girl is really,

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:39,685 --> 00:52:41,215

 

so, I mean, a lot of that cuts out.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:41,275 --> 00:52:42,664

 

Well,

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:42,665 --> 00:52:44,875

 

Marc Preston: there's, you got in

 

and out that, you know, there, by the

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:44,875 --> 00:52:48,175

 

way, if you're ever in Texas, come on

 

down and get us down here on the set.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:48,435 --> 00:52:49,015

 

Oh yes.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:49,025 --> 00:52:49,545

 

What a burger.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:49,545 --> 00:52:49,725

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:49,755 --> 00:52:50,115

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:50,145 --> 00:52:51,185

 

What a burger, man.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:51,185 --> 00:52:54,815

 

That's that, uh, what's the one

 

with the, the, uh, the patty

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:54,815 --> 00:52:56,465

 

milk with the sourdough bread.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:57,015 --> 00:52:57,555

 

Marc Preston (2): Oh yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:57,555 --> 00:52:58,464

 

The text.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:58,465 --> 00:52:58,615

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:58,615 --> 00:52:58,895

 

You just

 

 


Speaker:

00:52:58,895 --> 00:53:03,285

 

Byron Bowers: eat it in your underwear,

 

you know, uh, what a burger, you know?

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:03,575 --> 00:53:04,745

 

So I definitely like that.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:04,765 --> 00:53:06,585

 

I can't have as much anymore.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:06,585 --> 00:53:10,915

 

So now, you know, when I go

 

somewhere, it has to be very like.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:11,665 --> 00:53:12,235

 

Special.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:12,255 --> 00:53:15,345

 

Like I'm now I'm going to

 

spend like 20 for a hamburger.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:16,165 --> 00:53:16,525

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:16,525 --> 00:53:17,665

 

I'm not supposed to eat them no more.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:17,685 --> 00:53:19,365

 

It gotta, it gotta be good.

 

 


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00:53:19,685 --> 00:53:21,685

 

Marc Preston: I don't believe certain

 

things are ever designed to be fancy.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:21,995 --> 00:53:25,165

 

Uh, pizza, burgers, tacos.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:25,185 --> 00:53:28,635

 

It's, there's something about like

 

utility, you know, uh, like I do like

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:28,705 --> 00:53:32,115

 

in and out burger, uh, whenever we're

 

in California, we're always there,

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:32,115 --> 00:53:34,935

 

but now we live on an Island on the

 

South Texas coast here and we've

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:34,935 --> 00:53:36,255

 

got one water burger on the Island.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:36,645 --> 00:53:37,545

 

South Padre.

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:38,185 --> 00:53:39,475

 

Yes, sir, that's where I'm at.

 

 


Speaker:

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Byron Bowers: I've been

 

there crazy story, but yeah,

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:42,145 --> 00:53:45,365

 

Marc Preston: but so hamburger fries at

 

your comfort food That's that's righteous

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:45,685 --> 00:53:50,685

 

now next question If you're gonna sit

 

down with some for coffee talk story for

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:50,685 --> 00:53:55,305

 

a few hours You got three people you can

 

sit down living or not Who are those three

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:55,305 --> 00:53:56,935

 

people be you would like to sit down with

 

 


Speaker:

00:53:57,345 --> 00:54:00,245

 

Byron Bowers: Wow Wow, that's

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:03,335 --> 00:54:09,605

 

I never thought about that I think,

 

uh, one would be, uh, John Rockefeller.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:11,145 --> 00:54:15,605

 

Um, the second would be, uh,

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:17,785 --> 00:54:21,495

 

probably, uh, maybe Pryor.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:24,165 --> 00:54:26,945

 

And the third, I think I

 

would do my grandfather.

 

 


Speaker:

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Marc Preston: One thing if I was

 

younger, I wish I had the presence

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:31,050 --> 00:54:36,130

 

of mind to know, to ask a lot of

 

questions, you know, to really digest

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:36,130 --> 00:54:38,130

 

even more, you know, but that's good.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:38,130 --> 00:54:38,540

 

That's good.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:38,780 --> 00:54:40,910

 

And so, uh, are you a coffee guy?

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:41,460 --> 00:54:46,845

 

Byron Bowers: No, we would have to do,

 

uh, uh, Like lemonade or something.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:47,045 --> 00:54:48,155

 

Another great drink.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:49,375 --> 00:54:51,035

 

Marc Preston: If you're from the

 

South, it's just what you do.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:51,115 --> 00:54:54,125

 

You know, but the other thing is

 

I never got into the sweet tea.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:54,125 --> 00:54:54,815

 

I like regular tea.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:54,815 --> 00:54:55,545

 

I never, I don't know.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:55,965 --> 00:54:56,385

 

I'm a weirdo.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:57,165 --> 00:54:58,755

 

It's good, but I don't,

 

I don't, I like it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:54:58,755 --> 00:55:00,485

 

Just, I like just the flavor of the tea.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:00,505 --> 00:55:02,245

 

Not too little like lemon though.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:02,325 --> 00:55:05,295

 

I'm down with a lemon, but not a lot

 

of sugar, but well, having lived in new

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:05,295 --> 00:55:09,175

 

Orleans for a number of years, they go

 

crazy on the sugar and I don't like it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:09,185 --> 00:55:09,375

 

That's

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:10,785 --> 00:55:11,855

 

Byron Bowers: Yes, yes,

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:12,245 --> 00:55:12,765

 

Marc Preston: I love it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:13,115 --> 00:55:15,635

 

The next question I got for you

 

going back to when you're a kid,

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:15,635 --> 00:55:18,065

 

who was your first celebrity crush?

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:18,425 --> 00:55:19,455

 

Byron Bowers: That's crazy.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:19,505 --> 00:55:23,485

 

Um, I want to say big time was Neil Long.

 

 


Speaker:

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Marc Preston: Uh huh.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:24,575 --> 00:55:25,065

 

Okay.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:25,535 --> 00:55:29,285

 

Byron Bowers: Was somebody I really

 

remember like, Oh man, she's like bad.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:29,305 --> 00:55:30,205

 

She's beautiful.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:31,485 --> 00:55:34,485

 

Uh, and it was this chick in this movie.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:35,865 --> 00:55:39,725

 

I remember, and that was probably

 

more lust was like weird science.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:40,150 --> 00:55:42,070

 

Marc Preston: Oh, I was a Kelly LeBrock.

 

 


Speaker:

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Byron Bowers: I don't remember the name.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:43,190 --> 00:55:43,550

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

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It was just a look for then, you know,

 

cause he was stacked, you know, but

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,640

 

then as far as like a crush, like,

 

Ooh, I could marry somebody like

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,170

 

this is like near long, you know,

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:54,270 --> 00:55:54,760

 

Marc Preston: near long.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:59,010

 

Well, she was, when she had a lot of

 

the nineties, like teen teen type stuff.

 

 


Speaker:

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Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:55:59,290 --> 00:56:01,310

 

Byron Bowers: It was very important

 

because then, you know, in the

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:01,310 --> 00:56:05,490

 

nineties for, for, and I watched

 

a lot of black TV, cause I didn't,

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:05,530 --> 00:56:06,750

 

that's what I knew, you know?

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:07,330 --> 00:56:13,315

 

Um, I think, uh, A lot of the women

 

look like ordinary cute girls.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:14,125 --> 00:56:17,115

 

It wasn't like, oh, this is the

 

highest chick out of our league.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:17,135 --> 00:56:19,505

 

It's like, no, I go to

 

school with that girl.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:20,025 --> 00:56:23,865

 

You know, so I was always over

 

this chick that Prince used to play

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:23,865 --> 00:56:25,395

 

with I think vanity or something.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:25,485 --> 00:56:26,405

 

Marc Preston: Oh vanity.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:26,915 --> 00:56:27,505

 

Yeah Yeah, but that's

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:27,505 --> 00:56:29,925

 

Byron Bowers: more on the less that's

 

more on the left side right there.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:29,935 --> 00:56:30,325

 

You know,

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:30,365 --> 00:56:32,485

 

Marc Preston: that was an era

 

You know, I feel fortunate.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:32,485 --> 00:56:33,135

 

I grew up.

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:33,525 --> 00:56:38,275

 

I grew up in the 80s, but Was in

 

my 20s like in the 90s, you know,

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:38,535 --> 00:56:43,445

 

Byron Bowers: my mom was my mom was

 

20 Like early 20s when she had me

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:43,945 --> 00:56:46,475

 

so to me that was the music right?

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:47,050 --> 00:56:50,570

 

I remember being three and watching the

 

thriller video or something like that

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:51,220 --> 00:56:57,645

 

And that was a that was my favorite thing

 

scene was the thriller video so Yeah,

 

 


Speaker:

00:56:57,775 --> 00:57:00,755

 

Marc Preston: there's a whole like

 

documentary I think on that album how

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:00,755 --> 00:57:05,985

 

thriller changed the landscape and

 

that album came out You know, the next

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:05,985 --> 00:57:09,805

 

question I got for you is if you already

 

let's say you're gonna be on an island

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:09,815 --> 00:57:12,265

 

for a year It's like a resort somewhere.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:12,265 --> 00:57:16,345

 

You want to be it's it's it's gonna be a

 

nice place, but you don't have internet So

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:16,345 --> 00:57:19,465

 

if you want to watch a movie you're gonna

 

have to bring a DVD and if you want to

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:19,695 --> 00:57:21,775

 

listen to music You got to bring an album.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:21,865 --> 00:57:25,395

 

What would that DVD an album

 

be for you for that full year?

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:25,395 --> 00:57:28,965

 

You Something you could watch

 

and listen to, uh, over and over.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:29,235 --> 00:57:29,725

 

Byron Bowers: Wow.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:29,725 --> 00:57:31,755

 

That's, that's, uh, oof.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:31,755 --> 00:57:44,155

 

Um, I want to say probably Midnight

 

Marauders by Tribe Called Quest was

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:44,155 --> 00:57:46,095

 

like a blend of jazz and hip hop.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:46,985 --> 00:57:50,765

 

They really hit it on the, on the

 

head to where it just sounds good.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:50,765 --> 00:57:52,074

 

And I would have to listen to it.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:52,515 --> 00:57:54,305

 

On the 90s sony walkman.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:54,485 --> 00:57:57,135

 

Yeah Because that's when I

 

heard it for the first time

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:57,185 --> 00:57:59,085

 

Marc Preston: a little

 

foamy like earphone things.

 

 


Speaker:

00:57:59,095 --> 00:58:03,375

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah, um, and I was

 

sleep to that album You know that

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:03,385 --> 00:58:04,495

 

in the martin lawrence album.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:04,495 --> 00:58:12,495

 

I was sleep to sleep to and then um

 

Movie man, I don't I still think the

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:12,495 --> 00:58:18,595

 

matrix was one of the one of the best

 

Movies to me because of what it meant

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:19,655 --> 00:58:27,370

 

Uh spiritually, yeah So I think about

 

it now if it power goes out and we

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:27,370 --> 00:58:30,940

 

got so many books, I feel like we got

 

the internet at our, at our house.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:31,790 --> 00:58:32,820

 

So yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:32,900 --> 00:58:35,200

 

Marc Preston: You know, I need to

 

be more into reading than I am.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:35,270 --> 00:58:36,110

 

It's just, I get this issue.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:36,110 --> 00:58:38,440

 

The only time of day I can sit down

 

and read is going to be in the evening.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:39,070

 

And I do that.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:39,490 --> 00:58:41,990

 

I always end up waking up with a book

 

on my chest, you know, cause I always,

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:41,990 --> 00:58:43,450

 

it puts me right to sleep reading.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:43,730 --> 00:58:44,150

 

So

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:44,150 --> 00:58:45,260

 

Byron Bowers: I don't read.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:45,260 --> 00:58:46,050

 

I'm a slow reader.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:46,530 --> 00:58:47,560

 

I'm a slow reader.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:49,100

 

I read one page a day.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:50,090

 

If I had to read.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:50,110 --> 00:58:52,039

 

Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:54,180

 

Marc Preston: So even if you didn't

 

have power, you got entertainment.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:54,630 --> 00:58:56,320

 

I got the last couple of

 

questions here for you.

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:56,350 --> 00:58:59,720

 

Now, if you were to say from time

 

you get up to the time you go to

 

 


Speaker:

00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,820

 

bed at night, what are the component

 

parts of a perfect day for you?

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,340

 

Like it's, you have all

 

these things happen.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:06,340 --> 00:59:07,770

 

It's, it's a solid day for you.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:08,180 --> 00:59:11,370

 

Byron Bowers: I think man, my

 

baby's sleeping to like seven.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:12,470 --> 00:59:17,170

 

Um, I get to look at the Marcet,

 

the stock Marcet open at six 30.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:17,780 --> 00:59:21,260

 

I get to place a trade on

 

QQQ and it goes straight up.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:21,860 --> 00:59:25,550

 

Uh, my girl gets up, she

 

exercise, she's feeling good.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:25,580 --> 00:59:28,700

 

Baby's, you know, healthy, feeling good.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,310

 

And then I go like crush

 

her shoulder at night.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:38,450

 

Um, everything's, everything is in

 

sync as far as us dealing with the baby

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:38,450 --> 00:59:43,330

 

and like the, the schedule, you know,

 

um, that's what it looked like now.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:43,970 --> 00:59:46,560

 

Uh, having the, having a true good family.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:48,245 --> 00:59:52,665

 

Um, to me, it probably

 

transcends a lot of things.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:53,620

 

Marc Preston: Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:53,620 --> 00:59:57,690

 

And that age is, you know,

 

believe me, it goes by fast.

 

 


Speaker:

00:59:57,690 --> 01:00:00,950

 

Just as you swim in it and be, you

 

know, cause it's gone just like that.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:01,010 --> 01:00:04,250

 

Byron Bowers: It's people like you

 

that makes me like, stay, stay home.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:07,750

 

Cause I can't hold her like this

 

because she was a five weeks

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:07,750 --> 01:00:09,760

 

early and she's outgrown that.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:12,824

 

So this isn't even

 

comfortable to her no more.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:13,295 --> 01:00:14,345

 

Like to put it asleep.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:14,405 --> 01:00:16,195

 

Marc Preston: I will say I

 

had this presence of mine.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:16,195 --> 01:00:19,285

 

I had three kids and I was a

 

single dad, three kids in diapers.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:19,395 --> 01:00:22,325

 

I remember stopping and going, this is

 

stressful, but I know I'm going to want

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:22,325 --> 01:00:24,395

 

one of these days back 10 years from now.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:24,405 --> 01:00:27,355

 

I'm going to like, there's something

 

very special in these got to

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:27,365 --> 01:00:28,825

 

be like that spiritual thing.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:28,975 --> 01:00:32,665

 

I think Zen of being a parent is just

 

got to be in that moment with them then.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:33,525 --> 01:00:35,975

 

And then that's, you've done

 

your job, you know, that's just,

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:36,025 --> 01:00:37,725

 

that's just my two pesos on that.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:37,845 --> 01:00:38,955

 

Byron Bowers: I mean, I agree.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:39,730 --> 01:00:40,620

 

I agree, man.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:41,620

 

Life changes.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:41,650 --> 01:00:45,060

 

Like, I don't remember what I

 

did before this, but I definitely

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:45,100 --> 01:00:47,370

 

think as long as I do this, I'm on.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:48,660

 

Marc Preston: You slept a lot more.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:50,180

 

Byron Bowers: I did.

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:50,290 --> 01:00:55,090

 

And just a bunch of random, like, you

 

know, hanging out late, you know, hunting,

 

 


Speaker:

01:00:55,540 --> 01:01:02,230

 

you know, so, but, but now I'm on, I think

 

I'm on, I'm on track to, I feel like I've

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:02,230 --> 01:01:06,550

 

done what kind of the human thing, right?

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:06,550 --> 01:01:15,085

 

I Uh, and, um, I could live forever if

 

my, if I, if I raise my daughter, right?

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:15,085 --> 01:01:16,385

 

And she would do the human thing.

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:17,135 --> 01:01:19,525

 

And then my DNA moves forward, you know?

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:20,125 --> 01:01:20,955

 

I'd say, say, you know,

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:21,055 --> 01:01:24,275

 

Marc Preston: kids are, uh, it's a way

 

to send yourself into a time you will

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:24,275 --> 01:01:26,075

 

never see, you know, that kind of idea.

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:26,315 --> 01:01:29,755

 

Now, if you weren't doing this

 

for a living, and this wasn't your

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:29,755 --> 01:01:33,125

 

day to day, this wasn't how you

 

provided for your family, what

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:33,125 --> 01:01:34,235

 

would you be doing for a living?

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:34,415 --> 01:01:40,655

 

Byron Bowers: Panhandling, selling bootleg

 

CDs, uh, uh, miscellaneous car parts.

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:41,905 --> 01:01:45,045

 

I don't know, there's a various

 

bunch of nickel and diamond going on.

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:45,135 --> 01:01:46,795

 

Marc Preston: Different

 

phase of entrepreneurship.

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:46,955 --> 01:01:53,390

 

Byron Bowers: Uh, yeah, I got it right,

 

because I mean, you know, I'm the guy

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:53,390 --> 01:01:58,910

 

that went to school and said it was,

 

uh, it was a scam and it was about

 

 


Speaker:

01:01:58,910 --> 01:02:01,190

 

probably about to lose my ways anyway.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,500

 

Marc Preston: But you landed

 

in the just right place.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:03,530 --> 01:02:04,020

 

You know,

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,780

 

Byron Bowers: I think education

 

could be a gift or a curse depending

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:06,780 --> 01:02:08,510

 

on where, where you're from.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:08,700 --> 01:02:11,080

 

Marc Preston: I'm kind of glad

 

a lot of jobs now are saying

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:11,540 --> 01:02:12,990

 

you don't need a college degree.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:13,825 --> 01:02:15,125

 

You can do this.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:15,465 --> 01:02:19,245

 

There's something said about life

 

experience, which, you know, my kids, uh,

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:19,275 --> 01:02:23,265

 

go to, you know, they're all in private,

 

private universities and, but I'm like

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:23,265 --> 01:02:27,575

 

hoping my kids find, uh, that thing that,

 

that, you know, just they love, you know?

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:27,645 --> 01:02:27,825

 

Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:27,825 --> 01:02:30,375

 

Even if it's not school though, it

 

could be like, all right, you was,

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:30,385 --> 01:02:32,275

 

you was born where you was born at.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:32,395 --> 01:02:33,445

 

Marc Preston: I was born in Dallas.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:33,565 --> 01:02:33,795

 

Byron Bowers: All right.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:33,815 --> 01:02:35,515

 

So yeah, you were Dallas guy, right.

 

 


Speaker:

01:02:35,835 --> 01:02:38,865

 

But then you add this layer of

 

education and you find out you're a

 

 


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Jewish, uh, person of Jewish descent.

 

 


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learning those things change everything.

 

 


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The education of learning your history

 

and where you at now change everything.

 

 


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And sometimes that knowledge can

 

alienate you from certain people.

 

 


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Marc Preston: But tell you what, uh,

 

the last question I got for you now,

 

 


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if you got a DeLorean, you can go back

 

in time, 16 year old, you, you can

 

 


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go and hang out for a few minutes.

 

 


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Piece of advice.

 

 


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Uh, You would like to give 16 year old

 

you that you feel like would make that

 

 


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part of your life better Or maybe put

 

you on a little bit different track

 

 


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What would that piece of advice be?

 

 


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Byron Bowers: Man, I don't know

 

if I would Maybe I would observe

 

 


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Yeah, I don't know if I would say anything

 

 


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Yeah At this moment.

 

 


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I don't know because it all led

 

me to this place And I also felt

 

 


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that That was kind of done already

 

 


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in some weird way.

 

 


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Like I would have homeless people

 

tell me stuff and it'll be like, and

 

 


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then they would go back to saying

 

whatever crazy stuff they would say.

 

 


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But it was something in that instruction

 

that led me somewhere forward.

 

 


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Marc Preston: Like you said, it'd

 

be interesting to observe with adult

 

 


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eyes, what was going on back then, you

 

know, you know, uh, you know, like,

 

 


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Oh, that's how I ended up like this.

 

 


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Okay.

 

 


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Byron Bowers: I'm definitely

 

fortunate to have.

 

 


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A lot of, uh, you know, instinctive

 

moments that have led me to where I'm at.

 

 


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And I think if I was to say something,

 

it would take away from that kid,

 

 


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listening to his, uh, his own voice.

 

 


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And I was fortunate to observe a lot,

 

being a lot of situations where I was able

 

 


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to observe and be like, Oh, don't do this.

 

 


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Don't do what they did

 

or don't do this or that.

 

 


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Uh, cause I wasn't.

 

 


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I didn't, I wasn't trying to be like

 

the coolest person in the, in the room.

 

 


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Marc Preston: I think as a comedian, it

 

probably makes you way better at, at doing

 

 


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the comedy thing because If you observe

 

and perceive it, you know, you shoot

 

 


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it through your own prism of reality.

 

 


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And that's like you said, this

 

things that are not inherently

 

 


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funny, they can be, you know, cause

 

it's a shared experience, you know?

 

 


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Marc Preston (2): Agree.

 

 


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Marc Preston: But no, my friend, I

 

definitely appreciate you sharing

 

 


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some time with me and, you know, Hey,

 

I don't know if you're ever coming

 

 


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back down to South Padre Island, but,

 

uh, you know, guy, I'll get you, I'll

 

 


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get you some sweet tea down here.

 

 


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If that's, uh, your jam.

 

 


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Byron Bowers: Man, I was

 

fortunate to see that place.

 

 


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I was very fortunate to see that place.

 

 


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Uh, with a, with a tour guide or

 

somebody who just bought a house there.

 

 


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And, um, he took me to where the

 

road ended and it was beautiful.

 

 


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You know, that road,

 

 


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Marc Preston: six miles up to

 

the north and it not crazy.

 

 


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It just, it just stops and

 

there's a sand dune there.

 

 


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Byron Bowers: Yeah.

 

 


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So, I mean, not knowing

 

that place is there and then

 

 


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seeing it for the first time.

 

 


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And of course it was the season you

 

couldn't get in the water, but just

 

 


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knowing this thing existed was just,

 

it was my first time in Texas also.

 

 


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Um, so yeah, it was very interesting.

 

 


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So yeah,

 

 


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Marc Preston: it's almost like you're

 

in the populated part of the island.

 

 


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Keep driving north.

 

 


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It's like a time machine

 

You're going back in time.

 

 


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This is what it all used to look like,

 

you know Yeah, it's peaceful though.

 

 


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You go up there and there ain't

 

nothing there You can see all the

 

 


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stars in the sky and you know, it's

 

just it's uh, it's uh, very cool But

 

 


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now how long ago was that for you?

 

 


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Byron Bowers: That was like,

 

I think 2008 It was 2008.

 

 


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Yeah, it was a it was a road trip Uh, we

 

ended up in laredo and somebody That's

 

 


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claimed it was jesus walked in our hotel

 

room Uh, yeah, you said somebody what?

 

 


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I'm sorry.

 

 


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They claimed it was jesus.

 

 


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Marc Preston: Oh, okay.

 

 


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Byron Bowers: Just just walked in our

 

hotel and through the french door.

 

 


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You're sure

 

 


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Marc Preston: their name wasn't Jesus.

 

 


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I mean, considering where you know,

 

 


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Byron Bowers: yeah, no, I'm pretty sure

 

because they was like the Jesus is in

 

 


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that south part of those border towns.

 

 


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They a little bit, you know, aggressive.

 

 


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I miss it.

 

 


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Marc Preston: Thank you so much.

 

 


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I appreciate it.

 

 


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And I'm looking forward to seeing

 

Wonder Man and I don't know what

 

 


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it's going to be all about, but

 

I know you're going to be in it.

 

 


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So I got to watch it now, but

 

my friend to go have a wonderful

 

 


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weekend with your family and next

 

time you're over at a Cantor's Deli.

 

 


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Think of me fondly.

 

 


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All right, so I miss that place.

 

 


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Byron Bowers: I will.

 

 


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I will.

 

 


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I'll be down the street tomorrow.

 

 


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So yeah, I will.

 

 


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Marc Preston: But you take

 

care and hopefully we'll catch

 

 


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up down the line, my friend.

 

 


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Byron Bowers: Thank you.

 

 


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Marc Preston: All right, there you go.

 

 


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Byron Bowers.

 

 


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So enjoy this chat.

 

 


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He was just really a candid guy

 

talking about life experiences.

 

 


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I just love talking to people who

 

have a different outlook on life.

 

 


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Just an interesting guy, a cool arc to

 

his career and life and glad to, uh, have

 

 


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the opportunity to introduce him to you.

 

 


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Uh, again, you can check him out on the

 

TV show, Lady in the Lake, Apple TV plus.

 

 


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Uh, he acts alongside Natalie Portman.

 

 


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He does a great job on that show

 

and keep an eye out for him.

 

 


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He will be in the upcoming

 

Marvel show called Wonder Man.

 

 


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And, uh, that's about it for me today.

 

 


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Some cool episodes coming up next week.

 

 


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Really cool conversations on the way.

 

 


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So, you got a big weekend ahead of you.

 

 


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Enjoy it.

 

 


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Uh, and we'll see you next

 

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Byron Bowers

Comedian | Actor | Writer | Producer

Byron Bowers is an actor, stand-up comedian, writer and producer who can currently be seen in the Apple TV+ limited series LADY IN THE LAKE alongside Natalie Portman and Moses Ingram. He also served as a consulting producer on the project.

In 2022, he released his debut comedy special SPIRITUAL N***A on FX/Hulu, directed by Har’el. In this deeply intimate hour, Bowers talks about the stigma of mental health, how tripping on psychedelic mushrooms made him understand his schizophrenic father, and how it altered the way he feels about his blackness.

Film credits include Steven Soderbergh’s crime thriller KIMI for HBO Max, opposite Zoe Kravitz; Steven Soderbergh’s NO SUDDEN MOVE for HBO Max starring Benicio Del Toro and Don Cheadle; Ricky Staub’s CONCRETE COWBOYS for Netflix starring Idris Elba; and Alma Har’el’s award-winning HONEY BOY for Amazon, starring Shia LaBeouf, Lucas Hedges, and Noah Jupe.

Television credits include Olivier Assayas’ limited series IRMA VEP for A24/HBO, starring opposite Alicia Vikander and executive produced by Sam Levinson; Lena Waithe’s award-winning original Showtime series THE CHI; and in Donald Glover and Janine Nabers’ series SWARM on Amazon opposite Dominique Fishback.

Originally from Atlanta, Bowers currently resides in Los Angeles.