On this episode of The Story & Craft Podcast, we sit down with comedian and actor, Byron Bowers from the Apple TV+ show “Lady In The Lake!” Byron shares personal stories about his childhood in Georgia and the influence of 90’s black TV and music. We also discuss Byron's transition from stand-up comedy to acting, with roles in the Showtime show “The Chi”, as well as upcoming projects, including Marvel's “Wonder Man.” We cover the challenges and rewards of a creative career, family expectations, the joys and trials of parenthood, and finding humor in life's darkest moments. It’s a great conversation with a comedian and actor who has an inspiring and intriguing story to share.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
01:59 Byron's Journey to Comedy
03:20 Growing Up in Georgia
06:45 Comedy Inspirations and Early Struggles
10:14 Transition to Acting
19:19 Lady in the Lake and Personal Insights
25:45 Finding Humor in Life's Challenges
33:49 Working with an Accomplished Actress
35:06 Family Background and Early Life
36:13 Pursuing Comedy Against Family Expectations
38:21 Parenting and Finding Joy
41:45 Challenges of Adolescence and Society
46:41 Comedy Inspirations and Observations
52:05 The Seven Questions
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I mean, I always was, like, this guy who, I
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guess, said inappropriate shit.
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So my friends was like, you
should go to the comedy club.
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So we drove up there one time on
amateur night, and I got on stage,
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and I got booed by like 300 people.
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Announcer: Welcome to Story Craft.
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Now, here's your host, Marc Preston.
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Marc Preston: All right, here we go.
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Another episode of Story Craft.
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And as the lovely young lady
said, My name is Marc Preston.
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If this is your first episode, thank
you so much for checking out the show.
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Uh, and if you've been
here before, welcome back.
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Uh, glad to have you.
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All right.
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Today is going to be a fun episode.
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Really enjoy this conversation with
actor and comedian Byron Bowers.
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You may have seen him
in the TV show, the shy.
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You can see him now in the
Apple TV plus show called.
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Lady in the Lake with Natalie
Portman, a great performance.
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Really enjoyed his work and also
he's going to be in the upcoming
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Marvel show called Wonder Man.
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A great conversation.
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Really enjoyed this opportunity
to sit down with Byron.
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Such a cool, candid guy, really kind
of put it out there, how he got to be
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a comedian, how he got into acting.
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And I really enjoyed just his vibe.
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He's a cool dude.
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Sometimes you can just sum up a
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Today is Byron Bower's day
right now on story and craft.
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Thank you so much for
joining me today, man.
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Uh, how are you doing?
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Byron Bowers: Not bad, man.
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Not bad.
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Very relaxed.
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Just came from a very.
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Uh, intense drive
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Marc Preston: road trip drive
or were you like driving in L.
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Kind of intense drive.
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Byron Bowers: It's uh, both.
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But yeah, I went to the mountains.
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I drove to the mountains.
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Marc Preston: Oh really?
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Today.
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Okay.
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Byron Bowers: Yeah.
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Marc Preston: Now, was
this just like a little R.
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N.
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R.
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Or were you like shooting
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Byron Bowers: It's a little R.
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Marc Preston: Are you in L.
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Or?
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Yeah, I'm in
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Byron Bowers: L.
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A.
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I'm in L.
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I don't even know if it's R and R because
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It's uh, you're doing probably 80 miles
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Marc Preston: So was this like, were
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uh, was it just a drive kind of a thing?
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Byron Bowers: No, you
go, you go for the drive.
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It's a very intense drive.
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It's like performing.
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Oh.
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For those who don't,
yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I don't do cocaine so this is a way
to get, I guess the, uh, Kind of
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Marc Preston: adrenaline
thing going on, I guess.
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Byron Bowers: Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Marc Preston: The kind of vehicle
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just like a sports car drive.
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Byron Bowers: Yep.
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Yep.
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Very spiritual, very spiritual
car for a spiritual drive.
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You know,
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Marc Preston: very nice.
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So no, we are, you're originally from LA
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Byron Bowers: I grew up in
Atlanta, Georgia, you know, um,
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I was born in Athens, raised in
Atlanta, very flat, very flat land.
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Um, And, uh, yes, uh,
Athens is a smaller town.
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Um, I think they say it got
90 churches in that one town.
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Marc Preston: Well, like I grew
up in Dallas, so it's sort of like
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Georgia's Dallas, you know, every
time I go up there, I'm like, this
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is sort of like familiar Athens.
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I'm trying to think Athens.
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Isn't that where, uh, I can be wrong.
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Is that where REM is from?
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Are they from Athens?
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Byron Bowers: Yep.
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That's the interesting part.
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It's also a hippie part of,
of, uh, of the South, right?
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You got the B 52s from there.
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You got REM from there.
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Um, so it does have a little artsy, you
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never got to experience, but it's also
home of the, uh, you know, Confederate,
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uh, Constitution of the United States.
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Marc Preston: Oh, okay.
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Actually, you know, is it kind of like,
uh, Kind of like Austin, you know,
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in Texas where it's a little artsy,
but it's kind of the, uh, phrase they
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have in Austin is keep Austin weird.
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So it's Austin weird.
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Byron Bowers: no, it's definitely less.
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It's definitely less,
uh, artsy than Austin.
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Um, but if as conservative as it is,
it's a little bit more, you know,
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less a fair than like, uh, you know,
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Marc Preston: gotcha.
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I gotcha.
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So, I've been trying to remember
in Georgia, where I took my
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kids, uh, I'm sorry, in Atlanta.
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What's that big drive in
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Is it the Varsity?
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Is that what it's called?
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The one that has the chili dogs
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That's the one thing I remember
is that orange drink, you know?
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And then there was a little,
there was a little dance party.
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You know, the next day I
remembered it pretty well.
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You know, it was, it was, uh, it was
a, uh, it was really, really good.
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I was like, if I was in college, that's,
that's what I would be hitting that place.
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But as the years have gone by,
I'm like, yeah, my body's like,
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no, you can't do this a bunch.
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Byron Bowers: I had someone,
but recently, maybe like a year
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or two ago, I rediscovered it.
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Marc Preston: You know, isn't that
a sobering thought when you go, you
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know, I used to do this thing when
I was a kid, like I've got all three
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of my kids are now in college, but I
would take them to thing and do things
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that like, I was like, Oh, I did this
when I was a kid and ate this thing.
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And like the time has expired for me to be
able to do this without it causing issues.
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Byron Bowers: Yeah.
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Mine was dumb cause I'm in the airport
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terminal to get to the varsity.
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Cause Atlanta airport is big.
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So I'm going from like terminal
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to get just to have a chili dog
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Marc Preston: you I will say this if
you're in the airport I'm assuming
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you're going to be on an airplane
and that's a really brave move man.
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That's oh, yeah You usually keep it bland
when I'm flying, you know by the way,
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I talked to Dylan Arnold a few weeks
ago for Lady in the Lake and Great.
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I really I really enjoyed it.
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His character was out there.
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Byron Bowers: oh, yeah, it's crazy
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Marc Preston: They're, they're,
uh, weed eating right outside
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my door here right now.
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So if you hear anything, it's momentary.
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Um, so the, uh, you know, the
groundskeeper here was like,
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uh, it's, it's his day to trim
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Um, so I'm just trying
to get our shoulders to
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Byron Bowers: match.
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Marc Preston: Yeah.
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You know, so you're looking, you're
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I like that.
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I shoulda, shoulda shoulda gone
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curious the, the lady in the lake.
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Your background is comedy and you played.
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A comedian, but there weren't a
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That was kind of the irony of that, you
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yet, which is, I, I, I really enjoyed it.
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It was one of the few shows I've seen
where I didn't know where it was going.
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You know, I, oh wow.
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You know, it's a thing where you
watching and you're like, okay, I'd
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kind of, you know, break it down.
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It's kind of, I had no clue, you know?
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I had no idea.
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Thank you, man.
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But it was, was, it was great.
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And you were kind of a, you
were kind of that backbone.
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You were, you were there, you were like,
you know, talking about comedy and.
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In that era, that was supposed
to be, I guess, early sixties.
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Is that roughly when it was
supposed to be taking place?
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Late sixties, late sixties, late sixties.
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Was comedy to your, to your mind,
was it segregated to a degree?
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Like in black comedians, we're just
going to be doing black clubs because
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before prior showed up, was comedy
kind of like had its own individual
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camps and audiences kind of like that?
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Byron Bowers: Well, I mean,
it's still like that, really.
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You know, um, and I think,
you know, prior was to divide.
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He was actually the divide, um, before,
you know, the goal was to do Vegas and
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you had comedians like Dick Gregory.
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One of the first right to get on and
people didn't have beards and they
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were shaved, clean shaved, and they
told very like polished street jokes.
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And then Lenny Bruce came
out and then he just.
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started talking about, you know,
the inner thoughts and stuff that my
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comedy really spawns from, like stuff
you really shouldn't tell nobody.
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Um, so I think that was, and then
my character is a version of that.
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Um, you know, at, during the time,
late 60, 67, 68, when he just saying
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whatever he wants, he wants to say, and
it's consequences with that, you know?
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And then Pryor came out and really
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became like black audiences and like
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chitlin circuit, but it wasn't like,
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Marc Preston: was that what they call it?
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Chitlin circuit?
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Is that what it was called?
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Byron Bowers: That's what,
that's what it's, that's what
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it's still called actually.
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Really?
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Marc Preston: remember another
one's red Fox and I remember, uh,
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watching him on Sanford and son.
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And then, uh, My parents had one
of his albums and they were out
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one night and I had to babysit her.
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I was like, Oh, I'm going to put
on a Red Fox album, not realizing.
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Not really what I was experienced.
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You know, I was a little kid and it was
not what was I saw in Sanford and Son
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It was it exposed me to some new ideas.
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I will put it like that Yeah, but uh,
but I didn't know that was uh, that was
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a thing I thought it was just kind of
after prior with just things kind of
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Byron Bowers: well, you know Fred Sanford
entertained all even though he was dirty.
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He's the first comedian with the
Triple x label on a comedy album.
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So he entertained all but Uh Yeah,
uh, Pryor was the first comic to
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really talk about white people.
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Marc Preston: I think he got white
people to laugh at themselves a little
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bit, you know, or got a chance to see
the humor, you know, his, he was, he
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was the first, it seemed like that was
a transition point, you know, Pryor
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came on the scene and it was just
like, Something changed, you know?
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But I mean, he's on my Mount Rushmore, you
know, along with like George Carlin and.
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Byron Bowers: Carlin's another one.
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They, they both spawned together.
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They both to me are
descendants of Lenny Bruce.
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Marc Preston: Lenny Bruce is really
the one that had to take those chances
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and get himself into trouble before.
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Did you kick off your comedy in Atlanta?
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In Atlanta
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Byron Bowers: in two, yeah.
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In 2005, I dabbled in 2000
and it just wasn't clicking.
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Uh, like I was going to college and I
had like a bunch of like things going on.
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So I think by the time I hit
like 2005 or probably 2003, I
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was like, this is what I want to
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Marc Preston: do.
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What was that first open mic night?
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Like, uh, I assume you started
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Byron Bowers: Well, I didn't, I
started with a, uh, actually like,
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I mean, I always was like this guy
who I guess say inappropriate shit.
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So my friends was like, you
should go to the comedy club.
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So we drove up there one
time on amateur night.
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Uh, and we, they wouldn't let us in unless
we signed to get on stage and I got on
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stage and I got booed by like 300 people.
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Marc Preston: What was
the thought in your mind?
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Like, I gotta go work on my stuff or I'm
like, I need to stay away from clubs or
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what was, what was your next thought?
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Byron Bowers: I left.
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I think I left for like a year and a half.
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Because there was no, um, I
never been to a comedy club.
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So it was no stuff to work on.
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Marc Preston (2): Oh, really?
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Byron Bowers: Yeah.
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I didn't know that you posted the
right jokes and you supposed to
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like go work them out and test
these things on the audience.
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You know, I was lunchroom funny or,
you know, uh, water fountain funny.
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So, uh, and the things I said, nobody
could really relate to at the time either.
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So it just was, it just was bad.
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And then.
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I came back like a year and a half
later with I wrote two jokes and I
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came back a year and a half later and
it and the joke killed and I think I
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did three minutes and got off stage.
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And then after that night, I think
it bombed for like six months.
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And then I quit again.
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Marc Preston: I've never done comedy, but
I can't imagine a more naked feeling than
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being on stage and going, you know what?
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If you bomb, you're bombing.
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It's all you.
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Uh, but I've heard some comedians
talk that they actually like to work
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themselves out of that hole, you know,
and they feel the crowd disappearing
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and like that invigorates them.
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Other people just
paralyzes them, you know?
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But when did it kick in for you?
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When were you starting to kind
of feel your flow and you kind
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of got your feet underneath you?
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Uh,
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Byron Bowers: probably 2000 and
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And 11, I think.
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How long?
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12, 2012.
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Yep.
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Seven years in.
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Marc Preston: What were you
watching or listening to?
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Or were you listening to any comedians?
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Like, I don't know, that
guy really turns me on.
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I like that idea, what he's doing.
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I want to do that thing.
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Byron Bowers: When I was like getting into
high school, my mom dropped a CD in my,
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in my room and it was Martin Lawrence CD.
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And I never heard
nothing like this before.
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Uh, and I remember, like, I didn't
know Aiden Murphy was a comedian.
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Marc Preston: you're killing me over here.
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Uh, you, yeah.
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You had, my big epiphany was Eddie
Murphy Raw, you know, and I saw that.
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I, I mean, I was watching that
like, I think it was seventh grade.
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I'm a little older than you, but I
saw Eddie Murphy raw and in, uh, there
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was one other one he was wearing.
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I, I remember he was wearing red
leather pants and a, and like a jacket.
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You know.
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Delirious.
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Delirious.
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My friend, uh, Chris and
I, we were in junior high.
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We were watching, I was like.
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The conversation he said he had
with Bill Cosby and Bill Cosby is
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like, you know, you got to watch
what you're saying and you know,
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you, you cuss too much or whatever.
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And then he calls up Richard Pryor and
asking Richard Pryor, you know, Bill
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Cosby is telling, telling me to do this.
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And you know, Richard Pryor
is like, you know, hell with
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him, man, go do your thing.
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He said it in other ways, you
know, but it seems like an
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evolution and he was kind of the.
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Spawning out of that kind of post
Richard Pryor thing and yeah, you know,
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that was a great time for comedy Like
when I was growing up, yeah, like you
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had like Sam Kinnis and Andrew Dice
clay I mean that's back when HBO was
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doing a lot of their comedian features
So I was real in a comedy when I was
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like it probably shouldn't have been
watching it I was a little young but
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Byron Bowers: that's the best
that's the best times man.
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That was those was the best years, right?
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The comedy boom and the way people
described it was just like, even
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comedians got paid, paid, you know,
uh, and the sitcoms came out of that.
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So it was just a, it was a crazy time.
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Um, and yeah, man, I remember, yeah.
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I didn't know Eddie was like a comedian.
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I remember seeing them in movies, uh,
and then I was three years in and I
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was like, let me study this thing.
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And I found out about Richard Pryor,
I never saw Richard Pryor do stand up.
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I just knew of Martin
Lawrence and Def Jam.
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To me that was the
beginning of comedy, right?
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And when I saw Richard Pryor's stand
up and Robin Harris and all these
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guys that are like, all these black
comedians, I started crying, I think.
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That's when I started
crying, uh, that day.
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Uh, cause at that moment I realized
that everything I saw from Def
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Jam and in the clubs was stolen.
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from these guys.
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Marc Preston: Oh, really?
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Byron Bowers: Yeah.
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Marc Preston: Were there like
the stories or they're the
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way they, they told the jokes?
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Byron Bowers: I mean, I, you know, prior
created the genre of just urban comedy.
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He created that, that genre of
talking about what's going on in the
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neighborhood, you know, um, the sixties
was political, you know, Dick Gregor and
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these guys, they had political jokes.
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Marc Preston: Before that, it
was just, Uh, comedians are more
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just like joke tellers, right?
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They want to like, you know, pretty much.
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Yeah.
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Not that there's anything wrong with
it, but it's just a different style.
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Byron Bowers: It's not.
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It's a different style.
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And, um, uh, you know, uh, Dick Gregory
worked at, uh, the playboy club.
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So that's how he blew up.
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He was the first millionaire,
uh, black comedian.
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And then one night he
couldn't make it to a show.
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He was like, it's a
young comedian in Philly.
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Um, that's up and coming.
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Um, and I let him do the
playboy club instead of me.
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And that was Bill Cosby.
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So that's one lineage right here.
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Marc Preston: You know, Bill Cosby, we
all know what ended up happening with
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him, but for the time, for the time,
let's, let's, I just isolate as like a
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little pocket of time when, when he was
doing his thing, he was a, he was a great
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storyteller, you know, had this whole,
his jokes took, there was a big arc, but.
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My favorite comedians were like, uh, okay.
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I'm trying to think like, uh, well,
Robin Williams was in there as well
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He would be on my mail rush more.
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It'd be Robin Williams and Eddie
Murphy and Richard Pryor and and Carl
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Carlin was just the guy I love story.
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Yeah Would you how would
you define your style?
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Are you more kind of more
of a storyteller you?
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Quick observations, you know,
where, how would you define what
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you, what feels good for you?
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Byron Bowers: I'm a, I'm
a blend of everything.
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I started with jokey jokes and then
I started to grow as a comedian
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and, and, and I reached a point
where I wasn't relatable to anybody.
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Um, you know, my lady left, you know,
I was, I was married before she left.
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I'm sleeping on couches and you
know, Kevin Hart is doing his thing.
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And I'm like, I just
can't relate to people.
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Uh, I had a dark moment, you know?
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And, uh, I just started
saying like, fuck it.
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If I can't relate to anybody, then I'm
just going to talk about some of my stuff.
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And then I did a joke about the day
I found out my dad smoked crack.
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I just told the story and people
just came out of the woodworks.
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Like that happened to me too.
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This happened to me too.
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And I was like, Oh, Oh, I found
something, you know, so it's just
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been that brutal, unapologetic or
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Marc Preston: maybe, or maybe they
didn't have the exact same experience,
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but they had an experience of
learning something that was maybe a
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surprising disappointment or something.
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You know, there was, there's
a commonality, even though the
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story's not exactly the same kind
of the emotional response to it.
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Byron Bowers: And you know, one guy
was on heroin when he saw it and he,
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he got kids himself and he stopped.
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He stopped that after
seeing that, you know?
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Uh, so it definitely affected
the more traumatic people, right?
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So it's not a black thing.
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It's not a white thing.
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It's just, I found my people,
which are those who have these
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Marc Preston: kind of a
human experience thing.
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Yeah.
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Byron Bowers: Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So I mean, that's when stuff
started to shift and then I, I
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stopped doing comedies because I
didn't find them relatable to me.
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And it's funny.
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And I ended up in dramas because my
sense of humor is just, it's just the
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dramatic stuff is just funny to me.
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If that makes sense.
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Marc Preston: You're playing,
did you find when you're playing
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Slappy, it was Slappy, right?
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That sort of, in Lady and the Lamp.
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Yep.
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Uh, Did you find like, okay, I've
been in this place before, you
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know, I I'm about to bust out.
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I'm a guy.
460
00:19:02,455 --> 00:19:05,725
It's been a few weeks since I've seen
the show, but I are seeing the series,
461
00:19:05,754 --> 00:19:09,754
but, uh, it was more like he was about
to bust out and he was, it was that
462
00:19:09,754 --> 00:19:13,354
feeling of, you can feel it there.
463
00:19:13,504 --> 00:19:16,425
Was it hard to reach that character,
like to find some, you know,
464
00:19:16,435 --> 00:19:18,845
some stuff to really tap into?
465
00:19:19,245 --> 00:19:20,695
Byron Bowers: Cause I
consulted on the show.
466
00:19:20,695 --> 00:19:23,665
So that's my part of my
real story, you know?
467
00:19:24,270 --> 00:19:28,770
of somebody who follows their dream and
the support you don't get uh sometimes
468
00:19:28,770 --> 00:19:32,770
or you know that's how you look at it
if you follow your dream but to other
469
00:19:32,770 --> 00:19:37,020
people the reality is you just probably
that dude just sitting on the couch
470
00:19:38,380 --> 00:19:45,360
so um it was it was easy for me to get
into character because I lived it but
471
00:19:45,360 --> 00:19:48,910
now I get to see it through everybody
else's eyes and they really don't like
472
00:19:48,910 --> 00:19:52,290
that especially women who date have to
date these type of characters you know.
473
00:19:52,980 --> 00:19:56,800
Marc Preston: I can't imagine
it would be Real easy.
474
00:19:56,810 --> 00:19:59,860
It'd be like, you got to really love
and believe in the person you're with.
475
00:19:59,860 --> 00:20:04,159
Cause it's a, I think anybody that does
a creative thing for a living, that's
476
00:20:04,159 --> 00:20:07,290
a little bit different of a path than
somebody that's done their four years and
477
00:20:07,290 --> 00:20:09,000
maybe then gone on and gotten a master's.
478
00:20:09,010 --> 00:20:09,770
Now they got the career.
479
00:20:09,880 --> 00:20:12,399
You know, if you're with somebody
who's doing something creative, it's
480
00:20:12,399 --> 00:20:16,379
kind of, if it's a different arc of
experience, I'd say more, more interesting
481
00:20:16,379 --> 00:20:17,829
people though, but that's just mine.
482
00:20:18,029 --> 00:20:19,039
That's why I'm doing this.
483
00:20:20,299 --> 00:20:20,859
I met people
484
00:20:20,859 --> 00:20:24,020
Byron Bowers: with businesses that
had to go through the same thing, you
485
00:20:24,020 --> 00:20:28,065
know, um, They might not have had their
college or nothing, but they definitely
486
00:20:28,065 --> 00:20:30,995
got a business or two off the ground.
487
00:20:30,995 --> 00:20:33,245
And you know, it took years.
488
00:20:33,245 --> 00:20:35,024
These things take years,
which you don't know.
489
00:20:35,605 --> 00:20:35,785
Marc Preston: Yeah.
490
00:20:35,785 --> 00:20:38,794
They say it takes 10 years to be an
overnight success or something like that.
491
00:20:38,794 --> 00:20:38,995
I don't know.
492
00:20:38,995 --> 00:20:42,334
Maybe it's more even, but, um, but
you said you consulted on the show.
493
00:20:42,334 --> 00:20:43,754
Is it just kind of like
for your character?
494
00:20:43,754 --> 00:20:48,325
Was it more like how to have that
part of, uh, your experience with a
495
00:20:48,335 --> 00:20:53,075
lady in the lake come along is did the
producer say, Hey, I need some input on.
496
00:20:53,135 --> 00:20:54,785
Uh, you know, fill in the blank.
497
00:20:55,715 --> 00:20:58,805
Byron Bowers: Uh, that, and then
my girlfriend wrote the show and,
498
00:20:58,805 --> 00:21:01,175
and Oh, I did not even know that.
499
00:21:01,175 --> 00:21:01,355
Yeah.
500
00:21:01,355 --> 00:21:02,315
How did I not know that?
501
00:21:02,375 --> 00:21:02,945
Marc Preston: Okay.
502
00:21:02,950 --> 00:21:03,030
Okay.
503
00:21:03,030 --> 00:21:03,310
I don't
504
00:21:03,310 --> 00:21:06,905
Byron Bowers: know, you know, but it's,
uh, yeah, it was a thing of just being
505
00:21:06,905 --> 00:21:13,355
an in-house, uh, type production, you
know, so it was, uh, you know, you
506
00:21:13,355 --> 00:21:17,615
help to shape the story and you want
some of the nuances to be correct.
507
00:21:18,395 --> 00:21:18,935
Um.
508
00:21:20,135 --> 00:21:23,325
And without getting into the whole
race thing, when you talk about
509
00:21:23,325 --> 00:21:29,104
certain races, and it might be written
by or shot by somebody else, you
510
00:21:29,104 --> 00:21:30,675
want certain nuances to be there.
511
00:21:31,184 --> 00:21:34,264
So, you have people consult from both.
512
00:21:35,050 --> 00:21:38,480
You know, groups of people, the Jewish
group and well, my girl is Jewish.
513
00:21:38,490 --> 00:21:38,830
So,
514
00:21:39,220 --> 00:21:39,620
Marc Preston: okay.
515
00:21:39,890 --> 00:21:41,950
You see, that's one thing I'm
Jewish and I noticed that.
516
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:42,260
Yeah.
517
00:21:42,310 --> 00:21:44,760
I kind of felt like somebody knew
what they were doing when they put
518
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:47,899
some of these things in there, you
know, it was such an interesting show.
519
00:21:47,899 --> 00:21:49,389
It's something I want
to go back and rewatch.
520
00:21:49,389 --> 00:21:49,649
Yeah.
521
00:21:49,649 --> 00:21:52,370
I was watching it with, um,
my son and his girlfriend.
522
00:21:52,690 --> 00:21:55,480
And I was just going to watch a
show or two, one or two episodes.
523
00:21:55,510 --> 00:21:57,680
And we ended up like power
watching it over two days.
524
00:21:57,690 --> 00:21:59,190
You know, it was such a good show.
525
00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:00,799
So no, well done, man.
526
00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,510
I will say that was, uh, your character
was, as some people to stand out
527
00:22:04,510 --> 00:22:08,775
and other, you know, Dylan, his, uh,
Dylan Arnold was, It was out there.
528
00:22:08,775 --> 00:22:09,115
Oh yeah.
529
00:22:09,115 --> 00:22:12,395
What he did was just kind
of, it was, it was rich.
530
00:22:12,395 --> 00:22:13,575
There was a lot going on.
531
00:22:13,575 --> 00:22:15,035
There was a lot of cultural stuff.
532
00:22:15,035 --> 00:22:18,825
It was a little, it felt like kind of
like a, a little time capsule in a way.
533
00:22:18,835 --> 00:22:21,445
If you mixed some things together,
how it, how would it come out?
534
00:22:21,455 --> 00:22:22,894
You know, but it was a great story, man.
535
00:22:22,895 --> 00:22:23,514
It was really wonderful.
536
00:22:23,515 --> 00:22:24,494
It's just
537
00:22:24,494 --> 00:22:28,914
Byron Bowers: a bunch of genres that we
managed to, uh, and more for the other
538
00:22:28,914 --> 00:22:32,925
writers, cause I just sprinkled some
salt on it, but they were able to, to,
539
00:22:33,075 --> 00:22:35,225
to bend these genres together in a.
540
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,110
Way that, like you said, you
couldn't tell what was coming.
541
00:22:40,130 --> 00:22:44,355
Like it's not predictable, which
is You know, I think it'd be
542
00:22:44,355 --> 00:22:45,835
challenging for audiences now.
543
00:22:45,985 --> 00:22:47,345
Marc Preston: I think
it's very challenging.
544
00:22:47,345 --> 00:22:50,775
Yeah, because everything you know all
You know a lot of well Then you get a
545
00:22:50,775 --> 00:22:54,264
lot of shows that are just or movies
that are remade and remade remade and
546
00:22:54,324 --> 00:22:58,085
and then you have certain story structure
and all this kind of stuff and You you
547
00:22:58,085 --> 00:23:01,685
know, you can kind of subconsciously pick
up like most rom coms You kind of know
548
00:23:01,685 --> 00:23:03,955
where they're going to go fundamentally,
but you're there for the ride.
549
00:23:03,965 --> 00:23:05,945
You enjoy it Yeah, but
with this it was different.
550
00:23:05,945 --> 00:23:06,925
It was really enjoyable.
551
00:23:06,935 --> 00:23:10,135
Byron Bowers: Y'all gotta put
your phones down It can't be you
552
00:23:10,135 --> 00:23:11,960
can't cook You know what I mean?
553
00:23:11,990 --> 00:23:14,720
You probably barely can eat,
eat while you watch this.
554
00:23:21,580 --> 00:23:24,759
Marc Preston: You said that you were
doing the comedy thing, but kind of the
555
00:23:24,769 --> 00:23:28,379
nature of your stories and where you
find yourself, you started doing more,
556
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:30,310
as far as acting goes, more drama stuff.
557
00:23:31,049 --> 00:23:33,110
When did you start kind of
getting into the acting thing?
558
00:23:33,549 --> 00:23:40,139
Byron Bowers: Um, when I met, uh, Doug,
this casting director, um, Carmen Cuba.
559
00:23:41,165 --> 00:23:45,675
She brought me in in 2016 for
this show called The Shy, uh,
560
00:23:45,675 --> 00:23:46,804
which is still on by the way.
561
00:23:46,845 --> 00:23:51,004
It's a drama and I auditioned
and I tested for it.
562
00:23:51,064 --> 00:23:56,115
Like I mean, I went through seven or
eight auditions and, uh, I didn't get it,
563
00:23:56,155 --> 00:24:01,455
but I got one, uh, part as a day player
and it turned into like seven episodes.
564
00:24:02,865 --> 00:24:05,439
And uh, That's, you know,
to me, the universe.
565
00:24:05,439 --> 00:24:06,179
Wait, so you came in as
566
00:24:06,179 --> 00:24:08,050
Marc Preston: a day player and
they got you into seven episodes.
567
00:24:08,060 --> 00:24:10,739
That's, that's, uh, that's gotta
be kind of a cool heady thing.
568
00:24:10,739 --> 00:24:12,790
Like you show up and you think
it's just working a few hours.
569
00:24:12,809 --> 00:24:13,759
Now you're on the show.
570
00:24:14,129 --> 00:24:16,409
Byron Bowers: Yeah, you're on the
show and you still don't really know.
571
00:24:16,800 --> 00:24:18,620
Like everything is new to you, right?
572
00:24:19,030 --> 00:24:23,050
So you, you're figuring it
out as you, as you, as you go.
573
00:24:23,810 --> 00:24:29,360
But, um, I do notice like, I was like,
I'm getting more lines each episode.
574
00:24:30,659 --> 00:24:33,370
So I was like, somebody like me and
I gotta be doing something right.
575
00:24:34,145 --> 00:24:37,945
And then, um, after that I got
the next thing, which was a drama.
576
00:24:38,054 --> 00:24:42,695
I went to, uh, I tried to take a comedy
class, a comedy intensive acting class.
577
00:24:42,975 --> 00:24:46,345
And I remember the teacher was like,
uh, she was like, name a comedy.
578
00:24:46,815 --> 00:24:48,665
And I was like, uh, Breaking Bad.
579
00:24:49,274 --> 00:24:52,335
And she was like, that's
not, that's not a comedy.
580
00:24:52,425 --> 00:24:54,065
It's a funny show, but it's not a comedy.
581
00:24:54,375 --> 00:24:55,544
And she was like, name another one.
582
00:24:55,544 --> 00:24:57,175
And I said, Handmaid's Tale.
583
00:24:58,774 --> 00:24:59,115
Marc Preston (2): Comedy.
584
00:24:59,115 --> 00:24:59,340
Okay.
585
00:24:59,340 --> 00:24:59,564
Okay.
586
00:25:00,044 --> 00:25:00,414
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
587
00:25:00,414 --> 00:25:03,034
And she was like, you know, everybody
laughing and she was like, how the
588
00:25:03,034 --> 00:25:04,914
fuck, you know, that's what she said.
589
00:25:04,914 --> 00:25:06,705
This lady, why you say it's a comedy.
590
00:25:07,094 --> 00:25:11,834
And I started breaking down the scene
of this lady having this, you know,
591
00:25:11,854 --> 00:25:15,195
having to watch this other lady sleep
with her husband to try to have a baby
592
00:25:15,874 --> 00:25:17,244
and what I thought was funny about it.
593
00:25:17,634 --> 00:25:19,774
And she was like, so you kind of dialed
594
00:25:19,774 --> 00:25:22,955
Marc Preston: into the situational
comedy of like how that's just
595
00:25:22,985 --> 00:25:25,049
the absurdity of a moment.
596
00:25:25,310 --> 00:25:26,200
You know, that's it.
597
00:25:26,210 --> 00:25:27,129
So that's kind of what you're thinking.
598
00:25:27,129 --> 00:25:27,560
It's funny.
599
00:25:27,919 --> 00:25:28,340
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
600
00:25:28,490 --> 00:25:31,000
And I think cause the attention
is, is always funny to me.
601
00:25:31,060 --> 00:25:34,760
And, um, you know, I'm, like I said,
I'm the son of a schizophrenic and been
602
00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:38,659
in like, you know, crazy situations,
young mother and stuff like that.
603
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:43,409
And you have to find humor
in it or don't or not.
604
00:25:43,790 --> 00:25:44,649
Marc Preston: That's survival, man.
605
00:25:44,649 --> 00:25:44,970
Yeah.
606
00:25:45,010 --> 00:25:45,370
Yeah.
607
00:25:45,649 --> 00:25:51,629
So you had this experience in these,
these mechanisms, uh, Was comedy kind
608
00:25:51,629 --> 00:25:54,270
of an escape for you at some point in
time when you kind of discovered it?
609
00:25:54,399 --> 00:25:57,790
Uh, was it kind of a cathartic for
lack of a better way of putting it?
610
00:25:57,790 --> 00:25:59,449
Or what kind of things were you consuming?
611
00:25:59,449 --> 00:26:02,989
Like, this is your kind of like,
uh, comfort food, if you will.
612
00:26:03,090 --> 00:26:06,790
Byron Bowers: I mean, like I said, I
started with Def Jam and, and you know,
613
00:26:06,790 --> 00:26:11,389
I was getting bullied in school and
then I realized this became a weapon
614
00:26:11,389 --> 00:26:13,219
for me, like a defense mechanism.
615
00:26:13,870 --> 00:26:16,050
So I could easily like
make fun of somebody.
616
00:26:16,745 --> 00:26:20,044
Three people at a time, football
players, it didn't matter, and they
617
00:26:20,044 --> 00:26:22,024
were like, people would be afraid of me.
618
00:26:22,674 --> 00:26:23,154
Marc Preston: Really?
619
00:26:23,364 --> 00:26:26,205
Byron Bowers: You know, so
then you become this bully.
620
00:26:26,284 --> 00:26:30,914
You know, it's the, you know, as Natalie
Portman said, they are the oppressed
621
00:26:30,914 --> 00:26:32,354
becoming the oppressor, you know.
622
00:26:33,274 --> 00:26:39,745
Um, so, it's, it's, uh, that's when
I realized I had this thing, but, uh,
623
00:26:40,990 --> 00:26:45,000
And then on this level, on this, the
drama, man, it's like, how do I find it?
624
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:50,949
It's just the tenseness of it, you know,
like life is, we take certain things in
625
00:26:50,949 --> 00:26:55,009
life serious, but at the end of the day,
you know, we're going to die, you know?
626
00:26:55,010 --> 00:26:59,570
So it's the, it's, it's knowing
those things, you know, the spirit,
627
00:26:59,570 --> 00:27:02,300
the spirituality part of, of life.
628
00:27:02,330 --> 00:27:06,449
And then how serious we take, like, you
know, you, you put in the, you can't
629
00:27:06,459 --> 00:27:08,260
mix the cheese with the, with the meat.
630
00:27:09,284 --> 00:27:13,705
You know, or my first Shabbat dinner
is a part where you got to be quiet
631
00:27:13,894 --> 00:27:17,985
until they wash their hands, which is
hilarious, you know, cause I didn't
632
00:27:17,985 --> 00:27:19,114
even know how to work the sink.
633
00:27:20,944 --> 00:27:21,584
So,
634
00:27:21,864 --> 00:27:24,294
Marc Preston: well, wait a minute, but,
but if it's, but okay, if it's Shabbat
635
00:27:24,304 --> 00:27:28,384
though, and you're not Jewish, you're the
one having to turn everything on and off.
636
00:27:28,394 --> 00:27:31,914
You were the, you were the, uh,
you were the Shabbat, uh, Shabbos
637
00:27:31,914 --> 00:27:33,884
Goy, as they say, you know, okay.
638
00:27:34,904 --> 00:27:36,054
Byron Bowers: They were
pointing to the light switch.
639
00:27:36,745 --> 00:27:37,585
They're like, you thirsty?
640
00:27:37,585 --> 00:27:37,945
Yeah.
641
00:27:37,995 --> 00:27:41,395
And they walk into the alcohol
closet and be like, I can show you
642
00:27:41,395 --> 00:27:43,805
a bottle and they would like hint
at the lights and stuff like that.
643
00:27:45,035 --> 00:27:47,725
And I'm like, man, it's a lot,
it's a lot of rules here, you know?
644
00:27:47,775 --> 00:27:49,865
Marc Preston: You know, uh, I
didn't grow up Orthodox at all and
645
00:27:49,865 --> 00:27:53,224
definitely far away from that, but
uh, but I kind of appreciate it.
646
00:27:53,225 --> 00:27:55,625
But then again, some of it,
it's, you look at it and go.
647
00:27:56,009 --> 00:27:59,659
And I think this is any faith or
any kind of practice or anything
648
00:27:59,659 --> 00:28:03,529
like that, shot through the prism of
somebody else's perspective, it can
649
00:28:03,529 --> 00:28:06,929
be kind of humorous, but it's like,
Hey, it's where people find their joy.
650
00:28:06,939 --> 00:28:10,370
And you kind of, I think as you all get
older and mature, you find, Hey, that's
651
00:28:10,370 --> 00:28:11,689
where they find their joy and happiness.
652
00:28:11,709 --> 00:28:14,850
You know, that's how, who am I to
say that's, you know, whatever.
653
00:28:14,850 --> 00:28:18,889
But, uh, but yeah, and that one scene
with, um, Oh God, I forgot his name.
654
00:28:18,889 --> 00:28:23,919
I love, um, He's comedian also, uh,
uh, um, Brett, um, Oh, Brett Gilman.
655
00:28:24,030 --> 00:28:25,060
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
656
00:28:25,270 --> 00:28:27,129
And that was, that was
a great role for him.
657
00:28:27,139 --> 00:28:31,509
Cause he usually plays kind of a
absurd kind of adult, you know, the
658
00:28:31,509 --> 00:28:34,449
moments of tension and he, there was
a lot of heart and there was this,
659
00:28:34,489 --> 00:28:38,020
like these moments when they're kind
of, Trying to relate to one another
660
00:28:38,030 --> 00:28:41,190
with, I don't wanna give anything
away, but he does stand up, doesn't he?
661
00:28:41,190 --> 00:28:42,350
Or he just, I don't.
662
00:28:42,500 --> 00:28:45,270
Byron Bowers: Yeah, he do show,
he does shows occasionally,
663
00:28:45,409 --> 00:28:46,670
occasionally, you know what I mean?
664
00:28:46,690 --> 00:28:50,760
Uh, you can catch him probably at
the Dynasty Typewriter in LA and
665
00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:54,679
stuff like that, when he makes an
appearance, um, which is hilarious.
666
00:28:55,250 --> 00:28:58,190
Marc Preston: But you, but you were
saying that, uh, that we were, I
667
00:28:58,190 --> 00:28:59,290
didn't mean to cut you off before, but.
668
00:28:59,300 --> 00:28:59,610
I think,
669
00:28:59,670 --> 00:29:04,100
Byron Bowers: I think what
dialed it in for me is, um, I
670
00:29:04,100 --> 00:29:05,519
was in college my freshman year.
671
00:29:05,954 --> 00:29:10,124
And I was, I was depressed to
where I wanted to kill myself.
672
00:29:11,074 --> 00:29:14,934
And, you know, I'm a poor
kid in this strange town.
673
00:29:15,624 --> 00:29:17,964
And just thinking of how
could I kill myself with no
674
00:29:17,964 --> 00:29:21,164
resources just became funny.
675
00:29:22,254 --> 00:29:26,524
And it was a very spiritual moment
for me, you know what I mean?
676
00:29:27,254 --> 00:29:31,709
But it was a thing of like, you know,
How you gonna jump out the window?
677
00:29:31,709 --> 00:29:32,709
You on the first floor.
678
00:29:32,780 --> 00:29:35,239
You're going to be at the club
fucked up in a wheelchair.
679
00:29:35,510 --> 00:29:38,909
People got to put straws in
my, like all the funny things.
680
00:29:38,909 --> 00:29:42,319
And I felt like spiritually, I was
talking to the universe at the time.
681
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:43,989
It was just going over these scenarios.
682
00:29:44,050 --> 00:29:44,949
Cause he was like, do it.
683
00:29:44,969 --> 00:29:46,080
This is going to happen to you.
684
00:29:46,489 --> 00:29:48,090
And if you do that, that's
going to happen to you.
685
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:49,979
He's like, you can't hang yourself.
686
00:29:50,050 --> 00:29:53,120
Cause you know, that means you got to
tie a noose and you black, black people
687
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:57,050
don't tie nooses, you know, and all this,
all these thoughts, you know what I mean?
688
00:29:57,050 --> 00:29:59,325
And we just became, it just became funny.
689
00:29:59,945 --> 00:30:01,845
Marc Preston: So was the
finding the humor in it?
690
00:30:01,865 --> 00:30:05,625
Or did you, did you have a chance
to talk with someone or what kind
691
00:30:05,625 --> 00:30:07,645
of pulled you through that funk?
692
00:30:07,645 --> 00:30:09,665
And I don't mean to sound reductive
when I say funk, but I mean,
693
00:30:09,665 --> 00:30:11,145
it's like that, that thing of.
694
00:30:11,205 --> 00:30:12,385
Byron Bowers: But no, that's what it is.
695
00:30:12,435 --> 00:30:19,055
What you have to, you have to really, I
think, understand, you know, some, some,
696
00:30:19,065 --> 00:30:25,495
for some of us, we have to get to those
lows and work ourselves out, um, you
697
00:30:25,495 --> 00:30:28,515
know, for, for us to really appreciate.
698
00:30:29,590 --> 00:30:31,910
Um, you know, life.
699
00:30:32,270 --> 00:30:36,410
So I didn't, I didn't talk to nobody
about it, but I definitely, you know,
700
00:30:36,410 --> 00:30:40,630
it happened a few more times and I
definitely got a Cedar pattern and
701
00:30:40,630 --> 00:30:42,830
realized that it's a very selfish thing.
702
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:46,190
You're in a very selfish state because
you're thinking about yourself.
703
00:30:46,220 --> 00:30:50,030
And if I changed the scope, like by
the time I got to LA and I would feed
704
00:30:50,050 --> 00:30:54,300
homeless during the holidays, cause
I didn't, my family wasn't here.
705
00:30:54,310 --> 00:30:54,700
And.
706
00:30:55,170 --> 00:30:56,730
You know, I'm sleeping
on couches and stuff.
707
00:30:56,730 --> 00:30:59,110
And so I became a
service to somebody else.
708
00:30:59,630 --> 00:31:02,610
Then those things kind of
go away and you realize that
709
00:31:02,610 --> 00:31:03,630
Marc Preston: crazy how that works.
710
00:31:03,660 --> 00:31:06,250
When you pay it forward, even if you
feel like you don't have anything
711
00:31:06,250 --> 00:31:10,590
to pay forward, but when you do it,
it, it, there's, there's something
712
00:31:10,590 --> 00:31:13,940
transformative and kind of happen at
least a little shift in your perspective.
713
00:31:13,980 --> 00:31:16,360
Uh, the empathy I think helps a lot.
714
00:31:17,450 --> 00:31:21,440
When you realize other people are probably
dealing with the exact same thing, um,
715
00:31:22,020 --> 00:31:25,140
And, you know, and I think that all
the great comedians, unfortunately,
716
00:31:25,140 --> 00:31:29,930
you know, I think they've all had
moments like that, you know, I mean,
717
00:31:29,940 --> 00:31:32,160
certainly like, you know, Robin Williams.
718
00:31:32,190 --> 00:31:35,400
I mean, you know, you look at him and
you go, do you think that comedians
719
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:37,620
have a different kind of DNA makeup?
720
00:31:37,620 --> 00:31:40,290
I don't mean literally DNA, but I
mean a little bit of a different,
721
00:31:40,850 --> 00:31:43,820
the way you perceive the world,
like you're finding humor.
722
00:31:44,210 --> 00:31:48,350
In the methodology of suicide, not being
able to find the right one that would
723
00:31:48,350 --> 00:31:53,630
actually would be effective, you know, but
do you think that that's part of the all
724
00:31:53,650 --> 00:31:57,630
comedians cut from a similar cloth in that
regard, being able to find the absurdity
725
00:31:57,630 --> 00:31:59,160
and the humor and things like that?
726
00:31:59,710 --> 00:32:02,900
Byron Bowers: I think so, but
I think so, but some comedians
727
00:32:02,900 --> 00:32:05,280
won't even go there, right?
728
00:32:06,380 --> 00:32:09,460
It takes a certain person
to see the duality of life.
729
00:32:10,085 --> 00:32:11,815
To be able to straddle both sides.
730
00:32:12,115 --> 00:32:12,495
Marc Preston (2): Oh, yeah.
731
00:32:12,595 --> 00:32:13,005
Oh, yeah,
732
00:32:13,075 --> 00:32:18,685
Byron Bowers: right And yeah, I know
some comedians they don't like silence
733
00:32:19,895 --> 00:32:21,245
They want everybody to like him.
734
00:32:21,615 --> 00:32:26,220
I'm just not I'm just happy to be not
one of those comedians So it lends my
735
00:32:26,220 --> 00:32:28,600
comedy to be more serious at times.
736
00:32:28,710 --> 00:32:31,900
Marc Preston: When you say that duality,
there is a, there is a, a philosopher,
737
00:32:31,950 --> 00:32:35,830
uh, named Alan Watts from back in the
day, you know, I heard of Alan Watts.
738
00:32:35,910 --> 00:32:36,330
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
739
00:32:36,380 --> 00:32:36,670
Marc Preston: Yeah.
740
00:32:36,670 --> 00:32:36,820
Yeah.
741
00:32:36,820 --> 00:32:39,450
He taught, you know, it talks about
that duality a lot and the human
742
00:32:39,450 --> 00:32:43,640
experience and, And how humans, how
we just take it all too serious.
743
00:32:43,650 --> 00:32:45,150
So kind of like what you
were saying before, you know,
744
00:32:45,190 --> 00:32:46,840
taking it all too seriously.
745
00:32:46,950 --> 00:32:50,010
Just, uh, when he talks about that
duality, it's like, you know, it's,
746
00:32:50,290 --> 00:32:53,150
you start getting to a certain age, you
realize life is a ride, you know, and
747
00:32:53,150 --> 00:32:54,360
you can have you up and ups and downs.
748
00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:56,900
You start, like you said, you
saw patterns and when you start
749
00:32:56,900 --> 00:32:58,020
seeing it, keep coming back.
750
00:32:58,030 --> 00:32:59,640
It's like, okay, it's just a wave.
751
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:00,463
I'm surfing here.
752
00:33:00,463 --> 00:33:01,380
Kind of, you know?
753
00:33:01,650 --> 00:33:03,860
Byron Bowers: So I think that's
the thing that can't be taught is
754
00:33:03,860 --> 00:33:09,340
like, um, getting in tune with your
spiritual side, understanding your
755
00:33:09,410 --> 00:33:14,010
instincts, Like how, what's the
difference between fear and your voice
756
00:33:14,020 --> 00:33:15,580
saying like, this is what you do.
757
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:20,130
And then going with that, having faith
to go with that because nobody else is.
758
00:33:21,025 --> 00:33:22,045
Doing that thing
759
00:33:22,855 --> 00:33:25,975
Marc Preston: as you were
working, uh, in Lady in the Lake?
760
00:33:26,035 --> 00:33:28,405
Um, I just adored Natalie Portman.
761
00:33:28,465 --> 00:33:31,135
I mean, I think she was just an, I'm
very, she's an alien, I think, you
762
00:33:31,135 --> 00:33:34,255
know, 'cause to, to watch her in the
professional and think she was only
763
00:33:34,255 --> 00:33:39,745
12 and just have that kind of presence
and just to the def to, I don't think
764
00:33:39,745 --> 00:33:41,035
she had really had any training at all.
765
00:33:41,035 --> 00:33:42,265
I was like, how does, that's alien?
766
00:33:42,265 --> 00:33:44,815
How does she get to, you know,
my kids know her more as, you
767
00:33:44,815 --> 00:33:47,665
know, princess s Leia and Luke
Skywalker's mother, you know.
768
00:33:48,025 --> 00:33:49,466
Um, but , that's hilarious.
769
00:33:49,735 --> 00:33:54,635
What was it like working with her
and, and something like this, which is
770
00:33:54,645 --> 00:33:56,225
something I haven't seen her do before.
771
00:33:56,235 --> 00:33:57,815
And, uh, which is fantastic.
772
00:33:57,865 --> 00:33:59,365
Byron Bowers: Um, I thought it was cool.
773
00:33:59,375 --> 00:34:07,295
You know, I mean, she definitely allowed
me in to like be fluid and like, you
774
00:34:07,295 --> 00:34:09,015
know, dance with her doing the scenes.
775
00:34:09,085 --> 00:34:13,095
Um, which was very helpful to me
working with somebody as such a,
776
00:34:13,175 --> 00:34:16,405
you know, high level of craft.
777
00:34:16,900 --> 00:34:19,850
You know, her craft level
is way higher than mine.
778
00:34:20,420 --> 00:34:24,760
Um, so, you know, she
allowed me to step up.
779
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:25,850
That makes sense.
780
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:27,150
Marc Preston: Oh, I
spoke with Dylan Arnold.
781
00:34:27,150 --> 00:34:28,570
He said something pretty similar.
782
00:34:28,570 --> 00:34:30,160
You know, she was, she was fully open.
783
00:34:30,230 --> 00:34:32,580
You know, there wasn't like, you know,
here comes the big star on the set.
784
00:34:32,580 --> 00:34:34,950
It was, she's mixing with everybody.
785
00:34:34,950 --> 00:34:37,190
Like she's on the same level, you know,
786
00:34:37,210 --> 00:34:38,260
Byron Bowers: she's very chill.
787
00:34:38,260 --> 00:34:42,300
And when it's, and even though, you
know, she's in producer mode, but
788
00:34:42,300 --> 00:34:44,160
she also in professional acting mode.
789
00:34:44,860 --> 00:34:49,030
And she came, she would come, she would
hit up Marcs, but during the scene,
790
00:34:49,100 --> 00:34:53,120
you know, sometimes when you do scenes
with people that you could tell they
791
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:59,085
closed off, but you know, soulfully she
She was there with, you know, it makes
792
00:34:59,085 --> 00:35:00,785
Marc Preston: a lot easier
to react, doesn't it?
793
00:35:00,785 --> 00:35:04,005
Like when you're with somebody and they're
there, you can just bounce off them.
794
00:35:04,005 --> 00:35:05,115
It makes your job easier.
795
00:35:05,145 --> 00:35:05,675
Yeah.
796
00:35:06,095 --> 00:35:09,225
Um, well, no, I was curious by the way,
kind of going back to the origin story
797
00:35:09,225 --> 00:35:11,745
now, what kind of work did your folks do?
798
00:35:12,185 --> 00:35:15,615
Uh, would it was anybody in
your family and comedy or acting
799
00:35:15,615 --> 00:35:16,805
or anything performance wise?
800
00:35:16,805 --> 00:35:17,035
No,
801
00:35:17,035 --> 00:35:18,745
Byron Bowers: no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
802
00:35:18,755 --> 00:35:24,155
My, my mother, uh, you know, she worked
at a company called Certain Teed and
803
00:35:24,155 --> 00:35:26,460
they would make like, uh, What is it?
804
00:35:26,460 --> 00:35:29,100
Fiber stuff that goes into
the walls in the roof.
805
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:32,230
Uh, and she will waitress when I was born.
806
00:35:32,260 --> 00:35:36,640
And my dad was a Navy guy who ended
up working for the power company.
807
00:35:37,780 --> 00:35:41,710
But, uh, in Athens, a lot of people end
up working at the, uh, you know, the
808
00:35:41,770 --> 00:35:45,940
chicken factory, the chicken plant, you
know, yeah, it's one of those towns.
809
00:35:45,950 --> 00:35:50,520
My granddaddy did that and he hauled
chickens and then my grandmother, uh, I
810
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:55,420
think clean, like the universities, uh,
You know, dorm rooms and stuff like that.
811
00:35:56,020 --> 00:35:58,500
And then my other grandma
worked in the, in like the,
812
00:35:58,790 --> 00:36:01,080
the hood at the daycare center.
813
00:36:02,150 --> 00:36:05,760
Um, and she was like a nanny type
situation, but before that they all
814
00:36:05,770 --> 00:36:09,020
formed, you know, when they was, they
had to drop out of school and like
815
00:36:09,030 --> 00:36:13,150
form and pick cotton and whatever,
you know, forming they had to do.
816
00:36:13,935 --> 00:36:18,015
Marc Preston: So like when here you are
departing into this creative endeavor, you
817
00:36:18,015 --> 00:36:21,295
know, you're not getting your hands dirty,
you know You're not coming home Well,
818
00:36:21,295 --> 00:36:24,875
like a Bernie's Bernie Sanders said is
like, you know There were some people take
819
00:36:24,875 --> 00:36:27,435
the shower in the morning and at night
These are all people taking the shower
820
00:36:27,435 --> 00:36:30,115
at night because they've been getting
dirty all day Oh, yeah, you are doing
821
00:36:30,115 --> 00:36:31,855
the comedy or the the creative thing.
822
00:36:31,855 --> 00:36:33,915
How was that received by by the family?
823
00:36:33,915 --> 00:36:35,345
Byron Bowers: Oh, they didn't like it.
824
00:36:35,905 --> 00:36:36,805
They didn't like it at all.
825
00:36:37,105 --> 00:36:42,354
It's very disappointing actually Because
I never I never would talk as a kid You
826
00:36:42,835 --> 00:36:44,245
So they didn't even know me to be funny.
827
00:36:45,415 --> 00:36:46,735
So they were shocked.
828
00:36:46,735 --> 00:36:47,665
I mean, were you an only
829
00:36:47,665 --> 00:36:50,005
Marc Preston: child or did
you, did you have siblings or?
830
00:36:50,065 --> 00:36:50,935
Byron Bowers: No, I had a little sister.
831
00:36:50,935 --> 00:36:52,375
I had a younger sister, um
832
00:36:52,885 --> 00:36:52,915
Marc Preston: Oh,
833
00:36:53,395 --> 00:36:53,455
Byron Bowers: okay.
834
00:36:53,455 --> 00:36:59,245
Who probably had more personality than
me, but, uh, it's just shocking, man.
835
00:36:59,245 --> 00:37:03,535
I was also one of the first graduate from
college also, you know, I went to school
836
00:37:03,535 --> 00:37:06,805
for engineering and uh, I got a Bachelor
of Science in business Management.
837
00:37:07,735 --> 00:37:10,115
So, you know, they stress education a lot.
838
00:37:10,235 --> 00:37:13,615
And then at the day I graduated,
that's when I dropped the bomb.
839
00:37:13,625 --> 00:37:14,845
Like, I'm just going to do stand up.
840
00:37:15,415 --> 00:37:16,395
Marc Preston: It's kind
of like one for you.
841
00:37:16,415 --> 00:37:17,145
Not one for me.
842
00:37:17,325 --> 00:37:18,825
You know, yeah, it was one of those.
843
00:37:18,845 --> 00:37:19,215
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
844
00:37:19,215 --> 00:37:22,155
So, uh, that added to the disappointment.
845
00:37:22,835 --> 00:37:24,375
My grandmother definitely didn't like it.
846
00:37:24,555 --> 00:37:26,855
Like the silliness and all those things.
847
00:37:26,925 --> 00:37:27,465
Well, fast
848
00:37:27,465 --> 00:37:30,125
Marc Preston: forward, you're
finding success in doing this thing.
849
00:37:30,265 --> 00:37:32,775
Um, what's their perception now?
850
00:37:32,815 --> 00:37:36,720
Kind of like, are they like,
you know, Are they getting it?
851
00:37:36,890 --> 00:37:39,930
Have they got, I mean, like, okay, this
is a thing he does and he does well.
852
00:37:39,940 --> 00:37:41,900
Or is it still like, I don't know, man.
853
00:37:41,900 --> 00:37:43,520
And when he's in one of these
days, he'll get a real job.
854
00:37:44,290 --> 00:37:45,160
Byron Bowers: Here's the thing.
855
00:37:45,230 --> 00:37:48,790
My, uh, my grandmother don't
believe people should fly.
856
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:50,920
Marc Preston: Like an, an airplane flyer.
857
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:51,500
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
858
00:37:51,570 --> 00:37:52,140
Marc Preston: Okay.
859
00:37:52,140 --> 00:37:58,220
Byron Bowers: So this is way, and that's
way more successful than what I do.
860
00:37:58,650 --> 00:38:02,280
So I can imagine she's just
like, you know, Oh, okay.
861
00:38:03,230 --> 00:38:06,875
You know, When they, when they be
like, how, how was your little gig?
862
00:38:07,035 --> 00:38:12,075
Then that just let me know like, okay,
but she's definitely happy that it
863
00:38:12,575 --> 00:38:14,095
I think it took me around the world.
864
00:38:14,095 --> 00:38:17,215
I think it's something shocking
to people when something like
865
00:38:18,035 --> 00:38:20,015
this like starts to pan out.
866
00:38:20,505 --> 00:38:21,755
And it takes you everywhere.
867
00:38:21,835 --> 00:38:25,065
Marc Preston: You know, having kids,
I'm like, I just want them to find joy.
868
00:38:25,075 --> 00:38:27,855
You know, I don't, I think a lot of
parents want to have, like, their kid
869
00:38:27,865 --> 00:38:31,715
have a fancy title on the business card
or have like, um, you know, okay, you're,
870
00:38:31,715 --> 00:38:34,495
you're with somebody who's Jewish,
you know, Oh, the Jewish attorney, the
871
00:38:34,535 --> 00:38:36,425
doctor, you know, that kind of thing.
872
00:38:36,455 --> 00:38:39,655
I just like, Hey, find joy in the
world, find contentment in the thing
873
00:38:39,655 --> 00:38:43,215
you do, you know, can feel like you're
contributing something like that.
874
00:38:43,215 --> 00:38:44,065
Pay it forward thing.
875
00:38:44,335 --> 00:38:45,285
That's what I want for them.
876
00:38:45,285 --> 00:38:47,185
And it could manifest
in many different ways.
877
00:38:47,635 --> 00:38:50,015
Byron Bowers: If I, hopefully
my kid, my daughter would like.
878
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,090
Yeah, I could do whatever
she wants to, and she won't
879
00:38:53,100 --> 00:38:55,730
have to worry about finances.
880
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:56,620
You know what I mean?
881
00:38:56,860 --> 00:39:02,520
Um, but you know, as of now,
she got to worry about it.
882
00:39:03,480 --> 00:39:03,840
Marc Preston (2): Wait, wait.
883
00:39:04,190 --> 00:39:05,130
So how old is your daughter?
884
00:39:05,780 --> 00:39:06,950
16 months.
885
00:39:07,130 --> 00:39:08,240
Oh, you got a little one.
886
00:39:08,240 --> 00:39:08,700
Okay.
887
00:39:08,700 --> 00:39:09,020
Okay.
888
00:39:09,030 --> 00:39:09,230
I got,
889
00:39:09,380 --> 00:39:10,710
Byron Bowers: I got a
tiny, I got a tiny one.
890
00:39:10,710 --> 00:39:14,050
So it's something about that.
891
00:39:14,270 --> 00:39:17,590
They're smiling and that first
little naivete they have.
892
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:22,880
Um, which is very like, I don't know, man.
893
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:27,030
It's something about it that, you know,
that they're going to lose that one day.
894
00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:28,870
Marc Preston: You know, I'd heard
somebody say once that there's
895
00:39:28,870 --> 00:39:32,020
something, and I, I, I believe this, I
think there's something kind of cool.
896
00:39:32,020 --> 00:39:36,890
They're closer to the, I don't care what
faith or spirituality, but they're closer
897
00:39:36,890 --> 00:39:38,600
to the source or whatever it's all about.
898
00:39:38,600 --> 00:39:41,890
They're like right out of the
gate, right out of the gate.
899
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:45,130
You look at kids sometimes and you
just like, how did they know that?
900
00:39:45,130 --> 00:39:45,910
How did the, you know, there's.
901
00:39:46,780 --> 00:39:50,390
You know, they just, they're sponges,
but at the same time, there's stuff
902
00:39:50,390 --> 00:39:53,270
I think we learned from them, just
observing, you know, the way they
903
00:39:53,270 --> 00:39:55,800
play, you know, uh, that kind of thing.
904
00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:01,705
But, Elmike and My Good Minor, 21, I don't
know if I could go back and do it all over
905
00:40:01,705 --> 00:40:05,515
again, have a diaper genie and be crazy
going through the whole routine again.
906
00:40:05,925 --> 00:40:09,135
But I have a four month old golden
retriever puppies or your third golden.
907
00:40:09,135 --> 00:40:11,975
And so I'm like, it's almost like
having a toddler all over again.
908
00:40:12,455 --> 00:40:12,735
Marc Preston (2): But,
909
00:40:13,345 --> 00:40:15,285
Marc Preston: but that's the closest,
but cause I'm an empty nester.
910
00:40:15,285 --> 00:40:18,655
Now my daughter last Saturday just went
off to Florida to go to go to school.
911
00:40:18,665 --> 00:40:20,605
So I'm like, it's all just me now.
912
00:40:20,615 --> 00:40:24,385
Well, it's me and you, you know,
that's hilarious, but it's special.
913
00:40:24,385 --> 00:40:26,165
I think that, uh, you said to the
914
00:40:26,165 --> 00:40:26,465
Marc Preston (2): floor.
915
00:40:27,635 --> 00:40:27,845
Marc Preston: Yeah.
916
00:40:27,845 --> 00:40:30,045
She, she has, she's, she's in Boca Raton.
917
00:40:30,045 --> 00:40:30,255
Yeah.
918
00:40:30,255 --> 00:40:32,675
She really wanted to go down
there and she, she's a smart kid.
919
00:40:32,685 --> 00:40:35,625
All my kids are, you know, they
all get A's they're on Dean's list.
920
00:40:35,635 --> 00:40:38,055
They're all, they're way
smarter than me, you know?
921
00:40:38,115 --> 00:40:38,465
Yeah.
922
00:40:38,825 --> 00:40:41,585
Oh, she's no, no, she's not going to
university of Florida, you know, nothing
923
00:40:41,585 --> 00:40:44,705
against the university of Florida, but
she's, she's going to a school that, uh,
924
00:40:45,105 --> 00:40:46,855
uh, it's a very small private university.
925
00:40:46,855 --> 00:40:50,685
So she's, she's got master
plans, you know, that's good.
926
00:40:50,970 --> 00:40:54,210
Uh, but she's, I think she'd do wonderful
in public relations and things like that.
927
00:40:54,210 --> 00:40:57,190
Cause she, she's shy, but she,
people used to come up to me
928
00:40:57,190 --> 00:40:58,700
like, your daughter is so shy.
929
00:40:58,710 --> 00:41:01,480
You know, I was like, no, no,
she's studying you right now.
930
00:41:01,500 --> 00:41:04,570
You know, she's like, you know, observing
and kind of putting it all together.
931
00:41:04,860 --> 00:41:07,110
But you said when you were young,
you just weren't very talkative.
932
00:41:07,110 --> 00:41:09,010
Were you kind of more of an introvert or?
933
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,290
Byron Bowers: I mean,
I'm still an introvert.
934
00:41:10,340 --> 00:41:11,230
I'm still an introvert.
935
00:41:11,380 --> 00:41:13,710
I could go like days
without talking to people.
936
00:41:14,660 --> 00:41:15,040
Marc Preston: Isn't that wonderful?
937
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:16,710
Isn't that wonderful sometimes though?
938
00:41:16,710 --> 00:41:19,170
It's like, you just, you know, have, it's.
939
00:41:19,630 --> 00:41:20,510
Kind of peaceful,
940
00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:23,840
Byron Bowers: especially the
older, the older you get, the
941
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:25,670
crazy the world looks to you.
942
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,930
Um, cause you see your people,
you know, make certain decisions.
943
00:41:30,860 --> 00:41:36,660
Uh, and you know, I might've started as,
as the, I might've started as a crazy one.
944
00:41:37,410 --> 00:41:42,150
And maybe I am still the crazy one,
but I'm like, you know, yeah, it just,
945
00:41:42,180 --> 00:41:44,020
it just becomes, it just becomes wow.
946
00:41:44,780 --> 00:41:45,000
Marc Preston: Yeah.
947
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:48,190
I'm definitely not a psychologist, but
I think part of it is we start off like.
948
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:49,900
I don't know.
949
00:41:49,940 --> 00:41:50,370
It's crazy.
950
00:41:50,370 --> 00:41:54,190
I don't like to use the word crazy
sometimes because I think what it is is
951
00:41:54,190 --> 00:42:00,070
a lot of us, a lot of people have a much
more refined perception of the world.
952
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:04,080
And until you start learning how to deal
with the world, the stress of it causes.
953
00:42:04,660 --> 00:42:05,680
Byron Bowers: That's what it is.
954
00:42:06,450 --> 00:42:07,100
That's what it is.
955
00:42:07,100 --> 00:42:08,190
People tuck it in.
956
00:42:09,780 --> 00:42:10,710
People tuck it in.
957
00:42:10,760 --> 00:42:15,350
They know they got other stuff they could
be doing, but they caught up into the,
958
00:42:15,390 --> 00:42:17,480
whatever society is telling them to do.
959
00:42:18,195 --> 00:42:20,805
Marc Preston: Yeah, it's like kids have
got a lot of stuff going on at home,
960
00:42:20,805 --> 00:42:24,945
then they go to school with some other
kids who don't have a lot, the same kind
961
00:42:24,945 --> 00:42:26,535
of a lot going on at home, you know?
962
00:42:27,355 --> 00:42:30,605
And then it's like, it's harder to,
it's like, wait a minute, I'm coming
963
00:42:30,605 --> 00:42:35,465
home into a very, like sometimes a
war zone, sometimes a hardcore drama,
964
00:42:35,465 --> 00:42:39,175
whatever it is, then I'm off to school,
which can be its own, like, you know.
965
00:42:40,275 --> 00:42:43,285
especially junior high, puberty,
adolescence and all that stuff.
966
00:42:43,285 --> 00:42:47,365
It's like it, you know, there is an actor,
acting coach I know of, he has, he, he
967
00:42:47,365 --> 00:42:51,335
has a acting a book on acting and I know
I'm going to mess up the title of it.
968
00:42:51,425 --> 00:42:55,545
He said, it's, um, he said, if, if you
made it through seventh grade, you can
969
00:42:55,555 --> 00:42:57,525
be an actor or something like that.
970
00:42:57,525 --> 00:43:01,965
You know, it's that idea that, uh,
you know, it's that disconnect.
971
00:43:01,965 --> 00:43:05,935
Like seemingly you go to schools or you
have a social situation going on where
972
00:43:05,935 --> 00:43:09,790
you're like, Do these people not have to
contend with the same thing I do at home?
973
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:13,080
You know, I know a lot of folks like
that, but, and then you go to class
974
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,770
reunions and later on you realize, Oh,
they were dealing with their own shit.
975
00:43:15,820 --> 00:43:20,430
You know, they were better at kind of,
you know, the theater of it as it were.
976
00:43:20,430 --> 00:43:20,970
Masking
977
00:43:20,970 --> 00:43:21,130
Byron Bowers: it.
978
00:43:21,130 --> 00:43:21,570
Yeah.
979
00:43:21,650 --> 00:43:25,950
And, uh, I, yeah, it's just, I remember
being on the bus with this guy.
980
00:43:26,030 --> 00:43:27,010
I ain't gonna say his name.
981
00:43:27,660 --> 00:43:32,530
Uh, we was in junior high school
and he was sick and you know, buses
982
00:43:32,530 --> 00:43:36,010
like, A school bus will really
teach you about society, right?
983
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,960
Because you got the cool people want
to sit in one side and you got the
984
00:43:39,960 --> 00:43:44,990
people in the back who think they They
they are the cool ones the ones these
985
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,350
groups want to be the cool ones And
then you got all the rejects, right?
986
00:43:48,610 --> 00:43:51,270
They gotta find a seat when they
get on the bus and i'm one of those
987
00:43:51,270 --> 00:43:56,910
like rejects And I sit next to a
guy And he and he's sick, right?
988
00:43:57,250 --> 00:44:02,605
Like he's like ball up in his
seat and You Uh, you know,
989
00:44:02,605 --> 00:44:03,625
I'm asking him, he all right.
990
00:44:03,625 --> 00:44:08,185
He was like, yeah, his locker
got raided by the police and
991
00:44:08,185 --> 00:44:10,945
he had to swallow the drugs.
992
00:44:11,095 --> 00:44:11,695
Marc Preston: Oh my.
993
00:44:12,805 --> 00:44:18,235
Byron Bowers: Like, we like 15
years old and, and I'm the child
994
00:44:18,235 --> 00:44:20,905
of a, of a drug addict at the time.
995
00:44:22,045 --> 00:44:26,575
And at this moment I'm looking
up and I'm seeing people like
996
00:44:26,575 --> 00:44:28,285
play and all these other things.
997
00:44:29,095 --> 00:44:30,435
These little high school things.
998
00:44:30,435 --> 00:44:35,155
And I'm realizing that that moment
that our realities are different.
999
00:44:35,325 --> 00:44:35,715
Yeah.
00:44:35,715 --> 00:44:37,145
Marc Preston: Isn't that
something, isn't that?
00:44:37,905 --> 00:44:38,395
Yeah.
00:44:38,675 --> 00:44:38,975
Yeah.
00:44:39,045 --> 00:44:40,385
Now every, everything's relative.
00:44:40,425 --> 00:44:43,005
You know, you, you know, somebody may
be going through something that it's
00:44:43,005 --> 00:44:44,645
hitting them hard, but it's not as yeah.
00:44:44,885 --> 00:44:48,025
Life altering is something that
somebody else is going through.
00:44:48,025 --> 00:44:48,405
Yeah.
00:44:48,465 --> 00:44:48,775
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
00:44:48,775 --> 00:44:49,015
Yeah.
00:44:49,015 --> 00:44:49,375
Yeah.
00:44:49,875 --> 00:44:52,955
Cause that we w we was all heading
to back to different environments.
00:44:52,965 --> 00:44:53,265
Right.
00:44:53,265 --> 00:44:53,994
Marc Preston (3): Yeah.
00:44:53,995 --> 00:44:54,345
Yeah.
00:44:55,175 --> 00:44:56,665
Byron Bowers: And that's
the re that's the reality.
00:44:56,725 --> 00:44:57,575
That's the reality of it.
00:44:59,285 --> 00:45:00,385
So, yeah, man.
00:45:00,725 --> 00:45:01,365
Yeah, you're right.
00:45:01,375 --> 00:45:04,245
Those times are very, very challenging.
00:45:04,725 --> 00:45:08,785
And to go through that again
in Hollywood is the pattern.
00:45:08,895 --> 00:45:12,400
Marc Preston: To me, Hollywood seems like
it's like, Like a really really really big
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:14,440
high school, you know, sometimes it is.
00:45:14,850 --> 00:45:20,240
Yeah, you know, I think especially when
I speak to young actors and I you know,
00:45:20,240 --> 00:45:24,120
i'm It just seems like especially with
the advent now, which thank god I didn't
00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:28,660
have social media when I was a kid I can't
even imagine that layer of uh Stress.
00:45:28,660 --> 00:45:31,410
Like my kids, like my daughter,
Emma, she just does not want
00:45:31,410 --> 00:45:32,460
me taking pictures of her.
00:45:32,480 --> 00:45:35,720
I'm like, cause she thinks I'm going to
post them and then I never do, you know?
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:36,460
Yeah.
00:45:36,460 --> 00:45:38,940
But it's like, but they don't
want anything to do with social
00:45:38,940 --> 00:45:39,850
media and have their pictures.
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:41,650
Like it's just not, that
does not get them going.
00:45:41,710 --> 00:45:44,340
Where's other kids they went to
school with and there's nothing wrong
00:45:44,340 --> 00:45:47,800
with it, but it's almost like kids
in school now are running their own
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:49,970
public relations agency for themselves.
00:45:49,970 --> 00:45:51,740
Like, here's what I want
people to think about me.
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:52,230
You know,
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:52,820
Byron Bowers: agree.
00:45:52,890 --> 00:45:57,345
I think it could be a little
something wrong with it because I
00:45:57,345 --> 00:46:00,425
mean, and kudos to you that your
Children don't want to do that.
00:46:01,025 --> 00:46:04,755
So it just shows a level
of confidence sometimes.
00:46:04,755 --> 00:46:10,615
And they might value your opinion
over the opinion of some dude in Iowa.
00:46:10,905 --> 00:46:12,895
Marc Preston: That's why I don't
even get on Twitter X or whatever.
00:46:12,895 --> 00:46:20,305
And, you know, for me, I just don't
see, uh, uh, Any value in arguing, you
00:46:20,305 --> 00:46:23,635
know, it's like you got enough acrimony
and life in general is like man I want
00:46:23,685 --> 00:46:26,895
peace, you know, I don't want to invite
this person into my world, you know
00:46:27,995 --> 00:46:30,325
But some people get into that they
thrive and I think you know, like one
00:46:30,325 --> 00:46:34,500
of my favorite Current comedians is
Patton Oswalt Who I think, you know,
00:46:34,500 --> 00:46:35,690
he's very active and need to talk.
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:37,990
And anybody brings some of
that into his show, I think.
00:46:37,990 --> 00:46:41,010
But, uh, uh, but I'm kind of curious
to talk about the comedy thing.
00:46:41,010 --> 00:46:43,380
Just decide now, like who
are you watching right now?
00:46:43,380 --> 00:46:46,000
Like who are the people like that
kind of fire up your imagination?
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:49,580
Maybe make you want to get back
on stage and work some things out.
00:46:50,270 --> 00:46:54,340
Byron Bowers: I don't see too,
too many comedians myself.
00:46:54,340 --> 00:46:58,230
Cause I think once you find your voice,
you don't have to observe it too much.
00:46:59,300 --> 00:47:03,910
And when you're in a relationship, , you
don't really need to do it too much
00:47:03,970 --> 00:47:05,230
if you're in a loving relationship.
00:47:05,260 --> 00:47:05,410
Oh,
00:47:05,410 --> 00:47:05,755
Marc Preston: yeah, yeah.
00:47:05,950 --> 00:47:08,080
Well, no, I mean, more like what,
what gets a laugh out of you?
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,030
Like who are you going, like,
this person cracks me up.
00:47:10,030 --> 00:47:12,280
I, I, I, from entertainment's sake.
00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:12,640
Yeah.
00:47:12,730 --> 00:47:16,600
Byron Bowers: Who I, who I see
that I like is, uh, this guy Ali
00:47:17,140 --> 00:47:18,580
D, who's a great storyteller.
00:47:19,630 --> 00:47:23,620
He's a great, amazing storyteller, and
he paints the pictures well, and he
00:47:23,620 --> 00:47:27,370
takes you on that, on that journey,
which I think a good story does, right?
00:47:27,550 --> 00:47:27,880
Marc Preston: Indeed.
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:27,940
Yeah.
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:28,660
Byron Bowers: Um.
00:47:29,100 --> 00:47:33,610
Yeah, so, um, that's
somebody who I like watching.
00:47:33,610 --> 00:47:40,710
And then also, uh, you know, live is
probably somebody that, uh, I don't
00:47:40,710 --> 00:47:43,410
know the name, but if I'm in the
club and they go on before me, it'd
00:47:43,410 --> 00:47:48,240
be like the worst joke you ever want
to hear that you wouldn't repeat.
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:54,655
You know, I still like those, uh, I
still like those, uh, water cooler.
00:47:54,745 --> 00:47:56,765
Uh, water fountain humor jokes.
00:47:57,025 --> 00:47:58,655
Marc Preston: Oh, yeah, I do.
00:47:58,685 --> 00:47:59,415
I do as well.
00:47:59,415 --> 00:47:59,865
I do as well.
00:47:59,865 --> 00:48:04,525
You know, the other thing is people
that can tell a story that is Awkward.
00:48:04,525 --> 00:48:06,025
You know, it just makes him feel awkward.
00:48:06,085 --> 00:48:09,595
Uh, or, or you, you would think it would,
but everybody, I think you mentioned
00:48:09,595 --> 00:48:13,645
it even ear even earlier, uh, that
everybody can kind of identify with it.
00:48:13,645 --> 00:48:17,965
I think I had a Dane Cook on a little
while back and, you know, here's this
00:48:17,965 --> 00:48:20,965
guy working like this big stadium,
you know, and I can't even imagine
00:48:20,965 --> 00:48:24,055
his comedian being in the round and
having a, just you and a microphone and
00:48:24,355 --> 00:48:26,485
all these people looking at you, but.
00:48:26,830 --> 00:48:30,360
It seems like the more you put out there,
it, it kind of, the more it connects
00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:34,210
with people and it kind of like, it
could be not necessarily overtly funny,
00:48:34,210 --> 00:48:35,530
but it's something we all identify with.
00:48:35,550 --> 00:48:37,140
And that is kind of funny, you know?
00:48:37,150 --> 00:48:37,550
Yeah.
00:48:37,630 --> 00:48:38,330
Byron Bowers: Agreed.
00:48:38,950 --> 00:48:39,390
Agreed.
00:48:39,390 --> 00:48:43,110
It's a way, you know, and I'm doing
that now as I regroup and rebuild,
00:48:43,710 --> 00:48:46,500
you know, now that I got a family,
it's like, what do I want to talk?
00:48:46,510 --> 00:48:48,900
Can I talk about the same
things I could talk about?
00:48:49,530 --> 00:48:51,610
You know, am I the same person?
00:48:51,620 --> 00:48:56,030
Like as, as I figure these, you
know, These, these things out,
00:48:56,060 --> 00:48:59,710
you know, uh, is a part of the
journey cause I know everybody else
00:48:59,710 --> 00:49:01,730
is going through the same thing.
00:49:02,870 --> 00:49:03,090
Marc Preston: Yeah.
00:49:03,090 --> 00:49:07,470
I, uh, you know, that's, that's a kind of
the humor I like that and the word Smiths.
00:49:07,500 --> 00:49:10,760
That's why I like, I like, uh, Patton
Oswalt to me is kind of a word Smith.
00:49:10,770 --> 00:49:13,350
He can work that Karlin was that.
00:49:13,350 --> 00:49:14,460
I mean, I would.
00:49:14,905 --> 00:49:18,675
I heard he used to write out, everything
was written out and just his memorization.
00:49:18,735 --> 00:49:22,505
If I, we could get Carlin back right now
for just cause we can just get him for
00:49:22,505 --> 00:49:26,935
like a few months just to, I mean if you
watch his stuff from the nineties even
00:49:26,935 --> 00:49:31,285
earlier and where we're living at now,
it's like, okay, he knew something or he
00:49:32,675 --> 00:49:34,185
had, he had a little crystal ball there.
00:49:34,205 --> 00:49:34,685
You know, I
00:49:34,695 --> 00:49:35,515
Byron Bowers: think you can see it.
00:49:35,575 --> 00:49:39,295
I think you can see the patterns and
where we're, where we're heading cause
00:49:39,295 --> 00:49:40,795
we've been, we've been here before.
00:49:40,810 --> 00:49:41,970
Oh yeah.
00:49:42,010 --> 00:49:46,540
Uh, and society, you know, different
societies before us have been here before.
00:49:46,540 --> 00:49:49,950
So it's crazy how we end up here.
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:52,480
And somebody was like, you know,
I was talking to a young person.
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:56,060
They was like, if we end
up here, they was afraid.
00:49:56,070 --> 00:49:57,770
They was like, what can we do to stop it?
00:49:57,770 --> 00:50:00,930
I'm like, spiritually, it's
just part of the human cycle.
00:50:01,140 --> 00:50:02,500
Marc Preston: You're in it for the ride.
00:50:02,500 --> 00:50:04,590
It's like surfing, you know,
you might fall off the board
00:50:04,590 --> 00:50:05,700
and be you're, you're in it.
00:50:05,700 --> 00:50:08,915
Just kind of go through it and
just go, you know, Enjoy it.
00:50:09,215 --> 00:50:09,515
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
00:50:10,125 --> 00:50:10,785
Enjoy it.
00:50:10,875 --> 00:50:13,635
They said the world is messed
up, but this is our world.
00:50:14,365 --> 00:50:15,885
It don't matter what's
going on in the world.
00:50:15,895 --> 00:50:21,435
This is, this is our time as spiritual
beings on this planet to enjoy it.
00:50:21,695 --> 00:50:26,125
Because if you like 20 and 30, you
still got to deal with arthritis
00:50:26,125 --> 00:50:28,675
and shit in like 20 years.
00:50:30,190 --> 00:50:30,310
Oh
00:50:30,630 --> 00:50:31,080
Marc Preston: yeah.
00:50:31,230 --> 00:50:32,620
Or needing reading glasses.
00:50:32,620 --> 00:50:32,930
Oh yeah.
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:34,080
My eyes comment.
00:50:34,130 --> 00:50:34,830
My eyes comment.
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:37,410
So yeah, I was like, I made
it just a little past four.
00:50:37,410 --> 00:50:40,230
Everybody says when you return 40, I'm
like, ah, I still got amazing vision.
00:50:40,240 --> 00:50:41,800
Then I was like starting like squinting.
00:50:41,810 --> 00:50:42,680
I was like, all right, here we go.
00:50:43,140 --> 00:50:44,630
Um, but no, you've got it by the way.
00:50:44,630 --> 00:50:45,130
Heard something.
00:50:45,130 --> 00:50:48,920
Aren't you doing like not wonder
woman, but wonder, wonder man.
00:50:49,775 --> 00:50:53,835
Uh, like, okay, I doubt you can say
that much about it, but I kind of, I
00:50:53,835 --> 00:50:56,975
kind of took a look and saw that Ben
Kingsley is going to be doing this thing.
00:50:57,435 --> 00:50:58,335
I saw that.
00:50:58,395 --> 00:51:03,895
Byron Bowers: I saw that, you know,
I can't confirm and deny, but I
00:51:03,935 --> 00:51:06,095
read the same thing you've read.
00:51:06,375 --> 00:51:07,875
So stay, stay tuned.
00:51:08,095 --> 00:51:08,814
Stay tuned.
00:51:08,815 --> 00:51:09,245
You know,
00:51:09,345 --> 00:51:10,765
Marc Preston: are you still
doing the comedy thing?
00:51:10,765 --> 00:51:13,445
Are you still, are you, are you kind of
focusing just on the on camera thing?
00:51:13,585 --> 00:51:13,905
I was
00:51:13,905 --> 00:51:14,535
Byron Bowers: on stage.
00:51:14,615 --> 00:51:20,535
I was on stage the, uh, the other night
talking about the, The, uh, I guess
00:51:20,535 --> 00:51:23,485
I can't say what I was talking about,
but cause it's better for a live show,
00:51:23,485 --> 00:51:28,145
but you know, I took my, uh, we took
our daughter to Israel in November,
00:51:28,875 --> 00:51:33,615
so she's talking about, yeah, her
first, her first little war, you know,
00:51:33,615 --> 00:51:36,395
my baby's first war, you know, uh,
00:51:38,405 --> 00:51:41,325
Marc Preston: again, some of that
stuff, that's like the absurdity of it.
00:51:41,495 --> 00:51:41,805
You got
00:51:41,845 --> 00:51:43,645
Byron Bowers: to laugh
cause it's people there.
00:51:44,065 --> 00:51:44,705
It's people.
00:51:44,715 --> 00:51:45,975
We know they're raising.
00:51:46,005 --> 00:51:46,265
Well,
00:51:46,355 --> 00:51:48,575
Marc Preston: let me tell you that
knowing the people who live in Israel,
00:51:48,575 --> 00:51:50,435
they have to find that sense of humor.
00:51:50,465 --> 00:51:51,285
A lot of times.
00:51:58,695 --> 00:52:03,305
Before we get scooting, uh, I always do
my seven questions as we wrap up here.
00:52:03,345 --> 00:52:04,205
Just a little fun.
00:52:04,775 --> 00:52:05,335
First question.
00:52:05,335 --> 00:52:07,065
I always love asking, love talking food.
00:52:07,155 --> 00:52:09,575
Uh, I talked about the varsity
earlier and chili dogs.
00:52:10,415 --> 00:52:12,885
I'm curious, what is your
favorite comfort food?
00:52:12,895 --> 00:52:14,695
The thing that You are having a great day.
00:52:14,695 --> 00:52:15,865
You're like, Hmm, I'm
gonna get some of that.
00:52:15,865 --> 00:52:18,955
Or the day sucks and you're like, I
just, this'll make me feel better.
00:52:19,915 --> 00:52:22,825
Byron Bowers: Hamburgers and
fries, hamburgers and french fries,
00:52:22,885 --> 00:52:26,185
Marc Preston: homemade or are you more, is
there somewhere specific you'd like to go?
00:52:26,245 --> 00:52:26,305
Byron Bowers: No.
00:52:26,305 --> 00:52:26,995
Fast food.
00:52:26,995 --> 00:52:30,235
I used to like to go to
this famous restaurant.
00:52:30,235 --> 00:52:34,555
I want to give 'em no credit, but,
uh, no, I can say it was McDonald's.
00:52:34,555 --> 00:52:39,685
I used to go to McDonald's a lot and
then, uh, you know, my girl is really,
00:52:39,685 --> 00:52:41,215
so, I mean, a lot of that cuts out.
00:52:41,275 --> 00:52:42,664
Well,
00:52:42,665 --> 00:52:44,875
Marc Preston: there's, you got in
and out that, you know, there, by the
00:52:44,875 --> 00:52:48,175
way, if you're ever in Texas, come on
down and get us down here on the set.
00:52:48,435 --> 00:52:49,015
Oh yes.
00:52:49,025 --> 00:52:49,545
What a burger.
00:52:49,545 --> 00:52:49,725
Yeah.
00:52:49,755 --> 00:52:50,115
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
00:52:50,145 --> 00:52:51,185
What a burger, man.
00:52:51,185 --> 00:52:54,815
That's that, uh, what's the one
with the, the, uh, the patty
00:52:54,815 --> 00:52:56,465
milk with the sourdough bread.
00:52:57,015 --> 00:52:57,555
Marc Preston (2): Oh yeah.
00:52:57,555 --> 00:52:58,464
The text.
00:52:58,465 --> 00:52:58,615
Yeah.
00:52:58,615 --> 00:52:58,895
You just
00:52:58,895 --> 00:53:03,285
Byron Bowers: eat it in your underwear,
you know, uh, what a burger, you know?
00:53:03,575 --> 00:53:04,745
So I definitely like that.
00:53:04,765 --> 00:53:06,585
I can't have as much anymore.
00:53:06,585 --> 00:53:10,915
So now, you know, when I go
somewhere, it has to be very like.
00:53:11,665 --> 00:53:12,235
Special.
00:53:12,255 --> 00:53:15,345
Like I'm now I'm going to
spend like 20 for a hamburger.
00:53:16,165 --> 00:53:16,525
Yeah.
00:53:16,525 --> 00:53:17,665
I'm not supposed to eat them no more.
00:53:17,685 --> 00:53:19,365
It gotta, it gotta be good.
00:53:19,685 --> 00:53:21,685
Marc Preston: I don't believe certain
things are ever designed to be fancy.
00:53:21,995 --> 00:53:25,165
Uh, pizza, burgers, tacos.
00:53:25,185 --> 00:53:28,635
It's, there's something about like
utility, you know, uh, like I do like
00:53:28,705 --> 00:53:32,115
in and out burger, uh, whenever we're
in California, we're always there,
00:53:32,115 --> 00:53:34,935
but now we live on an Island on the
South Texas coast here and we've
00:53:34,935 --> 00:53:36,255
got one water burger on the Island.
00:53:36,645 --> 00:53:37,545
South Padre.
00:53:38,185 --> 00:53:39,475
Yes, sir, that's where I'm at.
00:53:39,695 --> 00:53:42,085
Byron Bowers: I've been
there crazy story, but yeah,
00:53:42,145 --> 00:53:45,365
Marc Preston: but so hamburger fries at
your comfort food That's that's righteous
00:53:45,685 --> 00:53:50,685
now next question If you're gonna sit
down with some for coffee talk story for
00:53:50,685 --> 00:53:55,305
a few hours You got three people you can
sit down living or not Who are those three
00:53:55,305 --> 00:53:56,935
people be you would like to sit down with
00:53:57,345 --> 00:54:00,245
Byron Bowers: Wow Wow, that's
00:54:03,335 --> 00:54:09,605
I never thought about that I think,
uh, one would be, uh, John Rockefeller.
00:54:11,145 --> 00:54:15,605
Um, the second would be, uh,
00:54:17,785 --> 00:54:21,495
probably, uh, maybe Pryor.
00:54:24,165 --> 00:54:26,945
And the third, I think I
would do my grandfather.
00:54:27,010 --> 00:54:31,050
Marc Preston: One thing if I was
younger, I wish I had the presence
00:54:31,050 --> 00:54:36,130
of mind to know, to ask a lot of
questions, you know, to really digest
00:54:36,130 --> 00:54:38,130
even more, you know, but that's good.
00:54:38,130 --> 00:54:38,540
That's good.
00:54:38,780 --> 00:54:40,910
And so, uh, are you a coffee guy?
00:54:41,460 --> 00:54:46,845
Byron Bowers: No, we would have to do,
uh, uh, Like lemonade or something.
00:54:47,045 --> 00:54:48,155
Another great drink.
00:54:49,375 --> 00:54:51,035
Marc Preston: If you're from the
South, it's just what you do.
00:54:51,115 --> 00:54:54,125
You know, but the other thing is
I never got into the sweet tea.
00:54:54,125 --> 00:54:54,815
I like regular tea.
00:54:54,815 --> 00:54:55,545
I never, I don't know.
00:54:55,965 --> 00:54:56,385
I'm a weirdo.
00:54:57,165 --> 00:54:58,755
It's good, but I don't,
I don't, I like it.
00:54:58,755 --> 00:55:00,485
Just, I like just the flavor of the tea.
00:55:00,505 --> 00:55:02,245
Not too little like lemon though.
00:55:02,325 --> 00:55:05,295
I'm down with a lemon, but not a lot
of sugar, but well, having lived in new
00:55:05,295 --> 00:55:09,175
Orleans for a number of years, they go
crazy on the sugar and I don't like it.
00:55:09,185 --> 00:55:09,375
That's
00:55:10,785 --> 00:55:11,855
Byron Bowers: Yes, yes,
00:55:12,245 --> 00:55:12,765
Marc Preston: I love it.
00:55:13,115 --> 00:55:15,635
The next question I got for you
going back to when you're a kid,
00:55:15,635 --> 00:55:18,065
who was your first celebrity crush?
00:55:18,425 --> 00:55:19,455
Byron Bowers: That's crazy.
00:55:19,505 --> 00:55:23,485
Um, I want to say big time was Neil Long.
00:55:24,225 --> 00:55:24,555
Marc Preston: Uh huh.
00:55:24,575 --> 00:55:25,065
Okay.
00:55:25,535 --> 00:55:29,285
Byron Bowers: Was somebody I really
remember like, Oh man, she's like bad.
00:55:29,305 --> 00:55:30,205
She's beautiful.
00:55:31,485 --> 00:55:34,485
Uh, and it was this chick in this movie.
00:55:35,865 --> 00:55:39,725
I remember, and that was probably
more lust was like weird science.
00:55:40,150 --> 00:55:42,070
Marc Preston: Oh, I was a Kelly LeBrock.
00:55:42,130 --> 00:55:43,180
Byron Bowers: I don't remember the name.
00:55:43,190 --> 00:55:43,550
Yeah.
00:55:43,560 --> 00:55:48,080
It was just a look for then, you know,
cause he was stacked, you know, but
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:51,640
then as far as like a crush, like,
Ooh, I could marry somebody like
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,170
this is like near long, you know,
00:55:54,270 --> 00:55:54,760
Marc Preston: near long.
00:55:54,760 --> 00:55:59,010
Well, she was, when she had a lot of
the nineties, like teen teen type stuff.
00:55:59,010 --> 00:55:59,290
Yeah.
00:55:59,290 --> 00:56:01,310
Byron Bowers: It was very important
because then, you know, in the
00:56:01,310 --> 00:56:05,490
nineties for, for, and I watched
a lot of black TV, cause I didn't,
00:56:05,530 --> 00:56:06,750
that's what I knew, you know?
00:56:07,330 --> 00:56:13,315
Um, I think, uh, A lot of the women
look like ordinary cute girls.
00:56:14,125 --> 00:56:17,115
It wasn't like, oh, this is the
highest chick out of our league.
00:56:17,135 --> 00:56:19,505
It's like, no, I go to
school with that girl.
00:56:20,025 --> 00:56:23,865
You know, so I was always over
this chick that Prince used to play
00:56:23,865 --> 00:56:25,395
with I think vanity or something.
00:56:25,485 --> 00:56:26,405
Marc Preston: Oh vanity.
00:56:26,915 --> 00:56:27,505
Yeah Yeah, but that's
00:56:27,505 --> 00:56:29,925
Byron Bowers: more on the less that's
more on the left side right there.
00:56:29,935 --> 00:56:30,325
You know,
00:56:30,365 --> 00:56:32,485
Marc Preston: that was an era
You know, I feel fortunate.
00:56:32,485 --> 00:56:33,135
I grew up.
00:56:33,525 --> 00:56:38,275
I grew up in the 80s, but Was in
my 20s like in the 90s, you know,
00:56:38,535 --> 00:56:43,445
Byron Bowers: my mom was my mom was
20 Like early 20s when she had me
00:56:43,945 --> 00:56:46,475
so to me that was the music right?
00:56:47,050 --> 00:56:50,570
I remember being three and watching the
thriller video or something like that
00:56:51,220 --> 00:56:57,645
And that was a that was my favorite thing
scene was the thriller video so Yeah,
00:56:57,775 --> 00:57:00,755
Marc Preston: there's a whole like
documentary I think on that album how
00:57:00,755 --> 00:57:05,985
thriller changed the landscape and
that album came out You know, the next
00:57:05,985 --> 00:57:09,805
question I got for you is if you already
let's say you're gonna be on an island
00:57:09,815 --> 00:57:12,265
for a year It's like a resort somewhere.
00:57:12,265 --> 00:57:16,345
You want to be it's it's it's gonna be a
nice place, but you don't have internet So
00:57:16,345 --> 00:57:19,465
if you want to watch a movie you're gonna
have to bring a DVD and if you want to
00:57:19,695 --> 00:57:21,775
listen to music You got to bring an album.
00:57:21,865 --> 00:57:25,395
What would that DVD an album
be for you for that full year?
00:57:25,395 --> 00:57:28,965
You Something you could watch
and listen to, uh, over and over.
00:57:29,235 --> 00:57:29,725
Byron Bowers: Wow.
00:57:29,725 --> 00:57:31,755
That's, that's, uh, oof.
00:57:31,755 --> 00:57:44,155
Um, I want to say probably Midnight
Marauders by Tribe Called Quest was
00:57:44,155 --> 00:57:46,095
like a blend of jazz and hip hop.
00:57:46,985 --> 00:57:50,765
They really hit it on the, on the
head to where it just sounds good.
00:57:50,765 --> 00:57:52,074
And I would have to listen to it.
00:57:52,515 --> 00:57:54,305
On the 90s sony walkman.
00:57:54,485 --> 00:57:57,135
Yeah Because that's when I
heard it for the first time
00:57:57,185 --> 00:57:59,085
Marc Preston: a little
foamy like earphone things.
00:57:59,095 --> 00:58:03,375
Byron Bowers: Yeah, um, and I was
sleep to that album You know that
00:58:03,385 --> 00:58:04,495
in the martin lawrence album.
00:58:04,495 --> 00:58:12,495
I was sleep to sleep to and then um
Movie man, I don't I still think the
00:58:12,495 --> 00:58:18,595
matrix was one of the one of the best
Movies to me because of what it meant
00:58:19,655 --> 00:58:27,370
Uh spiritually, yeah So I think about
it now if it power goes out and we
00:58:27,370 --> 00:58:30,940
got so many books, I feel like we got
the internet at our, at our house.
00:58:31,790 --> 00:58:32,820
So yeah.
00:58:32,900 --> 00:58:35,200
Marc Preston: You know, I need to
be more into reading than I am.
00:58:35,270 --> 00:58:36,110
It's just, I get this issue.
00:58:36,110 --> 00:58:38,440
The only time of day I can sit down
and read is going to be in the evening.
00:58:38,440 --> 00:58:39,070
And I do that.
00:58:39,490 --> 00:58:41,990
I always end up waking up with a book
on my chest, you know, cause I always,
00:58:41,990 --> 00:58:43,450
it puts me right to sleep reading.
00:58:43,730 --> 00:58:44,150
So
00:58:44,150 --> 00:58:45,260
Byron Bowers: I don't read.
00:58:45,260 --> 00:58:46,050
I'm a slow reader.
00:58:46,530 --> 00:58:47,560
I'm a slow reader.
00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:49,100
I read one page a day.
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:50,090
If I had to read.
00:58:50,110 --> 00:58:52,039
Yeah.
00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:54,180
Marc Preston: So even if you didn't
have power, you got entertainment.
00:58:54,630 --> 00:58:56,320
I got the last couple of
questions here for you.
00:58:56,350 --> 00:58:59,720
Now, if you were to say from time
you get up to the time you go to
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,820
bed at night, what are the component
parts of a perfect day for you?
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,340
Like it's, you have all
these things happen.
00:59:06,340 --> 00:59:07,770
It's, it's a solid day for you.
00:59:08,180 --> 00:59:11,370
Byron Bowers: I think man, my
baby's sleeping to like seven.
00:59:12,470 --> 00:59:17,170
Um, I get to look at the Marcet,
the stock Marcet open at six 30.
00:59:17,780 --> 00:59:21,260
I get to place a trade on
QQQ and it goes straight up.
00:59:21,860 --> 00:59:25,550
Uh, my girl gets up, she
exercise, she's feeling good.
00:59:25,580 --> 00:59:28,700
Baby's, you know, healthy, feeling good.
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,310
And then I go like crush
her shoulder at night.
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:38,450
Um, everything's, everything is in
sync as far as us dealing with the baby
00:59:38,450 --> 00:59:43,330
and like the, the schedule, you know,
um, that's what it looked like now.
00:59:43,970 --> 00:59:46,560
Uh, having the, having a true good family.
00:59:48,245 --> 00:59:52,665
Um, to me, it probably
transcends a lot of things.
00:59:53,320 --> 00:59:53,620
Marc Preston: Yeah.
00:59:53,620 --> 00:59:57,690
And that age is, you know,
believe me, it goes by fast.
00:59:57,690 --> 01:00:00,950
Just as you swim in it and be, you
know, cause it's gone just like that.
01:00:01,010 --> 01:00:04,250
Byron Bowers: It's people like you
that makes me like, stay, stay home.
01:00:04,400 --> 01:00:07,750
Cause I can't hold her like this
because she was a five weeks
01:00:07,750 --> 01:00:09,760
early and she's outgrown that.
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:12,824
So this isn't even
comfortable to her no more.
01:00:13,295 --> 01:00:14,345
Like to put it asleep.
01:00:14,405 --> 01:00:16,195
Marc Preston: I will say I
had this presence of mine.
01:00:16,195 --> 01:00:19,285
I had three kids and I was a
single dad, three kids in diapers.
01:00:19,395 --> 01:00:22,325
I remember stopping and going, this is
stressful, but I know I'm going to want
01:00:22,325 --> 01:00:24,395
one of these days back 10 years from now.
01:00:24,405 --> 01:00:27,355
I'm going to like, there's something
very special in these got to
01:00:27,365 --> 01:00:28,825
be like that spiritual thing.
01:00:28,975 --> 01:00:32,665
I think Zen of being a parent is just
got to be in that moment with them then.
01:00:33,525 --> 01:00:35,975
And then that's, you've done
your job, you know, that's just,
01:00:36,025 --> 01:00:37,725
that's just my two pesos on that.
01:00:37,845 --> 01:00:38,955
Byron Bowers: I mean, I agree.
01:00:39,730 --> 01:00:40,620
I agree, man.
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:41,620
Life changes.
01:00:41,650 --> 01:00:45,060
Like, I don't remember what I
did before this, but I definitely
01:00:45,100 --> 01:00:47,370
think as long as I do this, I'm on.
01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:48,660
Marc Preston: You slept a lot more.
01:00:49,560 --> 01:00:50,180
Byron Bowers: I did.
01:00:50,290 --> 01:00:55,090
And just a bunch of random, like, you
know, hanging out late, you know, hunting,
01:00:55,540 --> 01:01:02,230
you know, so, but, but now I'm on, I think
I'm on, I'm on track to, I feel like I've
01:01:02,230 --> 01:01:06,550
done what kind of the human thing, right?
01:01:06,550 --> 01:01:15,085
I Uh, and, um, I could live forever if
my, if I, if I raise my daughter, right?
01:01:15,085 --> 01:01:16,385
And she would do the human thing.
01:01:17,135 --> 01:01:19,525
And then my DNA moves forward, you know?
01:01:20,125 --> 01:01:20,955
I'd say, say, you know,
01:01:21,055 --> 01:01:24,275
Marc Preston: kids are, uh, it's a way
to send yourself into a time you will
01:01:24,275 --> 01:01:26,075
never see, you know, that kind of idea.
01:01:26,315 --> 01:01:29,755
Now, if you weren't doing this
for a living, and this wasn't your
01:01:29,755 --> 01:01:33,125
day to day, this wasn't how you
provided for your family, what
01:01:33,125 --> 01:01:34,235
would you be doing for a living?
01:01:34,415 --> 01:01:40,655
Byron Bowers: Panhandling, selling bootleg
CDs, uh, uh, miscellaneous car parts.
01:01:41,905 --> 01:01:45,045
I don't know, there's a various
bunch of nickel and diamond going on.
01:01:45,135 --> 01:01:46,795
Marc Preston: Different
phase of entrepreneurship.
01:01:46,955 --> 01:01:53,390
Byron Bowers: Uh, yeah, I got it right,
because I mean, you know, I'm the guy
01:01:53,390 --> 01:01:58,910
that went to school and said it was,
uh, it was a scam and it was about
01:01:58,910 --> 01:02:01,190
probably about to lose my ways anyway.
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:03,500
Marc Preston: But you landed
in the just right place.
01:02:03,530 --> 01:02:04,020
You know,
01:02:04,120 --> 01:02:06,780
Byron Bowers: I think education
could be a gift or a curse depending
01:02:06,780 --> 01:02:08,510
on where, where you're from.
01:02:08,700 --> 01:02:11,080
Marc Preston: I'm kind of glad
a lot of jobs now are saying
01:02:11,540 --> 01:02:12,990
you don't need a college degree.
01:02:13,825 --> 01:02:15,125
You can do this.
01:02:15,465 --> 01:02:19,245
There's something said about life
experience, which, you know, my kids, uh,
01:02:19,275 --> 01:02:23,265
go to, you know, they're all in private,
private universities and, but I'm like
01:02:23,265 --> 01:02:27,575
hoping my kids find, uh, that thing that,
that, you know, just they love, you know?
01:02:27,645 --> 01:02:27,825
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
01:02:27,825 --> 01:02:30,375
Even if it's not school though, it
could be like, all right, you was,
01:02:30,385 --> 01:02:32,275
you was born where you was born at.
01:02:32,395 --> 01:02:33,445
Marc Preston: I was born in Dallas.
01:02:33,565 --> 01:02:33,795
Byron Bowers: All right.
01:02:33,815 --> 01:02:35,515
So yeah, you were Dallas guy, right.
01:02:35,835 --> 01:02:38,865
But then you add this layer of
education and you find out you're a
01:02:38,865 --> 01:02:41,955
Jewish, uh, person of Jewish descent.
01:02:43,165 --> 01:02:45,645
learning those things change everything.
01:02:45,855 --> 01:02:53,875
The education of learning your history
and where you at now change everything.
01:02:54,645 --> 01:02:58,505
And sometimes that knowledge can
alienate you from certain people.
01:02:59,305 --> 01:03:01,635
Marc Preston: But tell you what, uh,
the last question I got for you now,
01:03:01,635 --> 01:03:05,455
if you got a DeLorean, you can go back
in time, 16 year old, you, you can
01:03:05,455 --> 01:03:06,935
go and hang out for a few minutes.
01:03:07,035 --> 01:03:08,115
Piece of advice.
01:03:08,115 --> 01:03:12,730
Uh, You would like to give 16 year old
you that you feel like would make that
01:03:12,730 --> 01:03:15,830
part of your life better Or maybe put
you on a little bit different track
01:03:16,580 --> 01:03:18,120
What would that piece of advice be?
01:03:18,790 --> 01:03:23,460
Byron Bowers: Man, I don't know
if I would Maybe I would observe
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,290
Yeah, I don't know if I would say anything
01:03:29,880 --> 01:03:31,726
Yeah At this moment.
01:03:31,726 --> 01:03:37,701
I don't know because it all led
me to this place And I also felt
01:03:37,701 --> 01:03:41,230
that That was kind of done already
01:03:43,300 --> 01:03:44,180
in some weird way.
01:03:44,230 --> 01:03:47,750
Like I would have homeless people
tell me stuff and it'll be like, and
01:03:47,750 --> 01:03:50,550
then they would go back to saying
whatever crazy stuff they would say.
01:03:51,780 --> 01:03:55,890
But it was something in that instruction
that led me somewhere forward.
01:03:56,280 --> 01:03:58,780
Marc Preston: Like you said, it'd
be interesting to observe with adult
01:03:58,780 --> 01:04:03,520
eyes, what was going on back then, you
know, you know, uh, you know, like,
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:05,490
Oh, that's how I ended up like this.
01:04:05,530 --> 01:04:05,760
Okay.
01:04:05,840 --> 01:04:07,660
Byron Bowers: I'm definitely
fortunate to have.
01:04:08,005 --> 01:04:14,755
A lot of, uh, you know, instinctive
moments that have led me to where I'm at.
01:04:15,205 --> 01:04:19,585
And I think if I was to say something,
it would take away from that kid,
01:04:19,715 --> 01:04:23,345
listening to his, uh, his own voice.
01:04:23,905 --> 01:04:28,035
And I was fortunate to observe a lot,
being a lot of situations where I was able
01:04:28,035 --> 01:04:30,865
to observe and be like, Oh, don't do this.
01:04:31,235 --> 01:04:33,475
Don't do what they did
or don't do this or that.
01:04:34,145 --> 01:04:35,805
Uh, cause I wasn't.
01:04:36,365 --> 01:04:40,625
I didn't, I wasn't trying to be like
the coolest person in the, in the room.
01:04:40,935 --> 01:04:46,005
Marc Preston: I think as a comedian, it
probably makes you way better at, at doing
01:04:46,005 --> 01:04:50,255
the comedy thing because If you observe
and perceive it, you know, you shoot
01:04:50,255 --> 01:04:51,795
it through your own prism of reality.
01:04:51,795 --> 01:04:54,295
And that's like you said, this
things that are not inherently
01:04:54,295 --> 01:04:58,025
funny, they can be, you know, cause
it's a shared experience, you know?
01:04:58,275 --> 01:04:58,815
Marc Preston (2): Agree.
01:04:58,885 --> 01:05:01,375
Marc Preston: But no, my friend, I
definitely appreciate you sharing
01:05:01,375 --> 01:05:04,305
some time with me and, you know, Hey,
I don't know if you're ever coming
01:05:04,315 --> 01:05:07,355
back down to South Padre Island, but,
uh, you know, guy, I'll get you, I'll
01:05:07,355 --> 01:05:08,565
get you some sweet tea down here.
01:05:08,565 --> 01:05:09,715
If that's, uh, your jam.
01:05:09,725 --> 01:05:12,005
Byron Bowers: Man, I was
fortunate to see that place.
01:05:12,175 --> 01:05:14,005
I was very fortunate to see that place.
01:05:14,515 --> 01:05:17,455
Uh, with a, with a tour guide or
somebody who just bought a house there.
01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:22,900
And, um, he took me to where the
road ended and it was beautiful.
01:05:22,900 --> 01:05:23,680
You know, that road,
01:05:23,960 --> 01:05:26,710
Marc Preston: six miles up to
the north and it not crazy.
01:05:26,710 --> 01:05:28,790
It just, it just stops and
there's a sand dune there.
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:29,190
Byron Bowers: Yeah.
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:32,100
So, I mean, not knowing
that place is there and then
01:05:32,100 --> 01:05:33,330
seeing it for the first time.
01:05:33,730 --> 01:05:38,070
And of course it was the season you
couldn't get in the water, but just
01:05:38,070 --> 01:05:43,890
knowing this thing existed was just,
it was my first time in Texas also.
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:46,690
Um, so yeah, it was very interesting.
01:05:47,140 --> 01:05:47,900
So yeah,
01:05:47,970 --> 01:05:50,150
Marc Preston: it's almost like you're
in the populated part of the island.
01:05:50,150 --> 01:05:50,800
Keep driving north.
01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:52,570
It's like a time machine
You're going back in time.
01:05:52,570 --> 01:05:55,950
This is what it all used to look like,
you know Yeah, it's peaceful though.
01:05:55,970 --> 01:05:58,240
You go up there and there ain't
nothing there You can see all the
01:05:58,240 --> 01:06:02,600
stars in the sky and you know, it's
just it's uh, it's uh, very cool But
01:06:02,600 --> 01:06:03,900
now how long ago was that for you?
01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:08,480
Byron Bowers: That was like,
I think 2008 It was 2008.
01:06:08,490 --> 01:06:14,470
Yeah, it was a it was a road trip Uh, we
ended up in laredo and somebody That's
01:06:14,470 --> 01:06:20,455
claimed it was jesus walked in our hotel
room Uh, yeah, you said somebody what?
01:06:20,455 --> 01:06:20,925
I'm sorry.
01:06:21,525 --> 01:06:22,855
They claimed it was jesus.
01:06:23,175 --> 01:06:24,055
Marc Preston: Oh, okay.
01:06:24,055 --> 01:06:26,845
Byron Bowers: Just just walked in our
hotel and through the french door.
01:06:26,845 --> 01:06:27,085
You're sure
01:06:27,085 --> 01:06:28,265
Marc Preston: their name wasn't Jesus.
01:06:28,325 --> 01:06:29,855
I mean, considering where you know,
01:06:30,615 --> 01:06:33,805
Byron Bowers: yeah, no, I'm pretty sure
because they was like the Jesus is in
01:06:33,805 --> 01:06:35,595
that south part of those border towns.
01:06:36,455 --> 01:06:38,155
They a little bit, you know, aggressive.
01:06:40,305 --> 01:06:40,915
I miss it.
01:06:41,145 --> 01:06:42,105
Marc Preston: Thank you so much.
01:06:42,105 --> 01:06:42,805
I appreciate it.
01:06:42,805 --> 01:06:46,145
And I'm looking forward to seeing
Wonder Man and I don't know what
01:06:46,145 --> 01:06:47,815
it's going to be all about, but
I know you're going to be in it.
01:06:47,815 --> 01:06:51,275
So I got to watch it now, but
my friend to go have a wonderful
01:06:51,275 --> 01:06:56,425
weekend with your family and next
time you're over at a Cantor's Deli.
01:06:56,435 --> 01:06:57,505
Think of me fondly.
01:06:57,545 --> 01:06:59,155
All right, so I miss that place.
01:06:59,185 --> 01:06:59,745
Byron Bowers: I will.
01:06:59,970 --> 01:07:00,480
I will.
01:07:00,540 --> 01:07:02,000
I'll be down the street tomorrow.
01:07:02,010 --> 01:07:02,860
So yeah, I will.
01:07:02,890 --> 01:07:04,620
Marc Preston: But you take
care and hopefully we'll catch
01:07:04,620 --> 01:07:05,630
up down the line, my friend.
01:07:05,650 --> 01:07:06,110
Byron Bowers: Thank you.
01:07:08,070 --> 01:07:08,940
Marc Preston: All right, there you go.
01:07:08,940 --> 01:07:10,180
Byron Bowers.
01:07:10,250 --> 01:07:12,110
So enjoy this chat.
01:07:12,190 --> 01:07:16,440
He was just really a candid guy
talking about life experiences.
01:07:16,450 --> 01:07:19,629
I just love talking to people who
have a different outlook on life.
01:07:19,660 --> 01:07:24,930
Just an interesting guy, a cool arc to
his career and life and glad to, uh, have
01:07:24,930 --> 01:07:27,100
the opportunity to introduce him to you.
01:07:27,460 --> 01:07:32,540
Uh, again, you can check him out on the
TV show, Lady in the Lake, Apple TV plus.
01:07:32,790 --> 01:07:34,740
Uh, he acts alongside Natalie Portman.
01:07:34,740 --> 01:07:38,700
He does a great job on that show
and keep an eye out for him.
01:07:38,700 --> 01:07:42,400
He will be in the upcoming
Marvel show called Wonder Man.
01:07:42,660 --> 01:07:44,900
And, uh, that's about it for me today.
01:07:44,980 --> 01:07:47,070
Some cool episodes coming up next week.
01:07:47,130 --> 01:07:48,840
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Comedian | Actor | Writer | Producer
Byron Bowers is an actor, stand-up comedian, writer and producer who can currently be seen in the Apple TV+ limited series LADY IN THE LAKE alongside Natalie Portman and Moses Ingram. He also served as a consulting producer on the project.
In 2022, he released his debut comedy special SPIRITUAL N***A on FX/Hulu, directed by Har’el. In this deeply intimate hour, Bowers talks about the stigma of mental health, how tripping on psychedelic mushrooms made him understand his schizophrenic father, and how it altered the way he feels about his blackness.
Film credits include Steven Soderbergh’s crime thriller KIMI for HBO Max, opposite Zoe Kravitz; Steven Soderbergh’s NO SUDDEN MOVE for HBO Max starring Benicio Del Toro and Don Cheadle; Ricky Staub’s CONCRETE COWBOYS for Netflix starring Idris Elba; and Alma Har’el’s award-winning HONEY BOY for Amazon, starring Shia LaBeouf, Lucas Hedges, and Noah Jupe.
Television credits include Olivier Assayas’ limited series IRMA VEP for A24/HBO, starring opposite Alicia Vikander and executive produced by Sam Levinson; Lena Waithe’s award-winning original Showtime series THE CHI; and in Donald Glover and Janine Nabers’ series SWARM on Amazon opposite Dominique Fishback.
Originally from Atlanta, Bowers currently resides in Los Angeles.